I see no point nor purpose for marriage between two men.
The point and purpose has to do with secular laws that treat married couples different from non-married people, laws that have to do with inheritance, especially of benefits, income tax breaks, visitation rights in hospitals and any other place where "family only" restrictions apply.
The point and purpose is to recognize that a devoted couple make a family unit.
The point and purpose is to recognize that we are all people of equal value.
What I dont expect nor accept is a couple in church limiting themselves to carnal expression.
Marriage is not about a license to have sex, it is about commitment for the long run, through sickness and health. A chosen demonstration of commitment, made in public to love and honor each other.
Give them their rights as a secular society.
And we do. A secular society dedicated to equality and justice, and to the freedom to pursue happiness where it is found.
Just as we, without discrimination, give heterosexual couples their rights to marry without regard for their religion or lack thereof, and without regard for their sexual preferences, predilections, practices or limitations (from age, infertility, sexual dysfunction, etc).
This church is, sadly a club I would want to avoid. They have no spirituality.
and I would not want to belong to a church that discriminates and rejects people from being members.
A church is much more than a social club for meeting people.
and when it is used to divide people into "us" and "them" it becomes evil.
But that's just my opinion ...
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