I have found out that the dictionary definition of evolution is quite different than the atheist's.
That is wrong. The general definition of evolution is different from the specific definition used for the theory of evolution.
I have found out that a lot of the discussion is about semantics.
Then you should not equivocate and use the wrong definitions.
I have found out that evolution is not a huge determining factor in the points for or against a creator. I have found out that a center of the fight is not for or against evolution but between atheists and fundamentalist Christians. I've found out that the fight is largely a political one.
Within the scientific community, there is not fight. The theory of evolution is universally accepted except for a few here and there who reject the theory on religious grounds.
The "fight" that one sees in school boards is between those who want a quality science education (which includes atheist and theist alike) and those who don't want their religious teachings contradicted by the science teacher.