If I'm going to be preaching, I want to be absolutely positive I'm plugging a belief that I am in 100% agreement with.
There is a scripture that might please you that I have found. I'm not saying it's a "fix it" but if you're willing to trust God, then you might silently read and heed.
Even though this is said in Romans, concerning unbelievers in Israel;
Romans;10:03: For I bare them record that they have a zeal of God, but not according to knowledge.
For they being ignorant of God's righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.
Even though that is said, there is an instance where it seems that God's way COULD be to send people to hell, but look at what it then says;
Romans;11:26: And so all Israel shall be saved.....11;30: For as ye in times past have not believed God, yet have now obtained mercy through their unbelief:
Even so have these also now not believed, that through your mercy they also may obtain mercy.
And another scripture is; "Nothing shall be impossible with God".
So certainly there's an instance here, where all is not lost, but it APPEARS lost. Like it APPEARED they were thirsty and hungry in the desert. THINK!!! - Here it speaks of righteousness - yet people are being saved through special circumstances.
Now I know you have insisted that my "righteouss" talk is connected with damnation, but here's an instance were it ain't necessarily so!
But by sending the bad people-the least-to hell, God is sending Himself to hell by your logic. So God will just torture anyone that he wants, but we can't?
What I meant, is that the "least" as in - the lowest, the poorest, with nothing etc.. - when they are mis-treated, we mis-treat God.
So now you see B2P, the God we believe in isn't necessarily the big ol' evil condemner he might APPEAR to be. I hope you can see now that God has his reasons, with this example. So you can see that in THIS God - yes, we CAN trust.