On the other hand, regarding my "viewpoint problem," it remains entirely possible that gays are gay by choice, not by "nature," let us say.
I doubt that any single explanation is sufficient to cover the gamut of any human behavior; looking to
either genetics
or choice (if there even is such a thing) is simplistic, to say the least.
But it's nonetheless established that there's a correlation between male homosexuality and female sibling fecundity. A genetic influence is the simplest explanation.
If it's merely an optional human behavior (and ignoring the above fact), then I don't see what the relevance of natural selection is. If we're not talking about heritable traits then NS is irrelevant. It's no more "selection" than teen suicide is selection.