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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
I was with you until this:
And even the choice to transition genders is not just a matter of preference - it's correcting a problem. Transgendered individuals don't just want boobs or a penis. They aren't crazy. It's become cliche, but they really do feel trapped in the wrong body. This is only a recent phenomenon, if you could even call it that, due to a few sick doctors fucking with what nature built and now "in the wrong body" becomes a thing that can be said. I'm a HUGE supporter of gay rights but certainly not of slicing up one's body to change their entire gender. I don't know how a doctor can ethically do that to a human being. I'm all for gays doing whatever, my record speaks for itself here in that debate. And I wouldn't tell someone they can't feel like a woman or a man if they were in the opposite body. But for a medical doctor to use their skills and knowledge to butcher someone up like that is frankly fucked up. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
Have you looked at the evidentially data collected looking at transpeople's experiences and well-being following corrective surgery? Corrective surgery? Wow... ok. Correcting what, exactly? What are people going to say, really? They're now fucked, and forced to live with the choice they've made. I've read of there being plenty of emotional problems after the surgery requiring therapy and counciling. Let's not pretend it's all good afterwards. It should be illegal for doctors to use their skills of healing people in such an outrageous fashion. It's sick. Again, people can do whatever they want and feel like they're a woman all they want. But doctors should not butcher people simply because they requested it. There is such a thing as ethics in the medical field and I find it extremely unethical to perform such a "corrective" surgery. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined:
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Maybe you'd like to answer the question I asked earlier: Where do you stand on race reassignment surgery? My guess is that some people would feel better after having their race "corrected". We saw how well it turned out for Michael Jackson. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
My sense is that you and Oni are a little too hung up on bathrooms, or something. I have no hang ups when it comes to sexuality. I could careless. I'm just calling into question the ethical aspect of performing such a surgery one a human being simply because they feel like a different gender. That's not a doctors job, in my opinion. - Oni Edited by onifre, : No reason given.
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
I don't see the difference between that and someone who feels that their boobs are too small or their dick is too big. Yes you do. There is a huge difference between a girl getting bigger tits and going through a sex change operation.
Americans spend billions on elective surgeries. Eledtive surgery? I thought it was corrective surgery?
Saving lives aren't the only things doctors do. Unfortunately it's also used to satisfy an increasingly shallow societies dream look. Soon all black girls will be blonde girls and all short guys tall. Then we'll be perfect, and happy. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
It is corrective surgery, though insurance providers don;t recognize it as such here in the States. I have to agree with them, then. What is it correcting, exactly? Nature made a female, was that incorrect? If a black kid feels as though he'll have a better chance of being employed if he changes his race, would that too be corrective surgery?
Did you know that German healthcare will cover the full transition, from initial hormone therapy to the eventual reassignment surgery? Did you know Germans are into getting shit on during sex? I seen it!
hy? Because one of these is indicative of a mental disorder, and the other is a person in need of medical and surgical help. How do you distinguish between someone wanting to cut off an arm or someone wanting to cut off their penis, if both are requested to a medical doctor to perform surgically?
The very same attitudes you and others are espousing here are why transgendered people often feel alienated even within the GLBT community. I see them as mentally ill people in need of some introspective therapy. Not surgery for profit then tossed out into the street as though they were "fixed."
It's curious that all of you have such strong opinions regarding how "fucked up" it must be to want to have your gender reassigned Easy, before you start hugging all the trees again. I never said it was fucked up to feel that way. I said it was fucked up for a doctor to perform such a surgery. The person needs mental help.
If you actually took the time to speak to and understand the position of a transgendered person, you might find your opinions would change. I would love anyone, whatever gender or post-op what have you they were. It's not about the individual. I would also defend that individual from bullying or any other form of aggression toward them, physically if I had too. My point is only that doctors should not be cutting someone up who is, in my opinion, in need of menatl help. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
By degree, I suppose, but you leave unstated what the exact difference actually is. So I, you know, don't believe you. Yeah, I left it unstated because I don't believe you are a fucking idiot and can see the difference. If this is the rabbit hole you need to go to in this debate, then we can end this here. It has been zero fun lately to debate here, mostly because of disingenuous shit like this. Plus it's turned into Facebook, how utterly annoying. It was more fun being dark Oni...
If it's justifiable as an elective, then it's certainly justifiable as a corrective. That doesn't make any sense.
And if it is corrective, as you're now willing to admit Que? I was merely asking which YOU wanted to use, since it seems interchangable for you. Corrective surgery is Lasik, correcting vision. A sex change is correcting nothing. At all.
Maybe. It's really easy for normal people to tell others that you have to play the hand you're dealt. Define normal...? I don't know who is normal and who is not normal. Between the black girl and the blonde in my example, which is normal and which one is playing the hand they were dealt? Same goes for a short person and a tall person. Which is normal? You've lost me in your ridiculousness, so if you could please try to make some sense.
While you're at it, you should throw away your contact lenses and celebrate the natural diversity in visual acuity, don't you think? Who cares if it means you can't drive or read? Oh lets see, eyes are bad, need correcting... yep, that's corrective surgery. Nothing physically wrong with those having a sex change. It is therefore NOT corrective. They elect to do it, sure. But they are not correcting anything unless you mean to tell me nature fucked up making them the wrong sex? - Oni Edited by onifre, : No reason given.
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
Facts I could dig up on the matter. Doesn't favor well with those supporting sex changes, mostly because it doesn't improve the lives of those under-going the surgery. I'll provide quotes, you can read the whole thing if you like.
Sex changes are not effective, say researchers quote: Long-Term Follow-Up of Transsexual Persons Undergoing Sex Reassignment Surgery: Cohort Study in Sweden quote: This one seems unsure as to the long term effects and makes reference to the procedure possibly being abandoned eventual except for very very few you would qualify. You can read the rest here: Sex Reassignment Surgery: Historical, Bioethical, and Theoretical Issues quote: So can any of the supporters provide evidence for the long term effects being good? - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
First, I quoted three studies, two of which show the lack of success. The third, the one you chose to quote, seemed almost unsure.
From the same one you quoted from:
quote: Here it points to the abandonment of sex reassignment surgery (except for a very few select patients.)
So the facts you posted seem to support transgender surgery in some cases and purely psychological treatments for others. Et tu, Straggler? I posted three quotes on the matter, two of which showed no support for it, saying the patients were in fact worse. One claimed MAYBE it will be ok for a few patients. But also went on to say: As clinicians learn new ways to diagnose and treat transsexualism, either sex reassignment surgery will be abandoned as a routine treatment modality... And from that you are saying the facts claim support of sex reassignment surgery? Really? At best it's saying maybe it will be something to do, but also, it may be abandoned all together. But the other two studies showed zero support for it. So no, the question is NOT who gets it. The question STILL remains is it the right thing to do? Two studies say absolutely NOT. One says maybe for some very few select people, but perhaps not at all. Can someone post some facts that show a clear support for it? - Oni Edited by onifre, : No reason given. Edited by onifre, : No reason given.
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
Bye. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
I'm ill and bored and you entertain me. I know that was a shot at me, but I don't mind it when you do it. Hope you feel better. Whiskey...lots of it.
I'm simply trying to find out if you are just making a blanket objection or if you accept (as per the findings in your own quotes) that in some cases surgery can be successful and is therefore a legitimate course of action in these cases. Personally I don't think there is enough evidence of the long-term effects to know if, even in the small cases, it is a good idea. There seems to be conflicting opinions by the experts. One report says in small cases it has been good, the other two say that it is worse for the patient. I remain skeptical. But when I started this debate, I was told there are many case studies that say the people are better off after. No one has as of yet presented that. I did some leg work but only found conflicting views. I remain skeptical. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
Of course. But meant in the nicest way possible. *double pistols*
So if further research leads to the conclusion that surgery can be demonstrated to be successful in some cases you would support surgery in those cases. Right? This should be about what works for the individual shouldn't it? It shouldn't be about whether you or I can conceive of a situation where we would want our dicks surgically removed. Of course. It was never about whether I can conceive of it or not, it was simply a concern that the best interest of an indivudual was not being served by having such a drastic surgery.
I fear that until we understand the human brain a lot better than we do now all we are going to get on these sorts of subjects is "conflicting views" and lots of prejudiced assertions. This whole debate could have started and ended with that position right there. I will further say, until such time as the brain is fully understood, or better understood perhaps I should say, performing such a surgery should not be allowed. Because, as some evidence has shown, it can in fact make the person worse than before. It seems by the evidence that that is the case in the majority of cases, except for the very few where it may have benefited. So given this, which side do you stand on? Currently... pro or against? - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
So I would suggest that surgery should be seen as a last resort and only contemplated after other options have been exhausted and after making absolutely sure that the person in question knows all the risks and issues that the evidence brings to light. But given that, as the evidence shows, the majority of cases end up being worse, and only in a small number of cases it might be a positive thing. Shouldn't the final determination be at the discretion of a doctor, and not up to the individual? I mean, how can someone make such a determination when even the experts can't figure it out? - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
Me too - but skepticism apparently isnit allowed here. It seems like we got them to come around.
I was wondering last night how often the medical establishment looks for a surgical solution to a non-physical problem. Anytime it can buy the doctors an new sports car. - Oni
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onifre Member (Idle past 2977 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined: |
A doctor, a psychologist and the individual in question ALL need to be thoroughly involved in the decision. Let me rephrase it this way: If the majority show a negative effect, why then should an individual be consulted as to what their opinion on the matter is? It involves something far beyond their own expertice. And in fact, even the experts are a bit confussed themselves.
The question is whether or not such surgery is ever justified. Do you accept that in some cases it is justified? Or not? No not all. I think there isn't enough evidence to support such a drastic operation. I feel, even in the small cases, since there is also skepticism there too, a lot more study needs to be done. So for now, I say put down the knife and get to work. Hold off on any surgery until this phenomenon is actually understood. - Oni PS. I'm still waiting on ALL the evidence that was going to show it had a positive post-op effect. Not from you Straggler but from those who made that claim.
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