My take is the Rebel flag is it is a extremely polarizing symbol.
Agreed. Can't argue that point.
It is not imo, a monument to a way of life in the south. But was the rebel yell of the hatred of Yankees and Blacks and anyone who was not on board.
The Rebel Yell was a battle cry similar to other culture's battle cry. It was used for purposes of intimidating your enemy. Also, it's not like Northerners didn't want slavery and all Southerners did. There were quite a lot of Copperheads in the north and quite a lot of abolitionists in the South. Moreover, slavery was an ancillary issue. I hope you don't honestly believe that the Civil War was fought because the North wanted to abolish slavery and the South didn't. Because that's far too simplistic. The American Civil War was very complex in terms of causes for it.
Many people who fly that flag do so out of ignorance, many others out of strictly being provocative. In other words the assholes who do not have the first clue and will have the stars and bars tatooed on their chest with things like the "Souths gonna do it Again."
So in that regard it is not racist, but.....
I'm not saying it isn't a contentious symbol, because it is. I am simply pointing out that for its proponents there is more meaning and history behind it than what is being maligned and portrayed.
white supremacist do not see anything wrong with the confederate flag or the swastika, and in fact celebrate them. There is a reason for that and it is not because it is a "monument to the southern way of life' that included sweet tea and southern belles and corsets. It is because they want to identify themselves as racist and what better way to say it than with symbols from a time that disregarded the freedom and life of those victimized and oppressed.
White supremacists have of course usurped the flag, much to the dismay of other southerners who would like to stricken any racist connotation from the flag's symbolism.
Regardless, it really doesn't matter to me. Keep it. Burn it. Remove it from official state flags or retain it.
"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine