It IS "us vs. them" here, no getting around that. It is too bad but I find I have to be on the opposite side of Christians here. They are "them" to me unfortunately.
If you believe this then (IMHO), you have missed the point entirely. I regard EvC as a crucible where we put the torch to whatever ideas/beliefs/concepts we can come up with. Too rarely are these challenged in life and people suffer because of them. I lurked in admiration for over twelve months before I posted because there was so much high-class information to be absorbed.Even now, the range of talent and quality insights are hard to find elsewhere. The very fact that people have patiently shared their knowledge with you in spite of a stream of denigration should give you an idea of the calibre of the posters. Put your anger away and join in a spirit of adventure. Who knows, you may even learn a thing or two.