why is the atheist obsessed with the Bible

I'm not obsessed with the Bible and Christianity. It's Christianity that is obsessed with me.All my life I've been told that I have to be a certain way to be acceptable, and if I am not behaving or being this certain way, then I am not an acceptable person.Most people tell me this, theists and non theists alike, but where Christians come in is that they tell me that I have to live by the Bible or I'm just a little monster who goes around doing criminal things because I am not a proper Christian who doesn't live by the Bible. It even says so in the Bible.So, I look it it up in the Bible. The Bible doesn't say that. But the Christian goes "LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA" and tells me I am wrong and that I have to live my life by the Bible.That's why we become knowledgeable about the Bible.We wouldn't be if you Christians wouldn't be so obsessed with us and let us live our own lives and stopped forcing your beliefs on to everyone because God told you to to.For the most part, we just want to live our own lives as we see fit, and if there truly is a God and this God is a true kind and loving God, he will judge us on our own merits and flaws and not on what anybody else says.somebody else.It's just like an instigator to go on instigating things then cry foul and play the victim card when they're the ones at fault.