I am sure i'll keep checking in now that I have found this place, but I really am not able to follow through with anything due to the fact that I am overwhelmed by the amount of responses. Maybe I am lazy, not sure what it is, but it seems to huge a job for little ole me : (
I can understand how difficult it is for you. Here are some suggestions:
One reason you are overwhelmed is as Percy suggested; you are both asserting things which are known to be wrong and have been dealt with by people 100 times.
Another reason is that you don't actually get down, understand what the objections are and deal with them.
You don't have to answer each reply to you if they are all talking about the same thing. You can pick one or two and put the issue to bed for everyone.
If you don't want to try that then a Great Debate will make things a bit easier.
Someone else suggested a Great Debate format. There you can deal with one (or 2 or 3 - your choice) people at a time. The thing there is you need to pick someone who will do a good job of the discussion. You actually want someone who is going to be patient, tough on you and a good explainer.
You don't want someone who will be easy if you want to learn. You need someone who will insist on good communication and make you think. You also want someone who will go step by step patiently.
One member here who is very, very good at that is RAZD. You might see if he will discuss it all.
You never responded to some of my replies which were less about the actual debate and more about your approach to it.
You might not believe it to be true but even if you don't you might do better if you adopted the temporary attitude that people here really are honest and helpful and knowledgable. You might be surprised.