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Author Topic:   German judge rules child circumcision as child abuse.
crashfrog
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Message 331 of 410 (667099)
07-03-2012 6:43 AM
Reply to: Message 291 by ringo
07-02-2012 6:50 PM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
We've been through that already.
And we'll keep going through it until your side is prepared to respond to rebuttals.
The parent has both the right and the responsibility to make individual choices on behalf of the child until the child is capable of making those individual choices on his own.
Yes. The responsibility. The responsibility to make choices in the child's interest. Not in their opinion of the child's interest, but objectively in the child's actual best interest. And when parents fail that responsibility by considering amputating a completely functional part of their child, society must step in to protect the child's interest.
But in any case, how is it the child's interest when a parent says "my practice of my own religion says I have to circumcise my son"? There's nothing in the child's interest in that - that's circumcision as a procedure done purely in the parent's interest. When Buz says that he had his sons circumcised because Jews do it, and therefore there must be a good reason - because Jews, I guess, are so crafty they must know something we don't - where is that an advocacy for the child's interest at all?
It's like the power of attorney.
Power of attorney is granted so that one can advocate on another's behalf. When someone abuses power of attorney to make decisions that are not in the grantee's interest, power of attorney can be taken away.

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crashfrog
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Message 332 of 410 (667100)
07-03-2012 6:46 AM
Reply to: Message 292 by ringo
07-02-2012 6:56 PM


There's an implied consent for the doctor to do what he usually does.
There's an implied consent for the doctor to do what is in the child's best interest, not to amputate perfectly functional body parts. And what if the doctor, operating on "implied consent to circumcise", botched it and amputated the entire penis? Does "implied consent" extend to sex-change surgery, which, as you'll recall, you don't think actually makes a man into a woman? What, exactly, should be the fate of the poor infant whose botched, needless circumcision leaves him without a penis?

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crashfrog
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Message 333 of 410 (667101)
07-03-2012 6:47 AM
Reply to: Message 295 by Jon
07-02-2012 7:12 PM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
Then why did you bring up that crap about CPS and science fiction novels?
Read them in the context of Ringo's arguments, and you'll find out. Why is reading arguments in context something you have a hard time doing?

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crashfrog
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Message 334 of 410 (667102)
07-03-2012 6:53 AM
Reply to: Message 296 by Jon
07-02-2012 7:32 PM


No one else in this thread supports circumcision.
Sure. Your position is neutrality on the subject, where people should make their own decisions about it.
Unless, of course, it's your penis being circumcised; in that case, you don't get to make your own decision about it. That's your position, correct? That everybody gets to make their "individual choice" about circumcision unless you're the person who's actually going to get one?
My position, which actually is the position of individual choice, is that individual penis-havers should be allowed to make their own individual choice about whether their penis is circumcised, and that it's therefore in the interest of the state to step in and make sure that nobody makes that choice for them, at a time in their life when they're unable to articulate their own choice in the matter.
The harm of circumcision is, to some degree, irrelevant; state interdiction (if you'll pardon the pun) in the process is justified simply by the fact that it is practically irreversible and done to infants without their consent. The harm merely justifies why an adult person might very reasonably not wish to be circumcised; since adult men may reasonably not wish to be circumcised, the state should protect their individual choice in the matter.
Seems pretty simple to me. Of course, it's about penises, so I can see why you would be so desperate not to even have this conversation.

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crashfrog
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Message 335 of 410 (667103)
07-03-2012 6:58 AM
Reply to: Message 314 by Jon
07-02-2012 10:48 PM


Re: Culture
I am defending a parent's right to choose circumcision for their child.
There's no such thing as the right to make that choice for someone else.
And keep in mind, the stated justification usually isn't the parent making that choice for their child, but the parent making that choice for himself: "my practice of religion requires that I circumcise my son." By definition that's a selfish choice - not a choice made on behalf of the child.

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jar
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Message 336 of 410 (667105)
07-03-2012 8:33 AM
Reply to: Message 315 by xongsmith
07-02-2012 11:52 PM


Re: Culture
Sorry but that simply seems silly.
We are not talking about anything comparable to taking people to death camps.
I am also not keeping quiet since it seems that I have so far made the second highest number of posts in this thread.
Please note that like several other posters in this thread you are resorting to quote mining, taking parts of a sentence out of context.
The complete sentence was "I have said that it is not my place to make such a judgement; rather that is a decision that should be made by the parents of the male infant and their doctor."

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 337 of 410 (667106)
07-03-2012 8:39 AM
Reply to: Message 330 by crashfrog
07-03-2012 6:36 AM


Re: Culture
Again, you are simply misrepresenting what was said.
In Message 274 you said:
quote:
Despite your efforts, yes, we actually are discussing those, and other instances (such as male circumcision) where parents permanently disfigure their children.
I replied to that assertion. You do note that you used the term "disfigure"?
Whether or not a circumcised penis is disfigured or enhanced is a matter of personal interpretation.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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crashfrog
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Message 338 of 410 (667108)
07-03-2012 8:58 AM
Reply to: Message 337 by jar
07-03-2012 8:39 AM


Re: Culture
Again, you are simply misrepresenting what was said.
I've not ever made such a misrepresentation. This is your usual false accusation to deflect from your losing arguments.
Whether or not a circumcised penis is disfigured or enhanced is a matter of personal interpretation.
So you agree, then, that someone whose penis was circumcised without his consent might very well "interpret" that as a disfigurement. And given that's the case, shouldn't individuals be afforded the personal choice whether to have their penises circumcised? And given that its one of the purposes of society to intervene when others seek to appropriate choices that aren't theirs to make - that's the principle behind why I can't make your medical decisions, for instance - shouldn't the state intervene to make sure that individuals are free to make their own choices about their own penises?
It's the inescapable conclusion from what you've just admitted. Of course, you being jar, you'll twist and bob and weave just as hard as you can to avoid it. I predict the inevitable accusation that I "misunderstood" something a couple of pages back that somehow completely invalidates my argument and proves yours.
Edited by crashfrog, : No reason given.

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jar
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Message 339 of 410 (667109)
07-03-2012 9:01 AM
Reply to: Message 338 by crashfrog
07-03-2012 8:58 AM


Re: Culture
No, I do not think that an infant should decide whether or not he should be circumcised.
Sorry, but that happens to be my opinion.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Panda
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Message 340 of 410 (667110)
07-03-2012 9:18 AM
Reply to: Message 339 by jar
07-03-2012 9:01 AM


Re: Culture
CrashFrog writes:
shouldn't individuals be afforded the personal choice whether to have their penises circumcised?
jar writes:
No, I do not think that an infant should decide whether or not he should be circumcised.
And that is you avoiding the question.

CRYSTALS!!

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jar
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Message 341 of 410 (667112)
07-03-2012 9:33 AM
Reply to: Message 340 by Panda
07-03-2012 9:18 AM


Re: Culture
Sorry but I do not see how my reply is avoiding the question.
When it comes to male infant circumcision I believe the decision should be made by the parents of the infant and their doctors.
I'm not at all sure how I can make it much clearer.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Panda
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Message 342 of 410 (667113)
07-03-2012 10:32 AM
Reply to: Message 341 by jar
07-03-2012 9:33 AM


Re: Culture
jar writes:
Sorry but I do not see how my reply is avoiding the question.
Well, it doesn't answer the question.
jar writes:
When it comes to male infant circumcision I believe the decision should be made by the parents of the infant and their doctors.
That also doesn't answer CrashFrog's question.
Here is the question again:
Shouldn't individuals be afforded the personal choice whether to have their penises circumcised?
Try answering the question using the word 'individuals' and not using the word 'infant'.
I'm not at all sure how I can make it much clearer.
Edited by Panda, : No reason given.
Edited by Panda, : No reason given.

CRYSTALS!!

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crashfrog
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Message 343 of 410 (667115)
07-03-2012 10:43 AM
Reply to: Message 339 by jar
07-03-2012 9:01 AM


Re: Culture
But an adult should get to decide, yes? About his own penis, I mean.

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jar
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Message 344 of 410 (667116)
07-03-2012 10:44 AM
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07-03-2012 10:32 AM


Re: Culture
No, because the subject is infant male circumcision.
Edited by jar, : appalin spallin

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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crashfrog
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Message 345 of 410 (667117)
07-03-2012 10:44 AM
Reply to: Message 341 by jar
07-03-2012 9:33 AM


Re: Culture
But, again, there's an additional adult in the picture whose rights you've not accounted for - the adult to whom the penis belongs.

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