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Taz
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Message 14 of 303 (366914)
11-29-2006 5:30 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by riVeRraT
11-29-2006 1:26 PM


Riverrat, in my former life I was a very religious person. The transition to atheism for me left many moral issues dangling. I struggled with some of these issues for a long time.
For example, in my former life I believed that sex was evil. I'm a liberal now and I now believe that it's really none of my bussiness about other people's sex lives. However, in the back of my mind sex still carries a kind of negative stigma. You could say it's a conflict between my former and current selfs. I'm probably the only man I know that actually tries to avoid sex with his wife.
But at the same time, I cannot deny the fact that just about everyone else I know don't have the same personal view about sex. Most other people I know and know of enjoy sex and would like to have sex as often as possible. I don't see that much of a beauty in sex, but I respect people's opinion and so I don't try to regulate their sexual behaviors. I do, however, encourage people to practice safe sex.
But suppose that at the spur of the moment a couple of people decided not to have safe sex and ended up with an unwanted pregnancy. Or perhaps they did practice safe sex and they happened to be part of the few that got unlucky. Should the woman be allowed to discontinue an unwanted pregnancy?
I struggled with this question ever since I converted to atheism. My current position isn't clear, even to myself. But consider the following scenario for the moment.
Suppose one day I drive a car down the street. I've been described by my friends as driving like a grandmother, so you can imagine how careful I am when on the road. Suppose at the spur of the moment I decide to go over the speed limit and WHAM! I hit a pedestrian.
Because of me, this person loses most of his organs and in need of new organs. Unfortunately for him, there ain't no organs for him for 9 months (takes them nine months to artificially create organs for him star trek style). And by the stroke of improbable luck, I'm the only person in the world that's compatible to him. So, I could either volunteer to allow them to plug me up with him for 9 months or let him die. I decide to let him use my organs.
Four months later, I become a self-hating, suicidal son-of-a-bitch who doesn't like to share his organs. I want to disconnect myself from this bed-ridden guy and, as a side affect, let him die.
There was no written contract when this whole thing started, so I feel that I have no obligation to continue to share my organs with this guy. It was, after all, an accident that I ran him over with my car.
The question is should society have the right to force me to continue to share my organs with this person against my will? Or, have I lost my right to complete control over my organs at the moment I accidently ran over him?
By the way, for the record, I still consider the goo of cells (aka embryo, fetus, etc.) to be a human being. I guess it's part of my former self I haven't been able to get rid of...

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Message 22 of 303 (366938)
11-29-2006 6:38 PM
Reply to: Message 20 by riVeRraT
11-29-2006 6:11 PM


riverrat writes:
As for your comparison of driving a car and all that, first off, it only takes one person to do that.
Ok, suppose instead of a car as we know it, it's a futuristic car that takes 2 people to drive.
Driving a car can be for both pleasure and necessity.
There's a reason I went into sex at the beginning of my last post. For me, sex is for pleasure only. But as far as I know, many people would argue that sex is a necessary part of their lives. I don't have that much of a sex drive, so I can't really argue against that point.
The reason I used the car as an example is because for many people driving is very similar to sex. It's somewhat necessary sometimes and not necessary in other times. You can always take the bus, taxi, or ask someone else to drive for you. In about the same way, you can masturbate, mutually masturbate with a partner, or simply have someone give you a blowjob. But obviously a lot of people out there chose to have sex, just like a lot of people out there chose to drive rather than take the bus or taxi.
Regardless, let's say you hit my kid (OMG) and you offer to hook yourself up. I don't think I would let you, unless you agreed to carry it out until the end.
You should really try to see the implications of the examples rather than nitpick for every little hole in them.
Either way, it may be your right to offer to help, but I don't see it as a right to withdraw your help, unless something was really wrong.
That is your opinion. However, many people, like crash and schraf, hold the opinion that one person can offer to help and then take that offer back half way through.
This, I think, is where rational debate ends and personal opinion begins. It is obvious to crash and schraf that a person should be able to retain full ownership and control over his/her most personal properties (his/her organs) at all times and that no obligation should superceed such ownership and control. You, on the other hand, is convinced that there are certain obligations in life that can and do superceed a person's complete ownership and control over his/her organs.
I'm leaning toward crash's position. However, I still hold doubts about such position.

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Message 33 of 303 (366972)
11-29-2006 7:49 PM
Reply to: Message 32 by mike the wiz
11-29-2006 7:46 PM


Mike, I think you are using a strawman against crashfrog and schraf. Nobody is talking about killing the fetus, or the person inside your house. They are talking about evicting an unwanted being.

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Message 53 of 303 (367104)
11-30-2006 12:42 PM
Reply to: Message 41 by riVeRraT
11-30-2006 9:16 AM


riverrat writes:
Just how unwanted is it?
Howd it get there?
Please read my second post in this thread for the answer to this. I think you are letting your emotion about this issue get in the way of seeing clearly what other people are saying.

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Message 54 of 303 (367106)
11-30-2006 12:50 PM
Reply to: Message 35 by riVeRraT
11-30-2006 8:37 AM


Re: no comparison
riverrat writes:
I have heard all the comparisons, and to me making comparisons like calling a fetus a tumor, and having sex as opposed to wearing a seatbelt, are all weak, and make no logical sense whatsoever.
Ok, let's stop using comparasons and go directly to the issue.
riverrat writes:
NOOO, this is where we agree. I believe it is the right of a woman to retain full control over her organs, and the such. She has a right to decline sex.
3 seconds later, riverrat writes:
Once another life/thing is started in the womb, it really isn't part of you is it? Please remember we are talking about rights here. I believe your right ends once you decide to have intercourse.
You've contradicted yourself. So, does certain obligations superceed a person's complete right over his/her own body or not?
The reason this is the whole point of the matter is because abortion isn't considered the killing of the fetus you know. Abortion usually just involves disconnecting (what some people like to call) the parasite disallowing it from using the woman's organs. Once that happens, the "parasite" automatically dies and gets flushed out of her system naturally. It's called evicting an unwanted being.

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Message 56 of 303 (367109)
11-30-2006 1:01 PM
Reply to: Message 55 by New Cat's Eye
11-30-2006 12:55 PM


Re: no comparison
CS writes:
You can't use your rights to infringe upon the rights of others, correct?
That's a shady area. If you could think up of a scenario where by protecting my organs I end up infringing other people's rights, I could answer you better, hopefully.
Edited by gasby, : No reason given.

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Message 58 of 303 (367142)
11-30-2006 2:52 PM
Reply to: Message 57 by New Cat's Eye
11-30-2006 2:10 PM


Re: scenario for gasby
CS writes:
You're standing outside next to someone who is smoking cigarettes and want to force them to stop to protect your lungs.
Very shady area indeed. I want to say "outside" is public property so... Thanks for giving me a headache.
Next?

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Taz
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Message 60 of 303 (367170)
11-30-2006 6:41 PM
Reply to: Message 59 by New Cat's Eye
11-30-2006 3:01 PM


Re: scenario for gasby
Couldn't you take the hint that I don't have a good answer for your scenario there?
CS writes:
Do you think you have the right to make them stop smoking?
I honestly don't know. When I was responding last time, I could think of good arguments for both sides.
I'm sorry (but you asked for it).
I did, didn't I.
You kinda seemed to dodge the first one so excuse me for not rushing into thinking up another one. Perhaps you could?
The reason I don't have a good answer for you is because the smoking takes place in a public place, and weird things happen in public places. Now, if it were inside a restaurant, then I have an answer for you.

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Message 74 of 303 (367247)
12-01-2006 11:45 AM
Reply to: Message 73 by riVeRraT
12-01-2006 10:31 AM


riverrat writes:
I mean if I jump off a cliff, and hurt myself, is it my right to get health care? Does someone have to help me off the ground? No, I am lucky if I get help, and if I survive. Once I made a decision to jump off the cliff, I commited to the consequences, and gave up my rights to be healthy.
Actually, if you jump off a cliff and the medical professionals know about it, they have to help you. This is why people who attempt to commit suicide have the right to be helped, and in most cases they do get help.

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Message 155 of 303 (367765)
12-05-2006 10:57 AM
Reply to: Message 153 by riVeRraT
12-05-2006 10:37 AM


Re: Bored
riverrat writes:
The word right to me is something we deserve, because it is necessary for our survival, like human rights.
Actually, close but not exactly. Right means protection. So, when you have rights it means you are protected. If you have "human rights", it means you are protected from being treated otherwise.
But what is it that they so rightly desever? Body autonomy? They have it already, they can choose not to have intercourse. Once you take that risk, I feel you give up that right, and it then becomes a privilage to correct your, and I quote, "stupid and irresponsible mistake".
I don't agree.
You exercise your right to body autonomy, when you say yes, stick it in. You are now letting someone do something to you, that can lead to something you don't want. Why then should it be a right to correct this "mistake?" I see it as more of a privilage, and not a right.
I don't agree.
It's like commiting a crime, and not having to do the time. Even schraf called it irresponsible. We have a responsibility once we make a decision to have intercourse, and create another living thing.
I don't agree.
This right is almost completely dictated by science and technology. If we did not have the advancments to abort babies safely, then there would be no abortion. So there is no natural right to abortion. A woman cannot just look at her womb, and give a little squeeze, and pop the baby out before it's time. If a woman had true control over her womb, she would be able to do this, and abort herself.
I don't agree... wholeheartedly.
Go ahead and look up the word rights, and do some comparisons, you'll see how ridiculus it is to call abortion a right for anything more than it just being legal.
I don't agree.
I was writing out responses for each one when I realized that (1) this post will probably get buried under another 8 pages of riverrat-schraf dialogue, (2) too much of both your argument and mine are nothing more than personal opinion, (3) I am beginning to think that you make absolutely no effort to at least understand another person's opinion, and (4) I don't want to get into a repetition contest like the one you are having with schraf.
With that said, I agree to disagree.
PS - I am prolife and I consider the egg to be a person and alive at the point of conception.

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Message 170 of 303 (367973)
12-06-2006 1:36 PM
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12-06-2006 12:15 AM


Re: Bored
Like I said, these guys are having a repetition contest without trying to understand where each other is standing. It really is a typical riverrat-schraf/crashfrog dialogue.

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Message 180 of 303 (368063)
12-06-2006 8:13 PM
Reply to: Message 171 by crashfrog
12-06-2006 2:23 PM


Re: Bored
crashfrog writes:
What makes you think I don't understand where RR is standing?
I think that because you've been trying to debate his personal opinion. It's like trying to debate why my favorite color is yellow instead of red, or rather why I think everyone's favorite color should be yellow rather than red.
RR is basing his argument mostly on his personal opinion as a christian. Notice that much of his emphasis is on punishment of those who he thinks deserve it. If you play with fire, then you deserve to be burned. If you drive irresponsibly, then you deserve to crash and die. If you jump off a building, then you deserve to die. If you have unprotected sex, then you deserve to be pregnant. Such typical christian view of life and hell.
You, on the other hand, are trying to emphasize on correcting the error and help those that have made the error. If you play with fire and get burned, you still get treatment for the burn. If you drive irresponsibly, you still get hauled to the emergency room. If you jump off a buildling, well... I guess it depends on whether it's groundhog day or not. If you have unsafe sex, you can still get a another chance by ejecting an unwanted fetus. Such typical bleeding heart liberal attitude.
Doesn't really work and yet you guys are keeping at it. Notice how most of the posts here are just repeats of preceding posts in different words. You guys are talking right past each other.
Just because I don't agree with him?
You don't agree with how he view rights and when people have them and don't have them or you don't agree with how he is making his argument?

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Message 181 of 303 (368065)
12-06-2006 8:17 PM
Reply to: Message 176 by riVeRraT
12-06-2006 5:09 PM


Re: Bored
riverrat writes:
Why is it always 2 on 1???
Dammit!
Knowing you, it's not like you need any kind of balancing.

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Message 186 of 303 (368105)
12-07-2006 12:05 AM
Reply to: Message 185 by crashfrog
12-06-2006 10:53 PM


Re: Bored
crashfrog writes:
Except that that's not his position at all. If you get burned, RR thinks you should be treated for burns.
Only after schraf pointed it out. When he first stated it, he didn't mention anything about treatment. He only said that if you play with fire then you get burned.
You are misreading what I said. There is no doubt in my mind that RR thinks people should get treatment for getting burned. But his emphasis is on the getting burned and deserving to be burned part not the treatment part.
Only when a woman has sex for pleasure does the hammer suddenly come down, and she's not allowed to take steps to rectify a situation that clearly occured by accident (birth control failure.)
Yes and no. It's not whether she should be allowed to take the steps to rectify the situation. According to him, it's whether she herself has given up such right to rectify it or not when she consented to having sex. At least according to RR, it's all up to her whether she decides to have the right to her organs or waive it.
I understand completely where Riverrat is coming from
I have no doubt that you think you do. I'm not even sure I understand where he's coming from.
he knocked a girl up once and then pressured her into an abortion. And now he feels bad about it. He thinks that, because he did something wrong by pressuring a woman into an abortion, the answer is to make sure that it's impossible to pressure a woman into an abortion. He thinks that the way to do that is to control what kind of choices women can make, but that's the exact same mistake he made in the first place. But it's impossible for him to see his error because he doesn't see women as equal people capable of making decisions.
I haven't caught this part yet. Did I miss it somewhere?
The proof is the dripping disdain for women that flavors every one of his posts. The proof is that when I told him that women should be considered equal adults, he told me I was "mistaken."
Well, I have no argument with you here. RR, like many christians I have encountered, doesn't strike me as one who values the golden rule. But I guess I'll reserve judgement for later.
Riverrat wants to control women because he's certain that he knows better than they do.
Didn't I say he had the typical christian view on life? Of course he thinks he has the moral high ground. The question is why do you keep trying to change what is obviously his deepest and most personal opinion?
I mean did it even occur to you to look at the thread before you made sweeping pronouncements about what I did and didn't understand? Apparently not, since otherwise you would have seen that my last post was several pages ago.
Idunno, maybe you thought schraf was saying everything you wanted to say? The thing that reinforced this suspicion is when you noticed my post that was buried in pages and pages of the dialogue. In other words, you were very carefully looking at each post of this thread.
Anyway, I don't know why I'm even posting in this thread. It just seems pointless and boring to me. There's a reason why I stopped talking to RR, especially on the gay issue. He wants to be a biggot, he can stay being one. My mistake for keeping uptodate with this thread.

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