I like your situation and I hope you aren't going to discourage any more comments because even if you can't discuss the issue any further with your wife, you can still discuss the issue with us. Who knows? Maybe you will change.
I like what you said about being poor and being alone and think about how we should have sympathy for people who cling to the emotions that permeate this feeling of "light" that we get from others practicing religion.
I also appreciate the list you give in your first post which is this:
a) The world is no older than 6000 years.
b) There were once people who lived to the ripe old age of 900.
c) God speaks to the Watch Tower (or more specifically through Jehovah's Witness' "anointed" ones) who in turn "educate" the followers.
d) Blood transfusions are against the word of God, thus if any injury would result in the necessity of a blood transfusion she would *refuse* and die for her beliefs.
When you introduced yourself, you gave your occupation, a strong dedication that you have to science methodolgy, and a philosophical belief system that you place yourself in, but when you introduced your wife, you just gave a compliment that she is lovely.
I used to work as a real estate appraiser and now with the economy so bad, I don't have anything to do with my time. I don't want to let the housekeeper go, but I should so that we can contribute more to the college funds.
You might like to hear about a new theory of evolution that I write about on my webpage, but I hope that you see the predicament that some people are in without livelihoods that occupy their time. You are committed to thinking. It is in your work, in your hobbies, and in your ideology, but thinking doesn't produce jobs for some people. What they do with their minds could be characterized as "a miss" by some people who find no redeeming benefit from the person's thoughts.
I know because I have struggled for over 13 years trying to promote a new theory of evolution. I don't have anything to do with my time all day and my son wants to be picked up from school. My job was very hard and I worked long hours, but now I don't seem to be fit. So I exercise and occasionally try a post here.
Back to the subject. First and foremost, isn't it possible for your wife to store parts of her own blood in some way that would make it possible for her blood to be returned to her if the need arises?
Education from the Watchtower isn't just education. It is also news and stimulating questioning. It's nice to be in group that "thinks" together and I hope you encourage her.
Whether 900 or 6000 isn't really so important. I too have studied new age religions where I learned that humans have lived on earth for 300 million years according to the claim by theosophists and then again by Ascended Master Saint Germain, we hear that humans and earth have only been here for 4 million years. A direct contradiction even though both organizations claim to be Saint Germain associated. I think part of the solution to the claims can be attributed to nomenclature. What is human and earth to one person may not be distinct enough in definition and hence couldn't we claim that human is limited only to this current form of life we know and earth too when we speak of it, refers only to this type of earth - not an earth with other life on it?
And may I ask, "Is there any room at the top? I'd like to move up."