Legend writes:
so you don't think that this woman, being in a drunken state, said something to verbally hurt the man she was arguing with, but instead you think she set out to send a message to the whole Pakistani community ?!??
Nope, I don't think she set out to send a message to the whole Pakistani community, not intentionally anyway. Just like those men who killed Matthew Sheppard didn't set out to send a message to the whole gay community when they decided on a whim to kidnap Matthew, torture him for hours, and left him to die tied to a fence. But the result was the same. Gay people in that city were terrorized because of the act. Many gay people immediately moved out of that state out of fear for their lives.
I'm not using it as an excuse...
Yes, you are. If you ever intended to even imply that the woman would have done or said something different if she hadn't been drinking, it's an excuse.
Hell, I know I've called my wife/brother/friends names after I've had a few. It's no excuse for my behaviour but at the same time doesn't mean that I really hate my wife or that I really want my brother dead. It's just a combination of emotional charge and drink. Just like with this woman.
You know, speaking as an LEO, it's funny how people who realize they do and say hurtful things when intoxicated continue to get intoxicated. Especially in domestic cases, it's always the booze, and it's always "I really love my wife" after beating the snot out of her. But that's another story.
To assume that she was attacking the whole community because she drunkenly called him a racial epithet is -at best- gross overreaction or -at worst- a total reality disconnect.
It's not an overreaction. Again, how would you react if you find out someone in your christian community has been attacked by, say, someone from the muslim community if your christian community happens to be living smack in the middle of an overwhelming muslim majority country?
I hope you realize this is more than just a hypothetical situation. In countries like Iraq, whole communities have voluntarily relocated simply because they were christian and felt threatened enough by verbal and sometimes physical attacks to some of their members from the muslim majority.
I'd feel sorry for the victim but otherwise I'd be unaffected.
Ding ding ding ding, and thus we have a perfect demonstration of why crimes against humanity have been even allowed to happen at all. I think I understand what's missing here. It is the perceived unempathetic nature that is the difference between us.
Why would I? What makes you think I'm a Christian? You know for a fact that I'd be lying is a sweeping statement! Please explain yourself.
Because it is human nature to identify oneself with a specific group or groups. Suppose Chinese people go on a rampage and begin attacking specifically American citizens abroad. It wouldn't just be crimes against anyone. It would be crimes against AMERICAN CITIZENS. You of all people should realize this because of recent execution of a mentally unstable British citizen by the Chinese. It's not just the execution of anyone. It's the execution of a British citizen who wasn't given a fair trial.
Minority groups are vulnerable. We know this from history. It even went as far as the ovens. Perhaps you have enjoyed being part of the majority all your life that you are delusional enough to think you wouldn't be affected if you were to live as a minority. I don't know. But the fact remains that people belonging to minority groups feel threatened every time members of their community got hurt. It's not just an attack on that person. It's an attack on the whole community.