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Author Topic:   How do I deal with a creationist family member?
DevilsAdvocate
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Message 6 of 86 (533980)
11-04-2009 6:25 AM
Reply to: Message 4 by hooah212002
11-04-2009 5:25 AM


Hooah,
I have the same problem with a family member, my brother. Unfortunately, there usually is no compromise or negotiating with these type of people when it comes to their religious faith. It really is not worth strain an already strained relation in order to win an argument.
I have gotten in several arguments with him both about religion and science over the past several years and gradually realized that the best remedy is to stay away from those topics and focus on your similarities. Super religious zealots, like my brother, rarely ever back down, admit their wrong or loose any ground as far as their religious or their Creationist faith.
Sometimes it is better just to try to keep the peace in a family relationship in order to salvage and maintain that relationship and keep it from disolving into the typical Hatfield-McCoy family feud.
Just my thoughts.
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One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We're no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It is simply too painful to acknowledge -- even to ourselves -- that we've been so credulous. - Carl Sagan, The Fine Art of Baloney Detection
"You can't convince a believer of anything; for their belief is not based on evidence, it's based on a deep seated need to believe." - Carl Sagan
"It is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World

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DevilsAdvocate
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Message 7 of 86 (533989)
11-04-2009 7:19 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by hooah212002
11-04-2009 1:12 AM


My question is this: how can I talk to her and show her, not that she is wrong, but, to be more accepting of different viewpoints.
Different people have different personalities and require different approaches. Some are more willing to concede they are in the wrong than others. However, when it comes to religion, "being accepting of different viewpoints" equivocates to being a watered-down Christian, Muslim or fill-in-the blank relious person. Therefore they will resist being accepting of other religious beliefs because it is built into their religious dogma to be intollerant of other religious beliefs as a religious survival mechanism.

One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We're no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It is simply too painful to acknowledge -- even to ourselves -- that we've been so credulous. - Carl Sagan, The Fine Art of Baloney Detection
"You can't convince a believer of anything; for their belief is not based on evidence, it's based on a deep seated need to believe." - Carl Sagan
"It is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World

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