Strictly speaking all we can say from the experiments is that what we see at the far end is what we would see if the photon had taken a single path. What actually happens in between is not directly knowable Because it doesn't affect anything. And that is where your argument falls down - this phenomenon doesn't help your argument in the OP.
[qs] Strictly speaking all we can say from the experiments is that what we see at the far end is what we would see if the photon had taken a single path.
[qs] Strictly speaking all we can say from the experiments is that what we see at the far end is what we would see if the photon had taken a single path.
First, it didn't appear to post, and then when it did post, I tried editting it, and it wouldn't edit, and also, none of these posts contain my whole post either. It's strange. We'll see if this post works, but to be honest, I can't spend a lot of time here today.