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Author Topic:   German judge rules child circumcision as child abuse.
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Message 30 of 410 (666692)
06-29-2012 2:22 PM
Reply to: Message 22 by jar
06-29-2012 1:46 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
On Tattoos, I have no opinion and so believe that should be left up to the parents and their doctors.
Don't you think a child has a right not to be tattooed against their will?

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Message 34 of 410 (666696)
06-29-2012 2:25 PM
Reply to: Message 11 by Jon
06-29-2012 11:44 AM


Re: Be Happy with who you ARE!
And a foreskin is just that: a foreskin.
Right, it's a foreskin - a useful and extremely nerve-rich portion of the penis, the loss of which is known to be blunting to sexual pleasure.
So what if the parents want to cut it off their kids?
What if the kid grows up and wants to have had one? Don't they have a right to their own bodies? Certainly we allow medical necessity to override bodily sovereignty when it comes to children - or adults, even, sometimes. But we don't allow cosmetic necessity to do so, and we shouldn't allow religious "necessity" to do so either.

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Message 35 of 410 (666697)
06-29-2012 2:26 PM
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06-29-2012 2:25 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
Plenty of cultures tattoo children.
But should they? That was my question.
Or is it just that you don't believe there's any such thing as a human right?

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crashfrog
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Message 93 of 410 (666764)
06-29-2012 4:52 PM
Reply to: Message 31 by jar
06-29-2012 2:24 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
I don't think a child though has many rights.
Well, ok.
Could I circumcise your child? Why or why not? Is that because children are property, or is it because they have a right to bodily integrity that, when justified, we allow a parent (guardian, etc) to overrule?
If children are property, why do they have a right not to be sexually abused? Surely, if the parent's judgement is overriding in all cases then a parent's decision to force his child to service his sexual needs can't be gainsaid.
On the other hand, if (as seems reasonable) we don't allow parents to harm their children, then I don't see how the practice of circumcision - which certainly causes harm to the child - can be justified.

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crashfrog
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Message 94 of 410 (666765)
06-29-2012 4:56 PM
Reply to: Message 37 by Jon
06-29-2012 2:36 PM


Re: Be Happy with who you ARE!
Evidence?
Evidence that it's nerve-rich? Crack a Gray's Anatomy.
No. They're children.
So they have no rights at all? Then why do we prevent people from sexually abusing children? Even the parents of the child?
Children aren't the property of their parents.

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Message 95 of 410 (666766)
06-29-2012 4:58 PM
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06-29-2012 2:46 PM


Re: Be Happy with who you ARE!
A foreskin to a circumcised infant is like a handgun to a Canadian: if you've never had one, you don't miss it.
If it's not "missed", then how do you explain the practice of "foreskin restoration", linked to by Jon earlier? Why would people have restored something they don't "miss"?
Even people born blind can "miss" the ability to see, because we're able to communicate our experiences to each other, and via imagination, experience their perspective.

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Message 96 of 410 (666767)
06-29-2012 5:00 PM
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06-29-2012 3:08 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
So should we ban everything that parents do that might cause some inconvenience in the future?
How about just the things that are medical amputations performed for cosmetic or religious purpose?

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Message 98 of 410 (666770)
06-29-2012 5:02 PM
Reply to: Message 55 by dronestar
06-29-2012 3:28 PM


Anyways, . . . the women seemed to be horny little islanders. They were surprisingly outspoken FOR the ritual. They said they prefer the taste.
I prefer redheads with c-cup titties, myself.
Does that mean that all 9-year-old girls should be forced to dye their hair and get implants? It's great to have preferences, but aren't you at all troubled by the idea that your preference means that someone else has to get surgery?

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Message 99 of 410 (666772)
06-29-2012 5:05 PM
Reply to: Message 63 by dronestar
06-29-2012 3:47 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
From what I understand, female circumcision is done to remove the pleasure aspect of sex from the women to inhibit her from having pre-marital sex so she can marry as a virgin, and to inhibit her from wanting to cheat on her future husband.
Circumcision was traditionally justified by reducing the boy's propensity to masturbate. The parallel is highly credible.

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Message 100 of 410 (666774)
06-29-2012 5:09 PM
Reply to: Message 68 by New Cat's Eye
06-29-2012 4:02 PM


Re: AAP on hygiene
There's plenty of medical procedures done on children that they don't consent to.
Because they're medically justified - the benefits outweigh the violation of sovereignty. But there's no medical justification for circumcision - only a cosmetic and religious justification.
I mean, great - you wanted your circumcision, and you're happy that it happened before you could remember it. But in order for you to get yours that way, I had to be forced to get mine that way, and I didn't want it.
How is that fair? Why does the fact that you wanted a circumcision mean that we both had to get one?

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Message 106 of 410 (666780)
06-29-2012 5:18 PM
Reply to: Message 82 by ringo
06-29-2012 4:28 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
Parents have the right and the responsibility to decide, in collaboration with medical practitioners, what's best for their children's health.
But circumcision isn't justified by the child's health; it's "justified" by the child's cosmetic appearance and the parents' religious or cultural affiliation.
And we don't allow parents to violate the integrity of their children's bodies, in permanent ways, on those bases. We don't because that opens the door to a wide variety of abuses - breast implants for 9-year-olds, tattooed infants, even sexual abuse of children. Parents have a limited, not unilateral, right to violate the bodily integrity of their children.

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Message 107 of 410 (666781)
06-29-2012 5:20 PM
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06-29-2012 5:16 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
I didn't think you Americans were allowed to ban religious practices.
Certainly we're allowed to. Religion doesn't trump the law. Otherwise you could simply assert a religious justification any time you wanted to break the law.

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Message 108 of 410 (666782)
06-29-2012 5:24 PM
Reply to: Message 101 by jar
06-29-2012 5:10 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
Well, so far I have seen no evidence that circumcision causes any harm to the child.
The harm is that they have their foreskin amputated without their consent, and needlessly subjected, as infants, to a profound infection risk and the pain of surgery performed without anesthesia. The burden of evidence is on those who would assert "benefits" to the procedure.
I simply don't think I have a right to tell some other parent whether or not they can have their son, circumcised.
I think you do have that right; the same right that allows you to tell a parent that he cannot suck his son's dick should allow you to tell him that he can't have a mohel suck it, either.
That does not mean that I favor exploitation of children for sex or that the parent has a blanket right to force sex on a child.
But what's the basis for you to object, if you don't believe that the child has human rights?

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crashfrog
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Message 110 of 410 (666784)
06-29-2012 5:26 PM
Reply to: Message 109 by ringo
06-29-2012 5:25 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
We allow circumcision.
So circumcision should be allowed because it's allowed? Perfectly circular, I guess, but not an argument.

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crashfrog
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Message 113 of 410 (666787)
06-29-2012 5:29 PM
Reply to: Message 111 by Jon
06-29-2012 5:27 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
You just described every surgical procedure known to humankind.
Yes - which is why if you perform an unnecessary surgical procedure on an adult without their consent, it's the crime of assault. It's actually super-dangerous to cut into people's bodies with knives. People get killed that way!
Now go back to the definition I brought up in Message 26 and show how circumcision impairs the use of the penis or destroys it beyond recognition.
What it impairs is the use of the foreskin.

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