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NoNukes
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Message 76 of 928 (728813)
06-03-2014 9:58 AM
Reply to: Message 71 by herebedragons
06-03-2014 9:14 AM


Re: Denial of service and not the person?
I don't provide that service (same sex wedding cakes) but I do bake wedding cakes. I can make you a wedding cake and sell you two sets of bride/groom cake toppers and you can put them on yourself.
Not really offensive in my opinion. But I don't imagine that Faith would be satisfied with such an option.

Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
I have never met a man so ignorant that I couldn't learn something from him. Galileo Galilei
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 77 of 928 (728814)
06-03-2014 10:01 AM
Reply to: Message 72 by herebedragons
06-03-2014 9:25 AM


should churches reserve the right to deny this service?
Churches are free to decline to marry anyone they want. That even includes not marrying people who are legally allowed to marry, but whom the pastor does not believe are ready. We've had discussions here about churches who refused to perform interracial marriages.
I think this is pretty much a non-issue. You don't actually need a church to get married. The state provides secular marriage services.

Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
I have never met a man so ignorant that I couldn't learn something from him. Galileo Galilei
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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Message 78 of 928 (728815)
06-03-2014 10:03 AM
Reply to: Message 67 by NoNukes
06-03-2014 8:36 AM


Those signs perpetuate bad feelings and bad behavior that would mostly die out over time. Not even the bigots who hate gays want to put such signs up on their businesses, because it makes them look like monsters. Well, most of them don't anyway.
So in other words even the bigots know that they're wrong, so they hide behind their god who, by some wild coincidence, hates the exact same things and people that the bigots hate.

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Message 79 of 928 (728817)
06-03-2014 11:12 AM
Reply to: Message 69 by NoNukes
06-03-2014 8:46 AM


Yup, that was my point. There'll always be people who won't comply 'on principle.' Martyrs.

Life, don't talk to me about life - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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ringo
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Message 80 of 928 (728821)
06-03-2014 11:44 AM
Reply to: Message 39 by NoNukes
06-02-2014 1:39 PM


Re: When it endangers others.
NoNukes writes:
In the case I described I have not forgiven a man for a personal affront that was committed only two weeks ago.
You said in Message 21, "I would be refusing service based on what he has already done." Neither the time frame nor the nature of the victim's previous action are pertinent. If we allow you to refuse service on the basis of previous action A, then we can not prevent you from refusing service on the basis of previous action B.

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ringo
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Message 81 of 928 (728822)
06-03-2014 11:49 AM
Reply to: Message 44 by Faith
06-02-2014 3:14 PM


Re: gay marriage objection
Faith writes:
What you are doing is advocating a law that discriminates against Bible believers, but that doesn't bother you.
I'm not advocating any law at all. I'm advocating licensing standards.
Buddhists are not licensed to have cockroaches running free in their restaurants and Christians are not licensed to persecute people. That's equality.

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ringo
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Message 82 of 928 (728823)
06-03-2014 12:00 PM
Reply to: Message 46 by AZPaul3
06-02-2014 3:36 PM


Re: An Established History
AZPaul3 writes:
No, because the con did not give deliberate offence to you personally inside your business. In NoNukes case the sob did just that.
The customer hit on the barber's wife. Maybe she had cause to take offense, maybe not.The barber did take offense but I don't know if any court would recognize that. Ownership of wives has slipped out of fashion. Since the wife isn't even present at the hypothetical present time, I'd say the barber has even less legal standing to take offense again.
AZPaul3 writes:
The opposite is the very reason your ex-con friend is required to stay more than 500 feet away from any schoolyard.
I'm not talking about keeping a child molester away from children. I'm talking about refusing a haircut to a reformed safecracker.
Edited by ringo, : pelling.

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Larni
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Message 83 of 928 (728828)
06-03-2014 1:23 PM
Reply to: Message 41 by NoNukes
06-02-2014 1:46 PM


Re: gay marriage objection
That you argue for the right to discriminate and your desire to live in a state where you and your pals are supreme marks you as the intolerant one
Isn't that why the pilgrims left Plymouth? So that they could persecute people not of their own faith?

The above ontological example models the zero premise to BB theory. It does so by applying the relative uniformity assumption that the alleged zero event eventually ontologically progressed from the compressed alleged sub-microscopic chaos to bloom/expand into all of the present observable order, more than it models the Biblical record evidence for the existence of Jehovah, the maximal Biblical god designer.
-Attributed to Buzsaw Message 53
The explain to them any scientific investigation that explains the existence of things qualifies as science and as an explanation
-Attributed to Dawn Bertot Message 286
Does a query (thats a question Stile) that uses this physical reality, to look for an answer to its existence and properties become theoretical, considering its deductive conclusions are based against objective verifiable realities.
-Attributed to Dawn Bertot Message 134

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AZPaul3
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Message 84 of 928 (728829)
06-03-2014 1:50 PM
Reply to: Message 82 by ringo
06-03-2014 12:00 PM


Re: An Established History
Since the wife isn't even present at the hypothetical present time, I'd say the barber has even less legal standing to take offense again.
The courts have always acknowledged the special emotional relationship between husband and wife. This is one reason a spouse cannot be compelled to testify. I think, based on this special relationship (the same, btw between parent/child), the courts would recognize that such an offense against the one is an offense against the other.
I'm talking about refusing a haircut to a reformed safecracker.
That was me being a bit tongue in cheek. Your safe cracker (reformed or not) as well as your molester (reformed or not) can expect to receive their haircut. But not the lascivious lech who hit on your wife, whether she is presently there or not.
Even in the rule of law the bench has latitude in assessing the realities of the human condition in their decisions.
This is a one-off situation as animus between two individuals having no bearing on society's compelling interest to fight broad discrimination. I've been wrong before but I would be willing to wager that no court in either of our systems would touch this case.
BTW, It has been a while, but you are beautiful again!
Edited by AZPaul3, : No reason given.

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Jon
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Message 85 of 928 (728853)
06-03-2014 5:00 PM
Reply to: Message 63 by NoNukes
06-02-2014 10:26 PM


I think your eagerness to make me look bad has hindered your ability to comprehend my very simple points.
I'll live.

Love your enemies!

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Modulous
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Message 86 of 928 (728860)
06-03-2014 7:26 PM
Reply to: Message 67 by NoNukes
06-03-2014 8:36 AM


Those signs perpetuate bad feelings and bad behavior that would mostly die out over time
Indeed - thousands of years, but over time. Of course, it isn't necessarily unidirectional. The last 50 years or so are anomalous and shouldn't be relied upon.
Not even the bigots who hate gays want to put such signs up on their businesses, because it makes them look like monsters.
But some would if it didn't. So actually they do want to, they just want to avoid the consequences more.

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Faith 
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Message 87 of 928 (728862)
06-03-2014 7:40 PM
Reply to: Message 71 by herebedragons
06-03-2014 9:14 AM


Re: Denial of service and not the person?
I think Faith may have made o good point somewhere upthread when she suggested that it was a matter of denying a particular service rather than a particular group or individual.
That's been my position all along, never deviated from it for a moment, though for some reason it's been just about impossible to get it across.
Should a person have the right to deny a specific service that is offensive as long as it doesn't extend into areas of general services that would exclude individuals.
That's what I've been proposing.
For example, if a member of the KKK came in and wanted you to bake a cake for their rally that said "We hate *****", you should be free to respond, "I don't provide that service (making cakes that promote hatred and bigotry). However, I do bake cakes, so I can bake a cake with no inscription on it and you can write whatever you want on it."
Could this same response be made to a same sex couple who want a wedding cake? "I don't provide that service (same sex wedding cakes) but I do bake wedding cakes. I can make you a wedding cake and sell you two sets of bride/groom cake toppers and you can put them on yourself."
This wouldn't work for me. As long as I know it's for a gay wedding I couldn't make a wedding cake at all. If they want to buy a simple cake out of the display case that's already there they are welcome to that, but a wedding cake is a very special creation and I'd have to refuse.
How would those two situations be different?
Would that be enough to ease the conscious of the person who doesn't support same-sex marriage?
Nope, see above. I'll sell them cookies, eclairs, brownies, cakes from the display case, but not a wedding cake. And the KKK people can do their own inscription.

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NoNukes
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Message 88 of 928 (728865)
06-03-2014 8:24 PM
Reply to: Message 85 by Jon
06-03-2014 5:00 PM


I think your eagerness to make me look bad has hindered your ability to comprehend my very simple points.
Really? I think I fundamentally disagree with the idea that letting people discriminate as long at they put up a sign is the way to go. It's not like your point was all that difficult to understand, although I was a bit curious about what you'd want those signs in Nebraska to say. But yeah, I did have some fun at your expense. At least I did resist the temptation to drop yet another 'democracy in action' funny.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.

Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
I have never met a man so ignorant that I couldn't learn something from him. Galileo Galilei
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 89 of 928 (728867)
06-03-2014 8:31 PM
Reply to: Message 80 by ringo
06-03-2014 11:44 AM


Re: When it endangers others.
If we allow you to refuse service on the basis of previous action A, then we can not prevent you from refusing service on the basis of previous action B.
If you allow me? What law prevents me from kicking people out of my shop after they behave badly? Have you ever actually worked at a retail establishment?
Ownership of wives has slipped out of fashion.
So if I kick someone out of the shop for hitting on my wife, that suggests ownership? I don't see it that way. I think we'll just have to disagree on that point. Since the affront was a throw away item just for fun, let's suggest instead that Jody took my favorite copy of Wrestling World Magazine the last time he was here. Or pretend he used the "J" word at a Japanese customer.
Just to make it abundantly clear. Ex-cons are welcome in my fictitious barber shop. In fact, I've got a barber here who served time for shoplifting.
Still not going to let Jody come back in. Probably ever.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.

Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
I have never met a man so ignorant that I couldn't learn something from him. Galileo Galilei
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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Modulous
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Message 90 of 928 (728868)
06-03-2014 8:39 PM
Reply to: Message 71 by herebedragons
06-03-2014 9:14 AM


Re: Denial of service and not the person?
Denial of service and not the person?
It is denying a service to a person.
I think Faith may have made o good point somewhere upthread when she suggested that it was a matter of denying a particular service rather than a particular group or individual.
The problem is denying a particular service generally to a group of people, membership of which says nothing about their character, opinions or personality. Such as refusing to bake wedding cakes for mixed race marriages.
For example, if a member of the KKK came in and wanted you to bake a cake for their rally that said "We hate *****", you should be free to respond, "I don't provide that service (making cakes that promote hatred and bigotry). However, I do bake cakes, so I can bake a cake with no inscription on it and you can write whatever you want on it."
Fair enough. But if you do serve wedding cakes, and a KKK member wants one, you have to make a choice. It turns out KKK membership isn't protected, so their complaints may well turn to nought.
Could this same response be made to a same sex couple who want a wedding cake? "I don't provide that service (same sex wedding cakes) but I do bake wedding cakes. I can make you a wedding cake and sell you two sets of bride/groom cake toppers and you can put them on yourself."
I suppose but the objection has so far been about baking a cake or providing some other product or service intended to be used to celebrate a same-sex marriage or some other analogous situations.

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