I have been away from EVC for a few months. Needed time to recharge. With all the things in the world, Puerto Rico, Las Vegas, North Korea, now I see this. I am for a moment overcome. Asqara has been here forever. Though she hadn't been around alot for the last few years she was still here. Like many here I was aware of her bouts with cancer. Worried when there was nothing for long periods. I remember her counselling me when I was a newer member. She helped me find how to express myself, while being a little less offensive.
I am truly sorry and heartbroken by your loss. I am not sure if this helps at all but it is not just your loss. It is all of our loss. Know she was well loved here also.
Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts
"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.
If your viewpoint has merits and facts to back it up why would you have to lie?