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Author Topic:   Gay\transgender -- not by genetics, not by upbringing, not by choice
Straggler
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Message 71 of 276 (660952)
05-01-2012 4:28 AM
Reply to: Message 70 by New Cat's Eye
05-01-2012 12:16 AM


Body Integrity Identity Disorder
I had never heard of BIID before. From your link:
CS Link writes:
Symptoms of BIID sufferers are often keenly felt. The sufferer feels incomplete with four limbs, but is confident amputation will fix this. The sufferer knows exactly what part of which limb should be amputated to relieve the suffering. The sufferer has intense feelings of envy toward amputees. They often pretend, both in private and in public, that they are an amputee.
Link writes:
The idea of medically amputating a BIID sufferer's undesired limb is highly controversial. Some support amputation for patients with BIID that cannot be treated through psychotherapy or medication. Others emphasize the irreversibility of amputation, and promote the study of phantom limbs to treat the patient from a psychological perspective instead.
I have to admit BIID does seem like something that is comparable to sexual re-assignment in the context of this debate.
I suppose if it genuinely does solve a problem for the individual in question then I am not against either removing limbs or penises in principle.
But if the issue is a mental one then psychological treatment seems preferable just because the physical route is so drastic and one-way.
I wonder what the evidence says about whether or not the lives of people who do have such surgery improve or not. I suppose that should ultimately be the determining factor. What is most liley to work for the person in question.

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Straggler
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Message 72 of 276 (660953)
05-01-2012 4:39 AM
Reply to: Message 69 by onifre
05-01-2012 12:08 AM


Re: Lets post some facts
Here is part of what you yourself quoted:
link writes:
While sex reassignment surgery has definite medical-surgical and psychological limitations, there is insufficient evidence to warrant its termination. In deed, there is evidence suggesting that some gender dysphoric patients benefit primarily from sex reassignment surgery (reference 12 and an unpublished study by S. Satterfield). The problem is how to identify these patients.
So the facts you posted seem to support transgender surgery in some cases and purely psychological treatments for others.
So the question becomes one of identifying which patients are best treated by which method (rather than simply opposing transgender surgery for anyone).
Right?
Edited by Straggler, : No reason given.

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Straggler
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Message 76 of 276 (660970)
05-01-2012 8:16 AM
Reply to: Message 73 by onifre
05-01-2012 7:01 AM


Re: Et tu, Straggler?
Oni writes:
Et tu, Straggler?
I'm ill and bored and you entertain me.
Oni writes:
And from that you are saying the facts claim support of sex reassignment surgery?
The quotes you yourself have supplied seem to suggest that in most cases it hasn't helped but that in a minority of cases it has.
So the question becomes one of identifying which patients are best treated by which method (rather than simply opposing transgender surgery for anyone).
Right?
I'm simply trying to find out if you are just making a blanket objection or if you accept (as per the findings in your own quotes) that in some cases surgery can be successful and is therefore a legitimate course of action in these cases.

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Straggler
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Message 78 of 276 (660997)
05-01-2012 11:35 AM
Reply to: Message 77 by onifre
05-01-2012 9:00 AM


Re: Et tu, Straggler?
Oni writes:
I know that was a shot at me....
Of course. But meant in the nicest way possible.
Oni writes:
I remain skeptical.
So if further research leads to the conclusion that surgery can be demonstrated to be successful in some cases you would support surgery in those cases. Right?
This should be about what works for the individual shouldn't it? It shouldn't be about whether you or I can conceive of a situation where we would want our dicks surgically removed.
Oni writes:
But when I started this debate, I was told there are many case studies that say the people are better off after. No one has as of yet presented that.
Fair enough. Those who made that claim should present those case studies.
Oni writes:
I did some leg work but only found conflicting views.
I fear that until we understand the human brain a lot better than we do now all we are going to get on these sorts of subjects is "conflicting views" and lots of prejudiced assertions.

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Straggler
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Message 82 of 276 (661007)
05-01-2012 12:04 PM
Reply to: Message 81 by onifre
05-01-2012 11:57 AM


Re: Et tu, Straggler?
Oni writes:
So given this, which side do you stand on? Currently... pro or against?
Like I said to CS I don't have any objection in principle.
On the basis of the evidence it seems unlikely to have the desired effect. But it might do in some cases.
So I would suggest that surgery should be seen as a last resort and only contemplated after other options have been exhausted and after making absolutely sure that the person in question knows all the risks and issues that the evidence brings to light.

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Straggler
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Message 90 of 276 (661067)
05-01-2012 6:50 PM
Reply to: Message 88 by onifre
05-01-2012 5:25 PM


Re: Et tu, Straggler?
Straggler writes:
So I would suggest that surgery should be seen as a last resort and only contemplated after other options have been exhausted and after making absolutely sure that the person in question knows all the risks and issues that the evidence brings to light.
Oni writes:
But given that, as the evidence shows, the majority of cases end up being worse, and only in a small number of cases it might be a positive thing. Shouldn't the final determination be at the discretion of a doctor, and not up to the individual?
A doctor, a psychologist and the individual in question ALL need to be thoroughly involved in the decision.
As I understand it gender re-assignment surgery isn't done lightly. It involves all the expertise the medical profession can muster and some fairly stringent requirements of the patient in order to prove their seriousness.
What we need here is more knowledge about the condition and what works and what doesn't.
Oni writes:
I mean, how can someone make such a determination when even the experts can't figure it out?
I don't think anyone is suggesting that simply rocking up and requesting that ones penis is removed, because that is what the individual in question has decided, should be considered a viable option.
The question is whether or not such surgery is ever justified. Do you accept that in some cases it is justified? Or not?

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Straggler
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Message 92 of 276 (661100)
05-02-2012 4:51 AM
Reply to: Message 91 by onifre
05-02-2012 12:26 AM


Re: Et tu, Straggler?
Oni writes:
If the majority show a negative effect, why then should an individual be consulted as to what their opinion on the matter is?
Only the individual in question knows how desperate they are. You can't seriously be suggesting that the decision as to whether to surgically remove someones genitals or not be taken independently of the person in question.
Straggler writes:
The question is whether or not such surgery is ever justified. Do you accept that in some cases it is justified? Or not?
Oni writes:
No not all.
Did you mean "No not at all"...?
Oni writes:
I think there isn't enough evidence to support such a drastic operation.
If all other currently available alternatives have been considered, the patient is fully aware of the risks, fully aware of the failure rate and yet still wants to go ahead because they feel that they just cannot go on in life as things are - I don't see any reason to deny them the opportunity to try something that might work. As your link writes:
quote:
While sex reassignment surgery has definite medical-surgical and psychological limitations, there is insufficient evidence to warrant its termination. In deed, there is evidence suggesting that some gender dysphoric patients benefit primarily from sex reassignment surgery (reference 12 and an unpublished study by S. Satterfield).
Oni writes:
So for now, I say put down the knife and get to work. Hold off on any surgery until this phenomenon is actually understood.
If the patient is reaching life threatening desperation levels then holding off on surgery may not be the best course of action. Whilst I agree with you about the need for more evidence I don't think there is sufficient evidence to warrant its termination.
Oni writes:
I'm still waiting on ALL the evidence that was going to show it had a positive post-op effect.
Some evidence that this surgery does actually have a positive outcome has been noticeably absent from this thread. I'll grant you that. The closest we have are some of the quotes you provided.

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Straggler
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Message 96 of 276 (661112)
05-02-2012 9:42 AM
Reply to: Message 94 by onifre
05-02-2012 8:47 AM


Re: Just to clarify
Straggler writes:
If the patient is reaching life threatening desperation levels then holding off on surgery may not be the best course of action. Whilst I agree with you about the need for more evidence I don't think there is sufficient evidence to warrant its termination.
Oni writes:
So 1 particular report said maybe for a very small group, whilst the rest said not beneficial at all in fact the person is worse, and you feel it is valid to hang one the 1 link that was vague about their position?
I think it is valid to point out that if things can't actually get any worse for someone (e.g. they are going to commit suicide because they cannot live in the body they have) then doing something that might work doesn't seem unreasonable.
In such a case isn't it worth a shot?

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Straggler
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Message 110 of 276 (661334)
05-04-2012 2:57 PM
Reply to: Message 97 by ringo
05-02-2012 1:27 PM


Re: Just to clarify
Ringo writes:
So if somebody can't live without being Emperor of the World, should we comply?
If, after extensive psychiatric and psychological investigation, giving them the freedom to wear an eye-patch and call themself Napoleaon despite being wholly cogniscent of the fact that they are not the 18th century leader of France alleviates their suffering - Then yes. Why not?
If however being emperor of the world involves having the power to have be-headed anyone whom he so designates - Then NO.

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Straggler
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Message 147 of 276 (662008)
05-11-2012 3:17 PM
Reply to: Message 111 by ringo
05-04-2012 3:36 PM


Re: Just to clarify
But how are you (or anyone else) being asked to do anything other than tolerate, accept or understand the "masquerade"...?
And why not do that in situations where the alternative is a degree of desperation that leads to the taking of one's own life?

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Straggler
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Message 148 of 276 (662010)
05-11-2012 3:20 PM
Reply to: Message 123 by onifre
05-05-2012 5:17 PM


Re: Just to clarify
If you want to suggest further investigation is necessary - I won't argue.
But until such questions are emphatically answered why deny people potentially life saving treatment because you have an ideological problem?

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Straggler
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Message 157 of 276 (662525)
05-16-2012 12:26 PM
Reply to: Message 155 by onifre
05-15-2012 11:13 AM


Re: Just to clarify
Oni writes:
If not, at what point should the doctor feel this person is not menatlly stable enough to make such drastic demands?
Do people get sex change operations simply because they have demanded it? I thought it took considerable medical and psychological evaluations in order to be accepted for such surgery.
Are you telling me people in the US can wander into a clinic, demand to have their genitals removed because they think they might prefer it that way and then get accepted for surgery if they simply say they will kill themselves if their demands are not met?
Is that how you think it works?
Straggler writes:
But until such questions are emphatically answered why deny people potentially life saving treatment because you have an ideological problem?
Oni writes:
Life saving? Realllyyyy
Isn't that for doctors, psychologists to assess based on detailed evaluation of the patient over an extended period of time? Who the hell are you to say no?
I am mystified as to your objection to surgery on some sort of ideological principle. If it is genuinely deemed the best course of action for the patient (in the absence of superior and less drastic alternatives that may or may not appear at some later date) - Why should it be removed as an option?
Oni writes:
If you do however feel they should give in to the request of those threatening to kill themselves then, well, you're crazier than I thought.
That isn't how it works. As you full know.

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Straggler
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Message 158 of 276 (662527)
05-16-2012 12:47 PM
Reply to: Message 151 by ringo
05-12-2012 1:01 PM


Re: Just to clarify
Ringo writes:
I've ben saying that if people are tolerated, accepted and understood as they are, they won't need to worry about wether they're "acting like a man" or acting like a woman" at all.
Is that what you think the symptoms of transsexualism are? A desire to "act like" a member of the opposite sex?
Ringo writes:
Aybody who is contemplating taking his/her own life should be treated as somebody who is contemplating taking his/her own life. The reason for the desparation isn't particularly important.
I would say the reason someone is contemplating taking their own life is very relevant to why it is they are contemplating taking their own life.
How can it not be?
Ringo writes:
What neds to be fixed is the lapse in logic that concludes that suicide is the solution.
If human beings were wholly logical automatons I doubt transgenderism would be an issue for anyone any more than Mac having a deep psychological conviction that it is a PC is a widespread problem.
Fortunately humans are not wholly logical automatons. But this does mean we need to find ways to tackle issues of human subjectivity without simply asserting that such issues are illogical.

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Message 164 of 276 (662825)
05-19-2012 5:00 AM
Reply to: Message 160 by ringo
05-18-2012 12:20 PM


Re: Just to clarify
Ringo writes:
Whatever way anybody wants to act, let them act that way.
But transsexualism isn't about "acting that way" is it? It's about self-identity. It's about a mind-body mismatch.
To use a rather extreme comparison to make the mind-body mismatch point: If you woke up one day to find yourself in the body of a baboon would others agreeing to treat you as a human be enough to resolve your plight?
Or would you think that resolving your mind-body mismatch might be a preferable solution? If surgery could resolve the issue wouldn't you opt for it?
Ringo writes:
The real problem is his idea that suicide is the solution to his problems.
If I woke up to find myself in a body that I felt made any life impossible to live (e.g. completely paralysed) I might well prefer death.
If I could change that body the need to contemplate death as a solution would obviously vanish.

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Message 166 of 276 (663066)
05-21-2012 5:46 AM
Reply to: Message 165 by ringo
05-19-2012 12:05 PM


Identity
Ringo writes:
You're assuming that the body is wrong and needs to be changed.
I'm not assuming anything. I'm simply pointing out that transsexualism is about self-identity and a mind-body mismatch.
Ringo writes:
So where does that idea of a "wrong body" come from? What creates the "internal identity"?
The mind.
Ringo writes:
How is that different from somebody who wants to have a healthy leg amputated because it "feels wrong"?
I think there are similarities with 'Body Identity Integrity Disorder' but that these can be overstated. One's sex is a far more fundamental component of self-identity than how many limbs one has. If I lost a leg I would still be me. If I somehow swapped bodies and had a different set of hormones and even a different brain physiology how much of "me" was retained would be a difficult and interesting question to try and answer.
Ringp writes:
Is there such a thing as a white man trapped in a black man's body? Would race reassignment surgery be the solution?
That is an interesting question. Has there ever been a case of this?
Ringo writes:
Why not change the mind instead?
Firstly - If we had psychological treatments that worked and which patients were happy with then I doubt anyone would be advocating surgery as an answer.
Secondly - The reason people may not want their minds altered is because we are our minds. And the fear is to lose self-identity.
To use my rather extreme mind-body mismatch comparison once again: If you woke up one day to find yourself in the body of a baboon do you think that resolving your mind-body mismatch by changing your mind to that of a baboon would be a viable answer to your plight?
Stragger writes:
If I woke up to find myself in a body that I felt made any life impossible to live (e.g. completely paralysed) I might well prefer death.
If I could change that body the need to contemplate death as a solution would obviously vanish.
Ringo writes:
It isn't obvious at all. Next week, your girlfriend would leave you because you mutilated your genitals - and suicide would be the solution again.
You are assuming that someone who deems death preferable to to existing in a body that makes life unbearable will deem death preferable to every single other problem in life as well. I don't think that is a justifiable assumption on your part.

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