mick writes:
As a long-term alcoholic, I find this all very depressing.
As a 20 yr alcoholic myself, I understand how you feel.
But I guess I see myself as an alcohol 'user', rather than an alcohol 'abuser'.
But that is not to say I don't have reservations about its effects, or that I probably shouldn't drink less than I do.
Still, I am definitely a 'functional alcoholic' - so far - but maybe I would feel forced to resort to more harmful 'de-stressors' if I didn't drink.
It has become my quick-and-always-effective 'de-stresser' at the end of every day, but I take measures to avoid overindulgance.
I drink to relax, rather than to 'feel good' - if I start feeling good I know I've had too much.
But isn't there that potential in some people to overindulge in something - whatever they find most to their liking at the substantive level, and then fail to control those impulses?
Check out this story:
Instant Millions Can't Halt Winners' Grim Slide - The New York Times
Exerpts:
"CORBIN, Ky., Nov. 30 - For Mack W. Metcalf and his estranged second wife, Virginia G. Merida, sharing a $34 million lottery jackpot in 2000 meant escaping poverty at breakneck speed.
Though they were divorced by 2001, it was as if their lives as rich people had taken on an eerie symmetry. So did their deaths.
In 2003, just three years after cashing in his winning ticket, Mr. Metcalf died of complications relating to alcoholism at the age of 45. Then on the day before Thanksgiving, Ms. Merida's partly decomposed body was found in her bed. Authorities said they have found no evidence of foul play and are looking into the possibility of a drug overdose. She was 51."
I think we have to be careful before we put ALL blame on someone's drug of choice in self-destruction. It doesn't mean it wil end that way for all users. Some people have to be held responsible for their own destruction, regardless of the 'tool' they select.
So it was for George Best...