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riVeRraT
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Message 1 of 303 (366819)
11-29-2006 1:26 PM


In the thread A Liberal's Pledge to Disheartened Conservatives ...by Michael Moore
Michael Moore makes a pledge from liberals to conservatives (of which I am neither):
8. We will never stick our nose in your bedroom or your womb. What you do there as consenting adults is your business. We will continue to count your age from the moment you were born, not the moment you were conceived.
My reply to that was
quote:
Does this mean they won't stick up for my unborn child should someone intend to do harm to him/her/it. Or is it just trash?
Then everyone started getting concerned that I was not concerned about the rights of a woman. My reply to that was:
quote:
I never said the woman doesn't have any rights, she has every right in the world not to have intercourse. Unless she is raped against her will, then she should have the right to remove the baby, IMO.
Chiroptera responds
She also has the right to have intercourse, and to alleviate any undesired complications that might result from it.
So I asked her why that is a right.
Being that birth control is not 100% full proof, or natural, I can't see how this is a right for two consenting adults. The same goes for the man, as he is part of it, and can be an influence on the woman’s decision to get an abortion. (of which I am guilty of).
When I think of human rights, this is what I think of:
Human Rights
As I read that, I really don't see anything that could be applied to what is claimed by chiroptera and others.
The obvious answer is because you can get an abortion, that makes it a right. But there was a time when you couldn't, and they are fighting to remove that option. So I will not accept that answer. It doesn't fully describe why it is a right. A starving child has a right to food. The child has done nothing to put himself in harms way.
If a woman gets raped, then I feel she has a right to an abortion.
But the combination of the two events, consensual intercourse, and abortion together, I feel is just not a right, and I would like to hear arguments as to why it is.
In this thread we are not going to talk about abortion. Abortion is legal. I also don't want to talk about when life begins in the womb. Those two subjects have been beaten to death already.
So this is the question, and the topic,
Why is it a right for both a man and a woman to have consensual sex, AND get an abortion?

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riVeRraT
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Message 15 of 303 (366924)
11-29-2006 5:45 PM
Reply to: Message 3 by New Cat's Eye
11-29-2006 1:37 PM


Re: Maybe another way to look at it
What about the man?

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riVeRraT
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Message 16 of 303 (366926)
11-29-2006 5:54 PM
Reply to: Message 4 by crashfrog
11-29-2006 2:00 PM


It doesn't matter how you got in in the first place.
Of course it does.
If I invite you over to my house for pizza, I can still demand that you leave. Just because I invited you over for the night doesn't mean you get to stay for months. It doesn't matter if you don't have any other place to go.
Yea, but I have a choice whether I want to come over or not, and if I leave, I won't be dead. That is a very very bad comparison.
There's a reason that we can't simply go around abducting people and harvesting their organs to help those who need them. People have soverignty over their own bodies. It's the second most fundamental right. Another's need does not produce a legal obligation on anybody else.
So basically the man has nothing to do with it?
The reason people have a right to consent to intercourse, and withhold consent to being pregnant, is the same reason they have the right to do anything else.
What's that reason?
People cannot do whatever they please in this life.

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riVeRraT
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Message 17 of 303 (366927)
11-29-2006 5:55 PM
Reply to: Message 8 by crashfrog
11-29-2006 2:49 PM


forced birth???
But it's meaner still to tell people they have to have unwanted roommates, or a forced birth, just because somebody believes they need to do that.
How is it forced, if the person willingly has sex? We all know that contraception is not full proof.

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riVeRraT
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Message 18 of 303 (366928)
11-29-2006 6:02 PM
Reply to: Message 12 by alacrity fitzhugh
11-29-2006 3:30 PM


You cannot have the right to not have intercourse unless you also have the right to intercourse. If you have the to intercourse then you have the right not to have intercourse. Take away one and the other is no longer a right.
I can have a right to have a gun, but if I kill someone with it, then I have a right to go to jail.
Just because we have a right to have intercourse, does not give us the right to be irresponsible with it.
Neither are seat belts.
I am not creating anything when I drive a car. And driving a car is not strictly for pleasure. e have been through the whole car/sex comparison, and it really doesn't apply.
Just because you do not have the ability to understand does not make your belief override the rights of consenting adults.
Oh I do understand perfectly, and many people agree with my thoughts. So it is not correct to say I do not understand. Plus I have been through it first hand, and have a excellent perspective on it.
See consenting adults except the responsibility for what they do, and if terminating an unplanned pregnancy is the decision, then you need to live with it.
Ok, that is 100% correct, but that doesn't make it a right.
You must have overlooked this part
quote:Article 12.
No one shall be subjected to arbitrary interference with his privacy, family, home or correspondence, nor to attacks upon his honour and reputation. Everyone has the right to the protection of the law against such interference or attack
Kind of defeats your stance by using this.
Some could use that same line of protection for an unborn baby. No one is being attacked here, just because I do not see it as a right. When you create something, then legally disgard it, you are the one in control of your reputation.
Article 12 does not apply.

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riVeRraT
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Message 19 of 303 (366929)
11-29-2006 6:05 PM
Reply to: Message 13 by nator
11-29-2006 5:21 PM


Who owns the womb, rat?
The woman or the zygote/fetus?
You are going down the same path as crashfrog. I don't see what that has to do with rights.
The woman owns the womb, and she and a man can create something in it, and then destroy it. How is that a right?

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riVeRraT
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Message 20 of 303 (366931)
11-29-2006 6:11 PM
Reply to: Message 14 by Taz
11-29-2006 5:30 PM


But suppose that at the spur of the moment a couple of people decided not to have safe sex and ended up with an unwanted pregnancy. Or perhaps they did practice safe sex and they happened to be part of the few that got unlucky. Should the woman be allowed to discontinue an unwanted pregnancy?
I am not arguing that here. She can if she wants legally. I may not agree with that, but thats not for here. I just wouldn't call it a right.
Thanks for your openess BTW.
As for your comparison of driving a car and all that, first off, it only takes one person to do that. Driving a car can be for both pleasure and necessity. Regardless, let's say you hit my kid (OMG) and you offer to hook yourself up. I don't think I would let you, unless you agreed to carry it out until the end. Either way, it may be your right to offer to help, but I don't see it as a right to withdraw your help, unless something was really wrong.

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riVeRraT
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Message 34 of 303 (367041)
11-30-2006 8:11 AM
Reply to: Message 21 by alacrity fitzhugh
11-29-2006 6:36 PM


Gee, you failed on that one, you have the right to bear arms and the right not to bear arms, the right to vote the right not to vote. By using your right you are accepting the implications of the right.
That was a missed point if ever I read one.
Your logic is that because birth control is not a 100% that eliminates a right. Seat belts are not a 100% . Plus, I'm not using driving as the subject, I'm showing you the error of your logic.
There is no error in knowing that there is a huge difference between driving a car, and having sex between two consenting adults. There is also a huge difference in the need to rely on a seat belt, as opposed to relying on birth control. My logic is fine.
Next time I get pregnant from driving a car though, then my logic will be flawed.
As evidence in this thread, many more disagree. Majority rule, right?
Oh no. I just want to put my thought on the subject to the test. We are just discussing here, and emotions should fall by the wayside.
How dare you say majority rule, I am sure in a heartbeat you will be the first to point out that just because 1/3 of the world believes in Jesus, that doesn't make him real.
It is right, and all your histrionics and hand waving will not change that.
Hand waving? What was that sentence?
Not unless they extend rights to life that is not human yet.
We are not going to discuss when life begins. But in some states people have gone to jail for harming a fetus. So the possibility remains.
It says No one shall be subjected to arbitrary interference with his privacy, family, home or correspondence, comma then the word nor to continue. This falsifies your assertion that (sic)No one is being attacked here...
Please explain how I am attacking anyone, by considering that it is not a right? There is a difference between a right, and a privelage.
Seeing as how this is part of your defense of your position, show me where it says that,
Where it says what?
Isn't it beyond obvious that if you consentually have sex, then get an abortion, that you have added that experience to your own reputation, and it has nothing to do with me?
One last thing:
riverrat writes:
Plus I have been through it first hand, and have a excellent perspective on it.
First you had an abortion? Second, like your the only one. Third, I was present during a late 2nd trimester abortion, that right present, were you present?
Yes, I was, and I supported the idea of getting one fully. A thing that I regret a bit. But life can be full of regrets, if you let it get to you. I have discussed this fully in other threads, I don't want to start talking about here again.
Try leaving emotion out of this discussion, and just discuss.

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riVeRraT
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Message 35 of 303 (367045)
11-30-2006 8:37 AM
Reply to: Message 22 by Taz
11-29-2006 6:38 PM


no comparison
Ok, suppose instead of a car as we know it, it's a futuristic car that takes 2 people to drive.
Still I don't find that to be a comparison. I don't like dealing with comparisons, as they are not 100% accurate. If I want to learn about the properties of metal, I study metal, not jello. The only thing I learn about metal by studying jello, is what metal is not. Having intercourse is not driving a car. Woman do not get pregnant from driving a car, maybe from parking
The reason I used the car as an example is because for many people driving is very similar to sex. It's somewhat necessary sometimes and not necessary in other times. You can always take the bus, taxi, or ask someone else to drive for you. In about the same way, you can masturbate, mutually masturbate with a partner, or simply have someone give you a blowjob. But obviously a lot of people out there chose to have sex, just like a lot of people out there chose to drive rather than take the bus or taxi.
Well this is why I specifically mention consensual intercourse, and not sex.
If I were to compare driving a car accurately to the kind of sex I am talking about, it would be like this.
Your driving a car through an empty parking lot. Without any barricades, you can get to the other side easily.
If there is a barricade, then you will not get to the other side, unless the barricade fails.
Seat belts are for saving lives, not keeping you from driving the car.
You should really try to see the implications of the examples rather than nitpick for every little hole in them.
Well this is why I have trouble with comparisons. Why not just deal with the issue directly. I don't find any logic in comparing seat belts to birth control, when looking at the overall picture.
This, I think, is where rational debate ends and personal opinion begins. It is obvious to crash and schraf that a person should be able to retain full ownership and control over his/her most personal properties (his/her organs) at all times and that no obligation should supercede such ownership and control.
NOOO, this is where we agree. I believe it is the right of a woman to retain full control over her organs, and the such. She has a right to decline sex.
You, on the other hand, is convinced that there are certain obligations in life that can and do supercede a person's complete ownership and control over his/her organs.
Once another life/thing is started in the womb, it really isn't part of you is it? Please remember we are talking about rights here. I believe your right ends once you decide to have intercourse. I am guilty of it too, just so you know, and I am not a hypocrite, just speaking from experience.
I have heard all the comparisons, and to me making comparisons like calling a fetus a tumor, and having sex as opposed to wearing a seatbelt, are all weak, and make no logical sense whatsoever. It's as if people are now programmed with these types of responses. I would never compare intercourse to wearing a seat belt, unless it's a crotch belt with a vibrator and sperm ejaculator, and a consenting mind.
Edited by riVeRraT, : spelling

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riVeRraT
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Message 36 of 303 (367048)
11-30-2006 8:51 AM
Reply to: Message 23 by nator
11-29-2006 6:44 PM


It has to do with rights because a person has a right to control their own bodies.
ABSOLUTELY !!!!
That is why you can decline intercourse.
A zygote is not part of the woman’s body. There is a large difference between chopping off your leg, and having an abortion.
You agreed that the woman, not the zygote/fetus, owns her womb'.
Thus, she has the right to control what happens to it, just like she has the right to control anything else that happens to any other part of her body.
Right, once she decides to have intercourse, she has made that decision, and relinquishes the "right" and it becomes a privilege to rip it out.
Right. A woman has a right to control what happens to her own body, including what takes up residence in that body.
Zygotes do not "take up residence" like some kind of unwanted tumor. zygotes only get there by a woman having perfect control over her body and making a decision that can lead to the zygote getting there in the first place. Zygotes do not ask to be put there, or wander off the street, or do they happen from driving a car.
What is your definition of a "person"?
Can you explain how a zygote/fetus is a person?
Stay on topic, I strictly asked that we not discuss when life begins.
We are talking about rights, not life.
Who owns the womb?
The woman or the zygote/fetus?
The woman, the woman. She has the right to consent to intercourse.
You are not making a case for yourself, only reinforcing my position. You have not shown how it is a right for both things to happen.

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riVeRraT
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Message 37 of 303 (367050)
11-30-2006 8:59 AM
Reply to: Message 27 by crashfrog
11-29-2006 7:15 PM


Of course it does.
No, it doesn't.
Try using that analogy in a court of law to show intent.
You'll have to explain why it doesn't matter.
The reason why it matters is obvious. It is a persons right to have intercourse/not have intercourse.
Irrelevant. If you want to save these fetuses, find a womb replacement. That none exists right now is hardly the woman's fault, and it doesn't place her under an obligation to use her uterus to gestate an unwanted tenant.
But the fetus didn't ask to get there, or was it even invited. Comparisons suck, they don't work. I can show you several reasons why your comparison do not compare at all. Try dealing directly with the topic, not comparing getting pregnant to coming over someones house. It doesn't compare.
With her uterus? Yeah, he has nothing to do with it.
Where are you chiroptera??????
Then that's where we disagree. I believe that people have free will and self-determination. You believe you know what's best for everybody.
Hell no. I am not looking to tell people when they should have intercourse or not. Intercourse is not necessary for our own survival, as much as I would want it to be.
All the free will in the world won't get you a date with Katherine Zeta Jones. People cannot do whatever they please. You are comparing things to individuals, when we are talking about something that takes two willing adults, and involves a third "life/thing" that has no say in the matter whatsoever, and didn't ask to come into this world.

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riVeRraT
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Message 38 of 303 (367051)
11-30-2006 9:04 AM
Reply to: Message 28 by crashfrog
11-29-2006 7:16 PM


Re: forced birth???
Because consent for sex is not consent for pregnancy. Those are two different things.
Yes it is. Thats my point, birth control is not 100% fullproof, we all know that. When you consent to intercourse, you consent to possibly creating life/thing and therfor give up your rights, then it becomes a privilage to correct your "mistake" (which I believe is not a mistake, if I play the lotto, I intend to win, if I lose, it is not a mistake). Before technology existed you could not do this. Technology does not determine our morals and rights. Living in a place where it is legal gives you a privilage also.

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riVeRraT
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Message 39 of 303 (367052)
11-30-2006 9:09 AM
Reply to: Message 30 by crashfrog
11-29-2006 7:20 PM


I disagree. If you have sex, and are using birth control but it fails (or even simply don't wish to be pregnant), I think you've made it pretty clear that you were not inviting the zygote over; the zygote entered, in fact, clearly against your will.
That is a foolish statement. It's not against your will, it's against you wishes, wishes you have no control over really, unless you retain from having intercourse. Once you consent to intercourse, you have given up your right to having a thing inside of you.
If you force a guest into your house, and the guest is now dependant on being in your house for its survial, then you retain 100% of the responsibilty. You now have the privilage of killing the guest or not trying to let it live.
If I open a window to cool a pie, and you use it to break into my kitchen, that's unlawful entry, even though my actions provided the mode of egress. My will was obviously that you not break into my house; it doesn't matter what actions I took that allowed you to get inside.
lmao. I came in through your pie. Another bad comparison.

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riVeRraT
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Posts: 5788
From: NY USA
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Message 40 of 303 (367054)
11-30-2006 9:14 AM
Reply to: Message 31 by alacrity fitzhugh
11-29-2006 7:31 PM


starting to get it?
And I am pointing out that rights have consequences and consenting adults accept those consequences
thank you.
Bad news, your not killing somebody when you have an abortion,
That is debatable, and not for this thread.
and in the Us you can use your right of arms and use deadly force when your in imminent danger.
Two separate rights. The two of them combined is not a right.
If your in imminent danger, and it is not by your own doing, then you can't compare that to getting pregnant. Another bad comparison.

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riVeRraT
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Message 41 of 303 (367055)
11-30-2006 9:16 AM
Reply to: Message 33 by Taz
11-29-2006 7:49 PM


They are talking about evicting an unwanted being.
Just how unwanted is it?
Howd it get there?

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