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Jon Inactive Member
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Unless, of course, it's your penis being circumcised; in that case, you don't get to make your own decision about it. Well that's just nonsense. There is nothing in the law saying I have to give up my right to decide what is best for my body in all matters pertaining to my penis. If someone came up to me and attempted to cut off a part of my penis, not only would I be allowed to use deadly force to stop them, but I could then sue them for damages and appear in court as a witness for the prosecutors pressing charges for the offense. It's nonsense to say I don't get to make decisions about my own penis. Because I do.
My position, which actually is the position of individual choice, is that individual penis-havers should be allowed to make their own individual choice about whether their penis is circumcised, and that it's therefore in the interest of the state to step in and make sure that nobody makes that choice for them, at a time in their life when they're unable to articulate their own choice in the matter. Huh? Why? What is so special about penises? Parents make choices on their children's behalves all of the time; that is one of the primary rights and responsibilities of a parent: to decide on behalf of their child(ren). Why do you want to interfere with this relationship and take some of these rights away when it comes to circumcision? What is so special about the penises of other people's children that warrants you sticking your nose into their family affairs?
since adult men may reasonably not wish to be circumcised, the state should protect their individual choice in the matter. And it does. You can't circumcise an adult against their will without suffering some pretty serious legal and civil consequences.Love your enemies!
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xongsmith Member Posts: 2620 From: massachusetts US Joined:
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jar says:
The harm is that yet another parental right has been restricted. But there is no parental "right" here. You cannot restrict something that does not exist.- xongsmith, 5.7d
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Jon Inactive Member
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If your going to interject, please follow what CS and I were discussing. It was he who suggested that we would need a good reason to stop. Yes; a good reason to stop allowing parents the right to choose circumcision for their children.
We can go back to that if your would like but I think in need to insist you stop being such an asshole just because we are having a disagreement about something. Me... an asshole? And here is you labeling circumcised men who are perfectly happy with their body and who they are as 'mutilated' and 'disfigured'.
If you would like to assist with that, I believe the main point that was under discussion was what actually happens in the various forms of FGM, that there are different forms, and yes I do believe it is relevant to point out that the justification for both male and female mutilation come from the same cultural superstitions. There are many ways to alter a genitalia. Circumcision is the removal of the foreskin from the penis. It's very straight forward. 'FGM' on the other hand is meaningless. It's like trying to have a discussion about whether 'male genital modification' is right or wrong when 'male genital modification' is being used to refer to everything from circumcision to full castration. How could the participants ever be on the same page? Throw out 'FGM'; just stop using it, and stick to terms that have meaning. And then, go start a thread about those things, since they aren't the topic of this thread. JonLove your enemies!
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Jon Inactive Member
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But there is no parental "right" here. You cannot restrict something that does not exist. There is a parental right. Currently, parents have the right to circumcise their children.Love your enemies!
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jar Member (Idle past 90 days) Posts: 34140 From: Texas!! Joined:
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Of course there is a parental right here, the right to make the decision about whether or not their male infant should be circumcised.
Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!
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ringo Member (Idle past 662 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined:
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xongsmith writes:
Since when do you or society get to decide every "need"? Are you going to tell me when my child "needs" new shoes?
There is no need to make any decision when the individual is still only an infant.
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New Cat's Eye Inactive Member
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Somebody did. But you are saying we need a good reason to stop it. Well, you yourself don't need a good reason to not circumsize your kid. But you will need a good reason to outlaw the practice, imho. I suppose you don't have to have one, but good luck with that
How about recognizing that circumcision didn't have any good reason for it to have BECOME such a widespread thing in the first place. Why is that not a good enough reason to stop? Are there any other things that we outlaw just because there isn't a good reason for people doing them?
See. Look. Comparing and contrasting. I still don't feel like FGM has any place in this discussion.
I agree it can. I am against both in principle, but because there are real differences the practical position would be get rid of circumcision for its own right, based on those very real similarities. Are you not special pleading circumcision?
Both kinds of circumcision have their roots in dampening sexuality or masturbation, are non-reversable, and are scientifically unnecessary even when we go look for reasons. But those aren't the reason why I was circumcised. They're irrelevant to me.
They are both bad practice, based on bad reasons, that only harm children permanently when done routinely. And I don't think my circumsicion harmed me, so that isn't really weighing in on my opinion either. I can understand why you don't want to, and/or won't, circumcise your kid, but I still haven't seen a good reason why it should be outlawed.
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New Cat's Eye Inactive Member
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How about NONE OF THE ABOVE? Why does anybody have to make the decision for me? Why can't the whole shebang just be postponed until I reach age of consent Y? For me personally, the curcumsicion was intended to help during the infancy stage. You can't really do that if you wait until past infancy.
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onifre Member (Idle past 3201 days) Posts: 4854 From: Dark Side of the Moon Joined:
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Women love it.
It's a piece of skin that makes no difference what's so ever being there or not. This thread is ridiculous. What about the BJ's? You get more BJ's! It reduces sensitivity during sex = you last longer...even better! I've been mutilated! - Oni
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1717 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined:
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Where does society stop in its quest to protect children from their parents? What's wrong with stopping at "preventing permanent, irrevocable amputations of functional body parts"? I'm not seeing the slippery slope, here. We protect children from their parents when their parents are causing harm to their children that we can prevent. I'd say the slippery slope here is on your side; if parents can have a son's foreskin amputated, for religious reasons or no reason at all, by a doctor or by just some dude, what can't they have cut off of their children?
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1717 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined:
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It's nonsense to say I don't get to make decisions about my own penis. Did you get to decide if it was circumcised or not?
What is so special about penises? Nothing is special about penises, which is why I propose that we extend to them the same protection that we extend to all of a child's body parts, and prevent parents from being allowed to amputate parts for religious reasons or no reason at all, by a doctor or by nobody in particular. If instead of circumcision we were talking about a tradition of amputating a child's earlobes at birth, I'd be here making the same argument against it because it doesn't matter in the slightest what body part we're talking about; parents don't have a right to have it amputated for religious, cultural, or cosmetic reasons, or for insufficient medical cause. The question for you is what's so special about penises, that they don't deserve the same protection from needless cosmetic modification that we extend to all other parts of a child's body, in your view. You're the one special pleading for penises, not me.
You can't circumcise an adult against their will without suffering some pretty serious legal and civil consequences. Sure you can, that's the problem. You just have to do it before they're able to defend themselves.
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Modulous Member (Idle past 235 days) Posts: 7801 From: Manchester, UK Joined:
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That's what I'm familiar with and that's how I like it. That sounds more like a rationalization rather than a justification.
Scientific consensus has lead to bad times too. Indeed. But I wasn't saying 'lack of consensus leads to bad times', I was saying 'relying on anecdotes leads to bad times'. In fact, as bluegenes' article notes - on the subject of circumcision, anecdotes leading to consensus was a disaster:
quote: But they seem to agree with me:
...parents should determine what is in the best interest of the child. The full quote is that parents should determine this in cases where
quote: It also states
quote: That is, in full. Don't do it as a matter of routine, the benefits for so doing are not sufficient. If it is one of the circumstances where there are benefits, the parents should decide. The other American link says:
quote: I picked different fields and nationalities as this is an international discussion and is not unique to one particular field. We're not saying that circumcision is never an option, but it should only be an option where there is a particular benefit to doing it.
When I asked my mother why I was circumcized, she said that my doctor recommended it for cleanliness. When you're wearing diapers all the time and shitting your pants, you can get bits of feces stuck under the foreskin and it can get infected. The risks of getting infected are sufficiently small, and the consequences for getting infected are generally small and easily fixed so that most relevant professional organizations recommend against circumcising to avoid them. Also there is the undercurrent of 'circumcise your baby, it might make your life trivially easier as a parent.', which surely introduces a conflict of interest. I'm not saying that is in play all the time, but selfish assholes can be parents too. From the APA statement:
quote: I'm afraid your mother was probably badly informed. I'm not blaming her for it, of course. I have no idea if the doctor is to blame either - I'm not sure what consensus on the matter looked like when you were born. I did see one paper from the sixties which criticized the hygiene/cleanliness justification.
The doctors should be advising what they believe is best for the individual in the particular case. I wouldn't advocate turning them into droids that recite stock phrases like that. I wasn't suggesting they recite stock phrases. I gave an example of the kind of advice the doctor should give that is in line with the opinion of relevant professional experts. He should not be giving his personal opinion on the matter dressed as advice. I agree that there are some particular cases and some particular individuals for whom circumcision is a genuine option. 'Increased risk of certain infections' is weighed against 'increased rates of meatitis' and all the other risks and benefits are weighed by those professionals I linked to. They say the normal risks that are present are not sufficient on their own to justify circumcision.
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ringo Member (Idle past 662 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined:
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crashfrog writes:
That would depend on your definition of "amputation". Would trimming your child's fingernails without his permission be acceptable?
What's wrong with stopping at "preventing permanent, irrevocable amputations of functional body parts"? crashfrog writes:
Something that they might miss in the future. Go ahead and point out on the street which men are circumised and which are not. Then ask the ones who are circumcised if they'd rather not be. If they look at you as if you're a raving lunatic, take that to heart.
I'd say the slippery slope here is on your side; if parents can have a son's foreskin amputated, for religious reasons or no reason at all, by a doctor or by just some dude, what can't they have cut off of their children?
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Jon Inactive Member
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You can't circumcise an adult against their will without suffering some pretty serious legal and civil consequences. Sure you can, that's the problem. No you can't.
You just have to do it before they're able to defend themselves. Well then they aren't so much an adult, are they?
Nothing is special about penises Good. Then you should have nothing against allowing parents to exercise the same freedom over deciding what happens with their child's penis as they exercise in deciding what happens to their child's teeth, tonsils, birthmarks, extra toes, and so forth. Unless, of course, you do think penises are special; so special that you think we need to restrict a parent's right to make decisions for their child in the particular case of penis modification. If there's nothing special about penises, why should society care one way or the other? JonLove your enemies!
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New Cat's Eye Inactive Member
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I'm afraid your mother was probably badly informed. I'm not seeing that she necessarily was. They say they have little evidence to affirm it, not that it is wrong. And it makes sense to me that if your strapping diapers on babies, then you can get shit stuck up under the foreskin. Removing the foreskin would help you keep it clean, regardless of whether or not a rigorous scientiifc study can affirm that with evidence.
He should not be giving his personal opinion on the matter dressed as advice. Um, how many doctors have you been to? That's just how medicine is practiced. Most of the time, the doctors are dealing with very little infromation and have to make guesses at the cause and then check to see if their recommended treatment even did anything. Looks to me like most of medice is advice base on opinions... in fact, if you don't like what your doctor recommends, then you can go get a second opinion.
'Increased risk of certain infections' is weighed against 'increased rates of meatitis' and all the other risks and benefits are weighed by those professionals I linked to. They say the normal risks that are present are not sufficient on their own to justify circumcision. You've certainly made a good case why somebody might not want to circumcise their kid, bravo, but I'm still not compelled to agree that this is something that needs to be outlawed.
Also there is the undercurrent of 'circumcise your baby, it might make your life trivially easier as a parent.', which surely introduces a conflict of interest. I'm not saying that is in play all the time, but selfish assholes can be parents too. I wonder how many women decide to circumcise their son because they prefer the appearance of a circumcised penis, themselves, and therefore are just doing it for cosmetic reasons...
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