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New Cat's Eye
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Message 361 of 410 (667134)
07-03-2012 11:34 AM
Reply to: Message 288 by Modulous
07-02-2012 6:26 PM


Circumcision of females generally has nothing to do with the vagina, and those that do affect it, do not 'destroy' it (sometimes it's narrowed or otherwise modified, but never destroyed - women are for making babies after all). A nitpick, I know.
Hmh, I coulda swore the vagina contained the vulva... oh well. On the street, 'vagina' means that whole mess down there
Just so I'm clear, would you be OK with infant female prepuce removal at the consent of a parent and their doctors?
Yeah, I think so.
its up to the parents and thier doctor
But why?
I mean I presume you agree that society has a responsibility to ensure the welfare of its children, so really it's a matter of drawing a line. Do you have any reason for drawing it where you do?
That's what I'm familiar with and that's how I like it. It seems to be well thought out and works just fine. I don't see any good reason to move it from where it is.
Anecdotal evidence from the doctor could be plenty to make this decision.
Anecdotal evidence from doctors led us to circumcise women for mental health problems and to castrate men that were caught masturbating.
I'm not sure those were fun times.
Scientific consensus has lead to bad times too.
I only clicked on the 'American' links
But they seem to agree with me:
quote:
...parents should determine what is in the best interest of the child.
quote:
...parents should be given very complete information about circumcision so that they can make an informed decision...
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I'm sure there are groups of doctors who are pro circumcision but I couldn't find any. If your doctor advises you to circumcise your son as a matter of routine, they may well be going against the consensus of their peers either medically or ethically.
I don't have any children. When I asked my mother why I was circumcized, she said that my doctor recommended it for cleanliness. When you're wearing diapers all the time and shitting your pants, you can get bits of feces stuck under the foreskin and it can get infected. Its easier to keep the penis clean if the foreskin is removed. Since we wear clothes n'stuff, so you don't really need it.
I don't mean to be telling people that they should be circumcizing their kids and I don't have any problem with people who want to stop doing it, or even people who want to try to convince other people to stop doing it. I'm just against outlawing it.
In a country where circumcision at the parent's discretion is legal, a doctor should be advising 'While there are some benefits to circumcision, they are small and there are associated risks and reported drawbacks. It is generally not recommended to do it unless there are clear and particular benefits, which in this case there are not.'
The doctors should be advising what they believe is best for the individual in the particular case. I wouldn't advocate turning them into droids that recite stock phrases like that.

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Message 362 of 410 (667135)
07-03-2012 11:49 AM
Reply to: Message 357 by jar
07-03-2012 11:17 AM


Re: Summary
jar writes:
*jar yet again avoids the question*
So - still no answer.
I'll ask again, just in case you ever feel the urge to debate honestly:
Shouldn't individuals be afforded the personal choice of whether to have their penises circumcised or not?
{abe}
Actually, don't bother.
You clearly can't answer a simple question.
Asking you to do the impossible just "annoys the pig".
Edited by Panda, : No reason given.
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Message 363 of 410 (667136)
07-03-2012 11:54 AM
Reply to: Message 323 by Dr Adequate
07-03-2012 1:14 AM


Dr Adequate writes:
I would have said that it was the parents' responsibility not to make choices that are pointless, painful, and irrevocable.
I'm sure we're all glad to know what you "would have said" but you're missing the point. Where does society stop in its quest to protect children from their parents? Do we ban mothers from dressing their kids funny? Do we ban fathers from embarassing their teenagers?
Or do we just mind our own damn business on matters that do no significant harm?

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 364 of 410 (667137)
07-03-2012 11:54 AM
Reply to: Message 293 by Jazzns
07-02-2012 7:10 PM


Re: AAP on hygiene
So we started the practice with no justification but now we need a justification to stop? How does that make sense whatsoever?
Huh? We didn't start it..
So now its only on the doctor? The cultural practice alone isn't enough? Thats besides the point that there have been doctors who advocate for the chelation.
What is it exactly about this magical doctors stamp of approval that make a ritualistic incursion into a child's physiology okay?
No, its not only the doctor. Its the parents decision and they should be following their doctors advice. That's just how we do medicine 'round here.
No. I am uncomfortable with it but since it is pretty much reversable and far more minor in comparison, I would be hard pressed to make an equivalent argument.
Okay, and I don't think we should be comparing male circumcision to FGM.
Look, there is a continuium of things a parent can do to a kid. Somewhere on that continuium I believe there is a line which should stop allowing things. For me, ear piercing and circumcision fall on opposite sides of the line and I believe my argument justifies that opinion.
It could be better
I think your argument could be used against ear piercing too.
So either you or I are vastly misinformed about what constitues female circumcision. It can range from only removing the clitoral hood to clitorectomy to also cutting off the labia. So yea, there is different extremes of it. If you think that description is wrong then perhaps you should clarify what you think a female circumcision is.
I misspoke about the vagina. I was thinking vulva. To me, Female Genital Mutilations is an African practice of removing most of the vulva... sometimes with a rock... just scraping the labia off. It fucking barbaric and terrible. I don't think that should be being compared to circumcision.
If there's also female circumcision, where the clitoral hood is trimmed back or something, then I'm not sure about that one. I guess I'd have to hear the doctors case for why it should be done. I haven't seen a justification for outlawing that either tho.
ANd what about no evidence? What if a parent just wants to do this for no reason other than their culture or religion? Or is a doctors note required for you?
Required by law? I dunno. I think people should be consulting doctors for medical decisions. I don't think the particular reasoning of the parents is all that improtant as long as the child isn't being harmed.
I have no idea what you are talking about regarding 'scraping off the entire vagina'. Not trying to be offensive here but you may want to brush up on your female anatomy.
Yeah, I did. As I said to Mod, on the street "vagina" just means that whole mess down there. I should have typed "vulva".
Lets back up to just a clitorectomy. What about that? It can likely be done just as safely as a male circumcision and has its original justification for the exact same reasons. If a doctor has a bogus reason based on his "practice" is that an okay enough reason for you to allow it?
Chopping the whole clit off? No. Trimming the hood back? I suppose that could be justified, but I'd want to talk to the doctor recommending it.

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jar
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Message 365 of 410 (667138)
07-03-2012 12:00 PM
Reply to: Message 362 by Panda
07-03-2012 11:49 AM


Re: Summary
jar writes:
Possibly.
My position, one I have presented numerous times throughout this thread, is that infants do not have rights except those established by a State, culture or society.
In the case of male infant circumcision I do not believe that the issue is sufficient to create an exception to the concept of the parents having dominion over what happens to the infant.
Infant male circumcision, in my opinion, falls in the same category as parents deciding to have a birth or beauty mark removed, of having an excess flap of skin removed, of many minor and very low risk procedures.
Yes, when the infant grow up he may well wish that his parents had not had him circumcised, had the birth or beauty mark removed, had the excess flap of skin removed. Fine. He believes that his parents made the wrong decision.
I believe that the harm done by State intrusion at that level of detail far out weighs and harm done should the parents and their doctors decide to circumcise an infant.
No, an individual that is still an infant should not be afforded the choice of whether or not they will be circumcised.
It really is that simple.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Message 366 of 410 (667139)
07-03-2012 12:02 PM
Reply to: Message 331 by crashfrog
07-03-2012 6:43 AM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
crashfrog writes:
The responsibility to make choices in the child's interest. Not in their opinion of the child's interest, but objectively in the child's actual best interest.
So now you're going to legislate objectivity? Good luck with that.
crashfrog writes:
But in any case, how is it the child's interest when a parent says "my practice of my own religion says I have to circumcise my son"?
As I already said, my parents didn't have my brothers circumcised for religious reasons.
crashfrog writes:
When someone abuses power of attorney to make decisions that are not in the grantee's interest, power of attorney can be taken away.
And it hasn't been established that there's any abuse.

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Jazzns
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Message 367 of 410 (667140)
07-03-2012 12:02 PM
Reply to: Message 357 by jar
07-03-2012 11:17 AM


Re: Summary
Thanks jar,
I believe that the harm done by State intrusion at that level of detail far out weighs and harm done should the parents and their doctors decide to circumcise an infant.
What harm is the state doing and to whom is it doing it to?
Also, is the state currently causing harm by outlawing female circumcision?

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ringo
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Message 368 of 410 (667141)
07-03-2012 12:13 PM
Reply to: Message 332 by crashfrog
07-03-2012 6:46 AM


crashfrog writes:
And what if the doctor, operating on "implied consent to circumcise", botched it and amputated the entire penis?
In the case of malpractice, the parents have the right to sue the doctor.
crashfrog writes:
Does "implied consent" extend to sex-change surgery, which, as you'll recall, you don't think actually makes a man into a woman?
We're talking about infants, remember? When you're talking to your doctor before the birth, you should ask him, "Oh, by the way, do you circumcise?" He might reply, "I do recommend it but it's entirely up to the parents." Then you say, "Well, whatever you think is best."
If the doctor says, "Well, I usually change the baby's sex but it's entirely up to the parents," you might want to shop around for a different doctor.
crashfrog writes:
What, exactly, should be the fate of the poor infant whose botched, needless circumcision leaves him without a penis?
He'd have more room in his pockets for all of the money from the lawsuit.

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jar
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Message 369 of 410 (667142)
07-03-2012 12:17 PM
Reply to: Message 367 by Jazzns
07-03-2012 12:02 PM


Re: Summary
Harm is being done to every parent whose freedom is restricted.
Female circumcision is an entirely different subject and irrelevant to this thread.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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ringo
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Message 370 of 410 (667143)
07-03-2012 12:25 PM
Reply to: Message 362 by Panda
07-03-2012 11:49 AM


Re: Summary
Panda writes:
Shouldn't individuals be afforded the personal choice of whether to have their penises circumcised or not?
Maybe English isn't your first language. You're misconstruing the use of the word "individual" in this thread.
An infant is in no way considered a decision-making "individual" (or other word of your choice) under the law. That's why we have expressions like "age of consent". You can't legally consent to having sex before age X, so anybody who has sex with you before that age can be charged with statutory rape. Similarly, you cannot consent to medical procedures (or even religious rituals) before age Y. Somebody has to make the decsion for you. The question is, should those decisions be made by the parents or the dictator?
Edited by ringo, : Speling.
Edited by ringo, : More pelling.

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Jazzns
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Message 371 of 410 (667146)
07-03-2012 1:04 PM
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07-03-2012 12:17 PM


Re: Summary
Harm is being done to every parent whose freedom is restricted
What harm? Please enumerate the harm done to a parent by restricting their freedom to circumcise their child.

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jar
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Message 372 of 410 (667148)
07-03-2012 1:10 PM
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07-03-2012 1:04 PM


Re: Summary
I'm sorry but that question makes absolutely no sense.
The harm is that yet another parental right has been restricted.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Message 373 of 410 (667150)
07-03-2012 1:19 PM
Reply to: Message 333 by crashfrog
07-03-2012 6:47 AM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
Read them in the context of Ringo's arguments, and you'll find out.
That's nice, crash.
There's apparently no connection to the topic, and you are apparently unwilling to provide one. But I guess we all know how this ends, don't we? Fifty posts devoted to you trying to weasel out of your argument with empty appeals to your 'integrity' in debate.
Have fun with that. You can count me out.

Love your enemies!

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Message 374 of 410 (667151)
07-03-2012 1:27 PM
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07-03-2012 12:25 PM


Re: Summary
Ringo writes:
An infant is in no way considered a decision-making "individual" (or other word of your choice) under the law. That's why we have expressions like "age of consent".
Exactly.
You can't legally consent to having sex before age X, so anybody who has sex with you before that age can be charged with statutory rape. Similarly, you cannot consent to medical procedures (or even religious rituals) before age Y.
Yes, yes. I agree. So let's just wait until I reach age Y.
Somebody has to make the decision for you. The question is, should those decisions be made by the parents or the dictator?
How about NONE OF THE ABOVE? Why does anybody have to make the decision for me? Why can't the whole shebang just be postponed until I reach age of consent Y? Anytime you can wait with nobody really getting hurt, you should wait until the individual, upon reaching the age of consent Y, can make the decision for himself. There is no need to make any decision when the individual is still only an infant.

- xongsmith, 5.7d

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Message 375 of 410 (667153)
07-03-2012 1:29 PM
Reply to: Message 364 by New Cat's Eye
07-03-2012 11:54 AM


Re: AAP on hygiene
Huh? We didn't start it..
Somebody did. But you are saying we need a good reason to stop it.
How about recognizing that circumcision didn't have any good reason for it to have BECOME such a widespread thing in the first place. Why is that not a good enough reason to stop?
Okay, and I don't think we should be comparing male circumcision to FGM.
I have consistently said that FGM and male circumcision are different. Ear piercing is not comparable because its not the same although I will grant, and have to xong, that there are dilemmas there also.
I don't think people normally have much of a problem distinguishing a penis from an earlobe or what functions those body parts have. For the few that do, I am sure there is an internet site somewhere for them.
Both kinds of circumcision have their roots in dampening sexuality or masturbation, are non-reversable, and are scientifically unnecessary even when we go look for reasons.
Ear piercing is entirely decorative, mostly reversable, and even though it is also unecessary, nobody tries to justify ear piercing for bogus reasons.
See. Look. Comparing and contrasting.
I think your argument could be used against ear piercing too.
I agree it can. I am against both in principle, but because there are real differences the practical position would be get rid of circumcision for its own right, based on those very real similarities.
I don't think that should be being compared to circumcision.
I haven't, and I haven't seen anyone else, make the argument that we should ban male circumcision because it is exactly the same as the worst of FGM. Its not exactly the same especially with regards to severity, but it does have analogues as I have described and I believe the same justification for banning one applies to the other.
They are both bad practice, based on bad reasons, that only harm children permanently when done routinely.

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