I need to quit being so selfish and thinking only of my own problems.
Maybe think of your "problems" as guides that outline what is needed and feasible to make them less problematic.
In my experience life is not just your job or just your barriers. Life about the journey to fulfillment and rewards rather than the destination. If the journey isn't challenging then the destination will seem empty.
For me, the images I'm most pleased with are the ones that were the most challenging.
What if Eleanor Roosevelt had wings? -- Monty Python
One important characteristic of a theory is that is has survived repeated attempts to falsify it. Contrary to your understanding, all available evidence confirms it. --Subbie
If evolution is shown to be false, it will be at the hands of things that are true, not made up. --percy
The reason that we have the scientific method is because common sense isn't reliable. -- Taq