Did Mod cause the collapse of evcforum?

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If I was an incredibly disingenuous and despicable person, I probably wouldn't have told the forum who I was.

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Sure, like the thief who is so impressed with their handiwork, they beg to be caught, so their brilliance might be vindicated.

Sorry if you mistake my meaning. I don't mean to say you are particularily brilliant, or that you are not. I only wished to point out that you when you 'outed' yourself, you seemed pleased with your duplicity and surprised that others could not see past your mask.The fact that you 'hid' behind another name, whether you thought anyone with half a brain should have recognized your 'clues', is what I was calling - disingenuous. I understand why you weren't telling people who you were. Regardless, you were not being candid about who you were.As far as hiding online is concerned, it isn't too hard to do so when most users are not in the habit of digging through every reference you make about the past to deduce who you might be.Finally, I don't want to derail this thread and certainly don't want you to feel I have any animosity toward you. Congratulations on your current open-mindedness, which I have always felt this board was about.

Not to confuse the issue of incest but it also depends on your culture, what would constitute incest.For example: In the Hawaiian system of kinship, what you would consider to be your cousin, would be considered your brother/sister, and I think considered to fall under the incest taboo.In other kinship systems, it is considered acceptable and maybe even desirable to marry your cross-cousin.Even though many in western culture describe the offspring of their mother or fathers siblings as cousins and not brother or sister, there can be a stigma associated with such a pairing.

I was talking about siblings above the age of consent.