neither you nor any other person has shown that any evolutionary processes were responsible for the alleged evolution of the mammalian ear.
Indeed we have not. And we don't need to in order to refute Behe. IC is a claim that something
cannot evolve; all that is necessary to refute that is to show that it
could evolve, not that it
did evolve.
If Behe had claimed that the ear
did not evolve, that would be a different story; but that's not what he claimed (perhaps because then his argument-from-ignorance would be painfully obvious instead of slightly concealed).