Every service that this "married couple" could recieve from social service all the way up to tax benifits at time of filing. All coming out of our pockets.
This is true for ANY married couple - including heterosexual marriages between atheists, interracial couples, non-Christians (pagans and Satanists, oh my!) - perhaps a solution to your dilemma would be to remove all social benefits to all couples?
Perhaps a tab should be kept on all couples and if they divorce, they must pay back the full sum of any monetary benefits they received during their marriage?
I checked out the link to the Emmitsburg Dispatch - the sole reason behind the authors "logical" reasoning that homosexuals cannot marry is that they cannot procreate. Firstly, we know this is not true; we also know that they can adopt. Secondly, the same logic should require fertility testing of heterosexuals to prevent the infertile from marrying.
Besides what are all the reasons that gay people want to get married in the government eyes? It all has to do with money... Pension, medical benifits, governmental benifits, social security, money money money, all coming out of our pockets.
What about equal rights? Or simple respect?