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pink sasquatch
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Message 13 of 309 (159264)
11-14-2004 12:58 AM
Reply to: Message 11 by General Nazort
11-14-2004 12:45 AM


promiscuity, yes. homosexuality, no.
Their is evidence that the average homosexual lifestyle is rather harmful. One of the main reasons is the huge amount of partners that most homosexuals have which results in the spread of AIDS among many homosexuals.
I don't think we can say that "most" homosexuals have a "huge amount of partners" unless you have some evidence to that effect.
In any case, since you have identified the problem as promiscuity, you have not shown that "homosexuality" is harmful; you've shown that promiscuity is harmful.
Homosexuals and heterosexuals alike have the ability to choose unsafe sex or many partners - these things increase the likelihood STD transmission, not sexual orientation.
Also from the US Dept of Health site you cited:
Of newly infected men, approximately 50 percent are black, 30 percent are white, 20 percent are Hispanic, and a small percentage are members of other racial/ethnic groups.
Is being "black" a harmful lifestyle, too?
Also, if you consider the entire world, the leading cause of the spread of HIV is heterosexual sex.
Thus the average heterosexual lifestyle is harmful, according to your logical.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 17 of 309 (159282)
11-14-2004 2:52 AM
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11-14-2004 2:15 AM


1978!?! historical perspective needed.
Regarding your source on promiscuity, I want to reference your comment on Africa:
Most of that is because of the epidemic in Africa, where most people dont know that sex causes AIDS. You can't use that to show heterosexuality is more harmful - Africa skews the statistics.
Your source for homosexual behavior is from 1978, before it was known that sex caused HIV/AIDS in the US. Thus the source is severely outdated and of little use to discussion of homosexual behavior after discovery of GRIDS/AIDS/HIV.
I guess the question then becomes does homosexuality lead to promiscuity, or are only the already promiscious likely to become homosexuals?
No, the question becomes, do you have any source on homosexual behavior that isn't thirty years old? Your assertion that the present "homosexual lifestyle" is one of promiscuity needs evidence. (And your questions are very offensive without some serious evidence).
Heh, no I would call it a harmful lifestyle, but I guess those statistics mean it is more dangerous to be black.
(I'm assuming you meant to say "not a harmful lifestyle".)
No, the statistics do not mean that ethnicity determines "danger" of HIV infection. It implies that there are black culture attributes (likely in a certain subculture) that result in a higher rate of exposure. It is those attributes, and not "blackness", that increase likelihood of HIV infection.
Just like it is not "homosexuality", but certain attributes of (a likely subculture of) homosexuality that increase risk.
Thus being "homosexual" or "black" in itself is NOT dangerous or harmful.
You can't use that to show heterosexuality is more harmful - Africa skews the statistics.
Yes, I can, following your simple reading of statistics. I did exactly what you did, only with global statistics rather than national statistics. In examining the global epidemic, would you throw out the US numbers because they "skew the statistics" towards homosexuality?
Since I used a much bigger sample size, I have a better representation of the average person with HIV, and that average person is heterosexual.
Thus, (again according to your logic) the heterosexual lifestyle is harmful.
I wanted to stick with the US, where people are knowledeable about these things and dont have that kind of excuse.
I think you wanted to stick with the US because the statistics appear to match your argument.
You need to learn some AIDS-related history. The epidemic spread of HIV in homosexual populations of the US happened twenty years ago, when the US was no more "knowledgeable about these things" than Africans currently are.
Your refusal to excuse is no excuse at all - historical perspective is needed.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 19 of 309 (159286)
11-14-2004 3:24 AM
Reply to: Message 16 by General Nazort
11-14-2004 2:15 AM


More fun with statistics!
I wanted to stick with the US, where people are knowledeable about these things and dont have that kind of excuse.
Okay. Let's look at data from a recent CDC report on HIV in the US:
From this data, heterosexuality is more harmful than homosexuality when it comes to transmitted HIV. Heterosexuals must be more promiscuous than homosexuals. Also, heterosexuality is getting increasingly harmful each year!
Egads!
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Added by edit: A better table title would be "Number of cases of HIV by year as percentage of HIV cases in 1998".
This message has been edited by pink sasquatch, 11-14-2004 03:27 AM

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pink sasquatch
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Message 22 of 309 (159295)
11-14-2004 5:20 AM
Reply to: Message 21 by The Dread Dormammu
11-14-2004 4:49 AM


can something genetic be immoral?
There is evidence that there is a strong genetic component to homosexuality; even if the exact nature of that component is unclear:
Hum Biol. 1998 Apr;70(2):347-65.
Human sexual orientation has a heritable component.
Pillard RC, Bailey JM.
Department of Psychiatry, Boston University School of Medicine, MA 02118, USA.
We present an overview of behavioral genetics research on homosexual and heterosexual orientation. Family, twin, and adoptee studies indicate that homosexuality and thus heterosexuality run in families. Sibling, twin, and adoptee concordance rates are compatible with the hypothesis that genes account for at least half of the variance in sexual orientation. We note observations of homosexual behavior in animal species, but the analogy to human sexual orientation is unclear. We discuss the reproductive disadvantage of a homosexual orientation and present possible mechanisms that could maintain a balanced polymorphism in human populations.
I ask those who think that homosexuality is immoral: How can a characteristic determined by genetics be immoral?
We don't consider ethnicity in moral terms, or hair color, or a developmental syndrome such as autism, so why homosexuality?
When a characteristic is based in genetics, individuals have no choice in the matter. Without the possibility of choice, there is no decision where morality can enter the equation.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 25 of 309 (159305)
11-14-2004 6:21 AM
Reply to: Message 24 by The Dread Dormammu
11-14-2004 6:14 AM


sex or orientation
So you are defining homosexuality by sex acts? That seems to be the case by the nature of your post.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 39 of 309 (159421)
11-14-2004 5:47 PM
Reply to: Message 37 by coffee_addict
11-14-2004 5:26 PM


was an apology needed?
You have no idea how close I came to putting you [TDD] on my enemy list.
Lam - I'm not sure why. In support of Dread I thought it was quite obvious he was stating the two were completely different. I think if people read that he was equating homosexuality with pedophilia it is their own reactionary hang-up.
(My opinion is Dread deserves an apology...)
I wish people would actually read Dread's posts carefully. He repeatedly get replies from people assuming he's anti-homosexual, when clearly he is not from his posts.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 43 of 309 (159431)
11-14-2004 6:07 PM
Reply to: Message 40 by The Dread Dormammu
11-14-2004 6:01 PM


Re: was an apology needed?
Dread,
I agree.
I just wish people would have read your posts carefully before jumping to conclusions and attacking you as some sort of ignorant bigot.
I found their behavior offensive.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 55 of 309 (159499)
11-14-2004 11:20 PM
Reply to: Message 54 by Lizard Breath
11-14-2004 10:15 PM


everything sperm is sacred
As far as a woman sucking my cock as being wrong, think again. The Bible says that the bed is undefiled between a husband and a wife so in my scale of economy that gives me great lattitude as to what we can and cannot due with each other in bed under the umbrella of one man and one woman in legal holy marriage.
Actually I think you need to "think again", wasting sperm is punishable by death:
Gen 38:9-10 And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
Others have used this passage as Biblical proof that oral, anal, or any non-vaginal sex act is a sin against God.
LB, if you are interested in talking about the Bible in reference to homosexuality, why not join the Bible and Homosexuality discussion, rather than posting in this intentionally Bible-free thread.
I'd be interested to see what anti-homosexual verses you have to offer.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 59 of 309 (159505)
11-14-2004 11:56 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by The Dread Dormammu
11-10-2004 5:19 AM


harm in homophobia
Perhaps we are looking at this problem in the wrong way:
Bagley, C., and Tremblay P. (1997) Suicidal behaviors in homosexual and bisexual males. Crisis, 18(1), 24-34.
Abstract by authors: A stratified random sample of 750 males in Calgary, Canada, aged 18-27 years, were given questions on sexual activity and orientation. Mental health questions included a measure of suicidality and of acts of deliberate self-harm. A computerized response format, which has ben established as a good method method for eliciting sensitive personal data, ensured anonymity. Almost 13% of the males were classified as homosexual or bisexual on the basis of being currently homosexually active or by self-identification. Significant higher rates of previous suicidal ideas and actions were reported by homosexually oriented males accounting for 62.5% of suicide attempters. These findings, which indicate that homosexual and bisexual males are 13.9 times more at risk for a serious suicide attempt, are consonant with previous findings. The predominant reason for the suicidality of these young males may be linked to the process of "coming out," especially for those who currently have high levels of depression. These results underscore the need for qualified services rarely available to homosexually oriented youth.
Apparently an antihomosexual society is harmful, since it applies psychological pressures so great that they result in depression and suicide. Additionally, an antihomosexual society does not provide services to homosexuals who need them, exacerbating the problem.
Thus the harm is not in homosexuality, but in homophobia.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 62 of 309 (159511)
11-15-2004 12:19 AM
Reply to: Message 61 by Zachariah
11-15-2004 12:14 AM


Re: harm in homophobia
This whole thread is a joke... You don't want an answer to this question, and if on comes your way you won't except it.
Your rant leads me to believe that you do not have a single reason why homosexuality is harmful. If you do, please present it, and we'll discuss it.
Or was there a point that was already brought up in the thread that you think we dismissed to readily and you'd like to defend?

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pink sasquatch
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Message 67 of 309 (159535)
11-15-2004 1:46 AM
Reply to: Message 64 by Zachariah
11-15-2004 1:36 AM


harm is the topic
That would be off-topic. If you want to start a seperate topic, do so.
Again, your response leads me to believe you can't come up with anything harmful about homosexuality. If you can, by all means come out and state it so we can have an actual discussion.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 70 of 309 (159542)
11-15-2004 1:54 AM
Reply to: Message 66 by Zachariah
11-15-2004 1:46 AM


Re: Zack backwards view
So is anyone here willing to open there minds to the idea that homosexuality is harmfull to society?
Perhaps if you gave more than vague comments you would get somewhere. Either present an actual argument or stop whining.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 81 of 309 (159582)
11-15-2004 3:42 AM
Reply to: Message 75 by Zachariah
11-15-2004 2:22 AM


Re: harm is the topic
You provide a nice list of assertions with no evidence to back them up. You say studies exist. Please link to the studies or give more information about them.
Families without a father are more prone to violence (goto fathermag.com). I know, then 2 fathers are better than one? One has to pick up the mother role and men don't have the same working instincts of mothering as women do.
I went to fathermag, and didn't see what you were talking about. Please provide a direct link.
The studies I have seen state that having two loving parents (vs. one) is the important factor in raising a well-adjusted child, not the gender of the parents.
There is no family values anymore.
Yeah, if you check the Bush is Back pt II thread, you'll find the statistics showing that red states, and specifically the states that voted against homosexual marriage, are the ones with the highest divorce rates.
The heathen "blue states" keep their families together better than the anti-homosexual Bible-belt-basket "red states". Who should we trust about the dangers of homosexuality to the sanctity of the family?
Look at Britney Spears and Christina Agulerra (?)[spelling] with Madonna.
That has nothing to do with homosexuality. Do you really base your knowledge of sex on MTV? No wonder you have bizarre ideas.
So when I see your stat on the "heterosexual" +AIDS stats I say its because of alot of stupid young jerkoffs trying to act like the people they see on t.v.
The stats I present weren't of heterosexuals with HIV. They were of confirmed cases of heterosexual transmission of HIV. You do know the difference right? Heterosexual transmission means they got HIV through heterosexual sex, and not homosexual experimentation.
If they got it through homosexual experimentation it would go in the homosexual transmission category.
You interpretation is wrong.
When there are pro-gay groups giving talks at schools about how to fist each other with MY tax dollars like they did at Tufts University (888webtoday.com [Dr. James Dobson])
You do realize I'm actually looking at your sources, don't you? There is nothing about "fisting training" at 888webtoday.com.
And maybe you should think about more objective sources than unreviewed conservative websites.
Provide some real studies, please.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 82 of 309 (159586)
11-15-2004 3:48 AM
Reply to: Message 77 by Zachariah
11-15-2004 2:35 AM


Re: harm in homophobia
I thought the homophobic problem with the suicidal folks in post 59 was HER (pink) perspective. Is that now fact in here?
First of all, why do you think I'm a "HER"?
I'm guessing it is because you quickly judge people with little to no knowledge of them.
Since you "know" my sex, do you "know" my sexuality, too?
By the way, it was not my perspective, I was reiterating what I thought was an important conclusion of the study:
Bagley and Tremblay writes:
The predominant reason for the suicidality of these young males may be linked to the process of "coming out," especially for those who currently have high levels of depression. These results underscore the need for qualified services rarely available to homosexually oriented youth.
There would be no stress associated with "coming out" to an open society (indeed in an open society "coming out" wouldn't exist as a process). The stress and fear and depression come from the pressure of being one's self in a bigoted society. The lack of services available for homosexuals (again a result of a bigoted society) exacerbate this problem.
That's the conclusion of the study.

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pink sasquatch
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Message 85 of 309 (159590)
11-15-2004 3:52 AM
Reply to: Message 78 by Zachariah
11-15-2004 2:38 AM


Re: harm in homophobia
...going to hell...
Can you show me that in the bible? Answer. No. It's not there.
You're wrong. Here it is:
Jude 1:7 Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
Unless you think that "eternal fire" refers to something other than hell...

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