roxrkool writes:
If it's <= 3" at maximum size... well then that's likely going to be a problem, I'm sorry to say.
Based on my own experience and discussions with multiple wives and lovers, size only really matters at the extremes: awfully small presents a stimulus problem, and, at the other end of the range, nobody really wants their cervix bruised. As I used to tell my friends, it's vainglorious to think you're going to impress a passage that can accommodate a baby's head. Note that the photos presented to women to grade for sexual attractiveness found a correlation with flaccid penis size up to 3"--but the correlation decreased beyond that measure: Sex in the City notwithstanding, not Mr. Big, but Mr. Big Enough.
I probably shouldn't have started out laughingly, because I think the research raises some interesting questions.
The observation that the homo sapiens penis is both proportionately larger and more clearly displayed than other primates suggests that sexual selection may have driven both. The press report I linked to at least suggests that, in this case, sexual selection might have been partly driven by evaluations of potential pleasure rather than fitness: I can't think of another cited case of sexual selection where that applies, and I can't think of any way in which penis size would be a valid proxy for
general fitness.
In the classic example, the peacock's tail or its equivalent serve as a proxy for the peacock's general fitness; one hardly supposes the peahen obtains an extra frisson of pleasure because her mate has a gaudy tail.
So do homo sapiens display in this case a unique brand of sexual selection based on an evaluation of future pleasure rather than fitness? If so, that might represent a departure from prior known modes of selection, based on pleasure and utilizing our species' cognitive abilities to evaluate and anticipate.
Thanks for responding to the OP--I think it is fascinating research, and I feared I had wrong-footed it with humor I meant to be disarming.
Edited by Omnivorous, : No reason given.
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