Jesus Himself has no problem with homosexual atheists, Were they to meet, He would simply cast the demons that they had out of them, freeing theem up to truly love.
This always confuses the hell out of me. If Jesus has this power to cast out demons, why doesn't he apply it to Satan and thereby cast out all evil from the world? How did God not foresee that certain angels would rebel? How was he surprised that giving Adam and Eve free will would lead to their disobedience? So many Christians actually think of God like he's the guy down the street who likes to tinker in his garage, putting lots of stuff together just to see what happens. Maybe that is exactly what God is.
Did you ever stop to consider that you might have misinterpreted her intentions? Maybe she was just checking to make sure you weren’t some celibate Jesus freak who she shouldn’t waist her time on! Put that in your memory bank.
My older brother was agnostic and very concerned whether there might actually be supernatural forces and a heaven and possibly hell. After he died a few years ago he told me that there is no afterlife.