I think it would be impossible to answer that.
I believe we are the sum of our experiences. I had to go through what I went through to bring me to this point. I thank God for calling me out. The bible tells us that coming to him is not just merely a human effort.
I am at a place of peace and content, even though some things are harder for me now, trying to do his will.
I don't want to judge other people's belief's in God, I do not know what they know. But God will judge them based on what they know. So it's all relative to me. I just want to do my job, and that's love God, and love others.