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Message 55 of 174 (687252)
01-08-2013 8:33 PM
Reply to: Message 46 by foreveryoung
01-02-2013 9:42 PM


Re: hate you?
I may have forgotten a few others but I am sure of those three.
OK so we have those three you say hate you and we have seen their responses.
Onifre doesn't hate you, you just don't have a sense of humor so he likes to fuck with you. Kind of the dark side of a comedian.
Dr. A doesn't hate you, just 37% of your ideas. You're lucky, by the way, it's usually higher.
And Theo doesn't hate you, he says he doesn't think enough about any of us to care either way. You think you have it bad and here he just admitted to being an internet sociopath, sorta.
Each one thinks he has reasons for why they think that you think that they hate you.
OK, read it through my eyes and it actually doesn't make much sense either but you get my drift.
What we do not have is why you say these guys hate you.
Are they right? Do you not have a sense of humor? Is disagreement with 37% of your ideas your definition of hateful behavior? Is your phenotype missing some number of spinal vertebrae?
Or
Are there other reasons, yet to be revealed? A series of slights unnoticed by others?
Why do you think you are hated?
It can be hard to reveal oneself to a bunch of strangers in a forum with which one is already unhappy. But the catharsis can be constructive and the anonymity of the internet can make the soul baring less wrenching.
I for one will listen. I know others will as well. Ready?
Edited by AZPaul3, : none of your damn business
Edited by AZPaul3, : Stop snooping! My reasons are my own. Go away!

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AZPaul3
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Message 58 of 174 (687263)
01-08-2013 11:20 PM
Reply to: Message 57 by foreveryoung
01-08-2013 10:39 PM


She took several pictures at the party and everyone managed to be able to smile for the camera except for ME. I mean I tried as hard as I could and even when I tried to force a smile, it still showed up as a frown on the picture.
What was going on in your head? What were you thinking about in front of the camera? Some people are just camera shy. Don't think they do well on film. Or is there something deeper in there eating at you?
The only time when I am able to say that phrase is when I have had a few drinks. I recognize that is a dangerous place to be in and so I don't take the easy way out on that problem.
Good. A sane man. I think you're more stable than you want to believe.
I take everything very personally and even take things that were never meant to insult personally.
When this happens do you know inside there is no insult intended ? Don't want to pry (well actually yah I do) care to relate an example?
That's enough for now.

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AZPaul3
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Message 61 of 174 (687268)
01-08-2013 11:59 PM
Reply to: Message 59 by foreveryoung
01-08-2013 11:39 PM


I am a very dark person ...
I could, of course, make a crack about getting out from under the sun lamp but I'll let the levity slide.
I'm sorry FY, I cannot relate to this. What does it mean to be a "dark person"?
I am not able to smile period, camera or not, except for very rare occasions.
What occasions? What makes you happy? What brings out the smile?
I just feel desperate sometimes.
About what? What do you think is causing you such anguish?
FY, I don't want you to feel I've abandoned you. I reached out to you and you, very quickly, reached back. This is good.
I have to end this now, not by choice. I will be back in about 12 hours, earlier if I can manage it.
Go have a cup of coffee, a sandwich, some cookies and maybe go rant and rave on one of the gun control threads. I'll be back.

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Message 75 of 174 (687317)
01-09-2013 12:43 PM
Reply to: Message 71 by dwise1
01-09-2013 10:41 AM


What does she expect you to do, be on the alert for advances from other women?
Good lord, Wise, have you not figured that out yet?
She wants him to openly and fimly reject any and all such advances, hints of advances, flirtations and so on. She wants him to declare to the flirter and to everyone within earshot (the more women the better) that he is a one-woman man and intends to remain so.
She wants him to then turn to her and recite with the love welling in his eyes:
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
Then she'll give him a blowjob.
edit: Where is my conduct? That's Shakespeare, Sonnet 116
Edited by AZPaul3, : professional lapse averted
Edited by AZPaul3, : bad fingers.

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AZPaul3
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Message 76 of 174 (687326)
01-09-2013 2:07 PM
Reply to: Message 65 by foreveryoung
01-09-2013 2:33 AM


I don't want to be a dark person anymore
For you, and also now for the romantically challenged Dwise1, help me understand what it means to be a "dark person."
What does that entail?

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AZPaul3
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Message 80 of 174 (687336)
01-09-2013 3:40 PM
Reply to: Message 79 by dwise1
01-09-2013 3:16 PM


But that would still require the guy to be able to detect the flirting. Honesly, how many guys can do that as readily as a woman could?
OK, Female 101
It does not matter if you can or cannot see it. Her expectation is that you damn well better see it and react accordingly.
Well, when somebody asks me a question I assume it's a honest question and I try to give them an honest answer. How am I supposed to know there's subterfuge afoot?
OK, Female 102
When it comes to affairs of the heart there is always an ulterior motive. First, no woman ever speaks to a man or asks him a question or asks him for a favor or asks him for an opinion without a reason. Second, that reason is never the one that appears on the surface. Now refer back to Female 101.

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AZPaul3
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Message 106 of 174 (687592)
01-13-2013 11:02 PM
Reply to: Message 104 by RAZD
01-12-2013 6:09 PM


and making love with a bony girl causes bruises ...
Yah, I know ... now.

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AZPaul3
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Message 108 of 174 (687594)
01-14-2013 12:16 AM
Reply to: Message 107 by NoNukes
01-14-2013 12:05 AM


Maybe, but don't you have to stop long enough to find out?

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