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jar
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Message 286 of 316 (187354)
02-21-2005 9:36 PM


The Pro-life folk are just liars.
If they were really Pro-Life they would simply offer to adopt every unwanted child. They are only ANTI. Anti-abortion, anti-education, anti-contraception, anti-freedom, anti-family, anti-freedom. Using Pro-Life as their standard is just the GREAT LIE. Fantastic propaganda but no substance.

Aslan is not a Tame Lion

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Message 287 of 316 (187362)
02-21-2005 10:03 PM
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02-21-2005 9:36 PM


Re: The Pro-life folk are just liars.
Yeah, I saw on tv a couple of years ago, a bunch of pro-lifers having a street march in New York. They were holding up big photos of people convicted of murder for bombing abortion clinics, and in doing so killing and maiming the people within. The marchers were looking up to these people as some kind of glorious martyrs.
After I got past being profoundly disturbed, I was amazed at how these pro-life people can talk of abortion being murder, but are quite happy to justify killing people when when it serves the interests of their own perverse agenda.

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Message 288 of 316 (187397)
02-22-2005 12:21 AM
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02-21-2005 10:03 PM


Re: The Pro-life folk are just liars.
After I got past being profoundly disturbed, I was amazed at how these pro-life people can talk of abortion being murder, but are quite happy to justify killing people when when it serves the interests of their own perverse agenda.
They drive panel vans around Columbia with big, color photos of bloody aborted fetuses on the side. As graphic as you can imagine.
This, from the crowd that's so concerned with the "dignity of life"? The "pro-life" movement is nothing but hollow rhetoric so that nosy moralists can call women names I wouldn't repeat to a sailor.

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Message 289 of 316 (187436)
02-22-2005 6:10 AM
Reply to: Message 281 by riVeRraT
02-21-2005 9:02 PM


Re: Law means nothing I guess.
I am sorry if you feel it's exploitation. If it is, then so are many things in life.
I don't feel that it is, it simply is. The fact that many other things are as well does not excuse the activity. I am sorry that you don't feel that it is exploitation, because it is.
Oh, and I titally agree with you that we should show love, and then let others then ask us about God. I believe that people should see Christ in me, and then ask on their own.
This would not be so bad except that you are in a sense lying to yourself. Look at all of the materials you linked to. If that is not pride and "making a show of it" I don't know what is. When you set out to help people it is with a background reason of pride and vanity, self vanity.
Let me ask you this, if you were unable to ever discuss your God, nor mention your deeds in relation to that God, how many would be disheartened and give up helping altogether? Before you answer let me remind you that the whole point of Faith Based programs, and recent moves to make sure they can discriminate in their hiring practices is that Xians do not want to work to help people unless they can do so in a spirit of evangelism and unencumbered by disbelievers.
In other countries your family will dis-own you for becoming a Christian.
And this is unlike Xians?
Nobody on a mission is opressing anyone, they are just telling them the good news. It is a choice of the individual.
Again, if you are telling people the "good news" then the bad news is you aren't helping anybody for honest reasons, but in a subterfuge to spread your faith.
When people are weak (poor, starving, uneducated) and you give them material wealth, food, and education then you have put them in a precarious position. You make anything else you demand of them seem like something they should submit to, as well as creating a stock dilemma regarding their culture and yours. Do you tell them about the wonders they might find in Buddhism, Judaism, Shintoism? You are supplying them with a false perception of the world (and choices within the world) when they are at their most vulnerable.
Cargo Cults perfectly demonstrate the nature of cultural contamination based merely on perceived "betterness" given that they are aided materially.
Regular Cults which we roundly condemn when they are not Xian, use the methods which you just described for yourself, only they artificially create the poverty situation for their new recruits. In your case you are taking those whose material situation has naturally rendered them weak. In either case, the rest is brainwashing.
This is why we must be a vessel to show people who and what Christ is all about.
If the Devil can do as you say, how do you know that you are right and not merely being deceived? Why is it others that must be wrong?
I am telling you must accept what I believe to be right, as well as I have to accept what you believe is right, then the majority rules... If I get my belief's from my religion, that is my business, and has nothing to do with if I feel it is right or not. You cannot tell me what is valid to get my belief's from.
But I do accept them, I am even saying they should be accepted by law. You are saying mine should not be accepted by law. In any case, majority does not rule and it is in particular when religious beliefs are used to guide them.
If the majority was jewish then it would be okay for the gov't to force all men to be circumcized, wear yamulkas, and not to allow the sale of pig meat or shellfish? After all their belief may come from their religion, but it doesn't matter?
Don't you understand that it becomes important when the proscriptions you are talking about are the extension of your religious (or metaphysical) beliefs, and are not based on general rights issues all can partake in?
It's no great secret, that if you have vaginal intercourse, you can create life.
Yes, but the idea that life is sacred in general (such that it cannot be ended during gestation), or that zygotes and fetuses are conceptually like persons, drives your idea that the situation is sex with risk of pregnancy and birth, as opposed to sex with risk of pregnancy followed by birth or abortion.
You are artificially cutting off abortion as one of the natural options.
So you get hit by a car, and the doctor helps you, should we kill your child to save you?
I thought you already said yes to this.
Hold on to your old history books, and compare them 30 years from now to the new ones.
Oh I realize that a major revisionist history is in the works from the evangelicals. It is the only way they can foster the illusion that this nation was founded on their brand of Xianity or a religion in general, instead of being one of the first secular nations.
Of course that won't mean anything to me, unless you are suggesting you guys will be burning the original documents our founding fathers wrote?
Remember I didn't tell you to look at history books. I said to go to the source. See that is the difference between you and me. I don't read what others of my generation have crafted so I can understand what this nation is about, I read what the authors of this nation wrote and left for us to read so that we might know what this nation is about.
The lack of patriotism of evangelicals is always insightful.
My belief's on abortion, comes from my respect of human life. It was then later confirmed by God to me.
I repeat, that this is a religious position, even if it is not a specifically Xian religious position. To believe a mass of cells is equal to a person and so of competing rights with the woman that is feeding the parasitic growth, stems from a wholly religious/spiritual/metaphysical belief.
That does not make it wrong, but it does mean that it is not factual and basing laws off of it will oppress those who do not share that position.
there is obviously bad things happening to them over there, and if we come in and do good things, isn't this enough for them to see the difference between what they believe in, and what we believe in?
Yes this is exactly what I am talking about. You help weak and vulnerable people and then exploit them for your own emotional needs, by fostering an illusion that they should pay homage in some respect to your religion.
See what good you are getting now? It is because of brand X religion.
Unless their religion and culture were specifically destroying them, rather than fate of economic and environmental circumstances, then your merging your aid with your beliefs is subterfuge. It is one of the lowest forms of predation.
They are going to die, and will probably never get to tell others of what we would show them about Jesus. I hardly find that exploitation... The word exploitation means to use someone for ones advantage. What advantage do we get having some kid in a jungle on the other side of the world become a Christian?
God the imagery is so disgusting to me. Can't you see what the problem is yourself? Look at the very articles you quoted to me, or how you explain what you are doing for these poor dying girls. What are you getting out of it? Emotional satisfaction of pride and vanity. You are forcing conversion on people reaching their deathbed... and at early ages yet.
Do you think children have any conception of what God and Jesus really are? Is there some reason that Buddhism (which is the native cultural religion) would not have sufficed to help them through their suffering?
This is ghoulish activity.
It's not like we are asking them to send us all their banana's or something.
You get money from the gov't remember, as well as from private individuals that feel sorry for the kids. You don't have to get bananas from them (by the way, nice insult).
So you get money from others, and gloat above dying young girls that you are sharing this money with them in order to convince these kids who have little capacity to understand what they really believe, that your religion is great for them. What is the sound of one hand clapping?
I know these are not things you will see on CNN, because it is not bad news, and does not bring in the ratings.
You realize that none of that showed that changing their religious beliefs were necessary to end headhunting? Nor did the specifically have to become Xian. I love this particular quote...
The converts grew in faith and became leaders of a new, energetic church. Within two generations, the entire Hmar tribe was evangelized. Headhunting stopped and "heart-hunting" began.
Same as it ever was... predation.
Oh by the way...
In 1971, God gave Hmar tribe members Rochunga and Mawii Pudaite a dream: to give a free copy of the New Testament to all the families of the world. They founded Bibles for the World ministries and have since sent more than 16 million copies of the New Testament, translated in the appropriate local language, to homes everywhere.
Who paid for 16 million copies? Them are a lot of bananas.
We are not exploiting these children, we are saving them from it.
Let me make this clear, I have no problem with the physical/economic/social aid which many Xian organizations bring. I don't even mind some of the incidental cultural contamination which would naturally result.
It becomes exploitation, that is you are saving them from one kind only to deliver them to another, when your aid is specifically tied to ulterior motives. It is quite clear that you have ulterior motives and it is your emotional gratification which is important. This is proven when you are not helping them live in order to continue their own culture or find their future for themselves.
It really is insulting to treat cultures so condescendingly.
ADDED SECTION: I don't want to keep having a split post debate, so I am including the malformed child debate within this one.
Let me start from scratch. If you believe that God creates everything, then men cannot override his desires can they? Was that child a creation of man because it wasn't what men like? But if it looked as if what men liked then it must be from God?
That seems to be a circular argument.
The medical assessment is that it was naturally occuring and not caused by pollution, though your "spiritual pollution" could still be a possibility. The fact is that pregnancy does not always go as expected, and things like this can happen. It is part of the refutation of glib commentary such as "fetuses are babies than need to be given a chance".
Since your position was the LIFE was sacred and should not be played with, or harmed, and indeed should be protected, then I do not see what your argument is in this case.
The second head was not necessarily posing a physical danger to the child at all. It would form an inconvenience but not a harm. At least that was not in anything I read. Given that there are living twins joined at the head shows that it is not inherently dangerous.
The reason they gave is that it was not going to be capable of independent life, whereas in those other cases the joined twins had separate sets of organs.
Thus this was all about defining personhood based on wholeness of body and possibility of independent existence, rather than parasitism.
It would seem then that it would still count as LIFE according to all of the rules you have expressed and therefore demand protection... whether viewed as a deformity or not. If the mother and doctor have a choice over that beings life here, then why not earlier before any such functionality was possible in the gestational being?

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"...don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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riVeRraT
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Message 290 of 316 (187454)
02-22-2005 8:28 AM
Reply to: Message 289 by Silent H
02-22-2005 6:10 AM


Re: Law means nothing I guess.
I don't feel that it is, it simply is. The fact that many other things are as well does not excuse the activity. I am sorry that you don't feel that it is exploitation, because it is.
Um, its not. Look up the word exploitation, and explain to me how it is.
This would not be so bad except that you are in a sense lying to yourself. Look at all of the materials you linked to. If that is not pride and "making a show of it" I don't know what is. When you set out to help people it is with a background reason of pride and vanity, self vanity.
Um, I was asked what I was doing to help.
I can state what organizations I belong to, and what I do, that is not making a show of it. Are you trying to discourage what I am doing?
Let me ask you this, if you were unable to ever discuss your God, nor mention your deeds in relation to that God, how many would be disheartened and give up helping altogether?
I help many people without ever mentioning the word God.
It's so cool when I do, because then they usually mention it. That is God and the Holy Spirit working through them. All I have to do is love one another.
In other countries your family will dis-own you for becoming a Christian.
And this is unlike Xians?
Your right. We shouldn't be, and not all Christian are that way. I question just how Christian a person is, when they do something like that.
Cargo Cults perfectly demonstrate the nature of cultural contamination based merely on perceived "betterness" given that they are aided materially.
That is a imatation of the real thing. You cannot imatate something unless there is a real genuine counter part.
When the supplies stop, the faith would stop, this is not the case with Christianity. They can continue on thier own, and we get nothing from it.
Again, I tell you the truth prevails.
If the Devil can do as you say, how do you know that you are right and not merely being deceived? Why is it others that must be wrong?
Because the spirit of truth dwells within you.
John 16:13
But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.
It was written almost 2000 years ago, and is still true today. It is the real thing, and available to all. It stands on its own, once made known. It does not exploit, but it loves.
Don't you understand that it becomes important when the proscriptions you are talking about are the extension of your religious (or metaphysical) beliefs, and are not based on general rights issues all can partake in?
Yes I understand. That is why I mentioned a few hundred times, that my belief in the sanctity of life regardless of my religious beliefs tell me that abortion is not ok, in some circumstances. If I was allowing my religion to guide me, I would be completely against abortion in all cases.
I am not asking everyone to recieve communion every Sunday or something. People must be responsible for their own actions.
You are artificially cutting off abortion as one of the natural options.
I do not find abortion a natural option.
Just like murdering someone you do not like, is not a natural option.
The lack of patriotism of evangelicals is always insightful.
Now your telling me I am not a patriot?
What happen to arguing the position, not the person?
I repeat, that this is a religious position, even if it is not a specifically Xian religious position. To believe a mass of cells is equal to a person and so of competing rights with the woman that is feeding the parasitic growth, stems from a wholly religious/spiritual/metaphysical belief.
No it doesn't, it is life, plain and simple.
This is true because once you create it, you are responsible for it, even if you have an abortion, you have then suffered for your mistake.
This makes it true.
Unless their religion and culture were specifically destroying them,
That is exactly what is happening in most circumstances.
Remeber our priority is not to evangilize, but to help.
If we help, and do not show them the way of truth and the light, when we leave, things will go right back to where they were. Instead we can turn it around.
Doing things for the good, and only for the good, without God is empty and will not stand the test of time.
You get money from the gov't remember, as well as from private individuals that feel sorry for the kids. You don't have to get bananas from them (by the way, nice insult).
We do not get money, we give money. Not only do we give it, but we have to pay our own way into these countries. We cannot use the money we get to give.
It wasn't an insult, it was a metaphore.
Again, argue the position, not the person.
Same as it ever was... predation.
Oh so you prefer that they continue head hunting?
Who paid for 16 million copies? Them are a lot of bananas
Where did those copies go? To local families, we received nothing.
They were lacking bibles, and could not now the word of God.
This is a great testimony of the power of truth and God.
It becomes exploitation, that is you are saving them from one kind only to deliver them to another, when your aid is specifically tied to ulterior motives
Thats your opinion.
This is proven when you are not helping them live in order to continue their own culture or find their future for themselves.
???
It would seem then that it would still count as LIFE according to all of the rules you have expressed and therefore demand protection... whether viewed as a deformity or not. If the mother and doctor have a choice over that beings life here, then why not earlier before any such functionality was possible in the gestational being?
I'm telling you I do not know. It is obviously not a normal situation, and I cannot judge this one.
Something obviously went wrong wouldn't you think?
Or will we never really know?
I do not feel the morals or principals can be compared to a "normal" pregnancy.
BTW, the thread is coming to an end, and I really enjoyed our debate.

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riVeRraT
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Message 291 of 316 (187456)
02-22-2005 8:37 AM
Reply to: Message 285 by Asgara
02-21-2005 9:22 PM


Re: My feelings
The law means that the unborn have no rights.
But now there are laws concerning the rights of the unborn.
So which is it?
It's just another way for people to play games with life.
Tell me that things haven't changed for you since having done that to yourself. ( I am not putting you down, please do not feel that way).
I pray and hope that God forgives us both.
This has helped me to understand why in the OT that when you raped a woman, you then had to care for her for the rest of your life.

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riVeRraT
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Message 292 of 316 (187457)
02-22-2005 8:39 AM
Reply to: Message 283 by Asgara
02-21-2005 9:12 PM


Re: Law means nothing I guess.
You do NOT have control over what I do with MY body, or my beliefs.
It's not your body that concerns me, you already made the choice to do something in which you can get pregnant. It's the life that is inside you that concerns me.
Do you consider your unborn child to be life?

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Message 293 of 316 (187459)
02-22-2005 9:04 AM
Reply to: Message 275 by Silent H
02-21-2005 6:14 PM


off topic, proposal to start new discussion
quote:
How on earth can they have a free choice when their aid is linked to a religious message? Come on.
I agree with this completely, holmes, but it seems terribly similar to the argument I was using against you when we were discussing if it was exploitative for someone to offer substantial financial reward to Islamic, desperate Afghan women if they posed for nude photographs.
I was wondering if you would be interested in explaining what the difference is, and why one is exploitative and the other isn't?
A new coffee house thread would be appropriate, I think.

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Message 294 of 316 (187463)
02-22-2005 9:38 AM
Reply to: Message 277 by riVeRraT
02-21-2005 7:56 PM


Re: A person put on life support is not dead and a dead person is not put on life sup
quote:
The third choice in a google search, right after the link you supplied is this one:
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/homicide/children.htm
That's from the government, not some pro-abortion web-site, an dit shows an increase in infanticde.
The information I posted was from a site with was working to end infanticide riverrat.
The information I posted is consistent with the government information.
Also, I'd like you to address how it is that having a choice actually forces you to do any particular thing.
If you can choose to buy pork rinds at the supermarket, and you do so, were you forced to buy them, just because they were there?
I'd also like to know how you propose we find homes for the five million unwanted children per year which would result if we drastically restricted abortion like you suggest.
quote:
Abortion does not justify infanticide. They are the same to me.
So, a viable child who is already here is the same to you as a few hunderd cells you need a microscope to see, or a little blob of tissue with no brain?
If this is the case, then you must think that the parasitic head removed from the infant recently was a case of infantacide, don't you?
[qs]This is no longer a question among modern biologists. At the very moment of conception a human being comes into existence.[/quote]
This is completely false!! Completely false.
Give me some kind of quote from a Biology textbook that claims this.
quote:
At any time after this the deprivation of life in this living matter, if done deliberately, is murder.
Biologists endorse nothing of the sort in a professional capacity.
That website blatantly and shamefully uses the authority of science/Biology to further it's religious and philosophical agenda. It is full of heavily biased and false and misleading information.
quote:
So your asking me which is worse, when they are both just as bad in my eyes.
Really? A mother smothering her newborn or dumping it in a trashcan is not worse than someone getting an early-term abortion?
An abortion of a fetus that can't feel anything is not the lesser evil to you than killing a fully viable child who feels hunger and pain?
When you restrict abortion, you see an increase in infantatide, and that is just a fact. Saying you don't like either one, just avoids the issue.
Are you OK with viable babies, who feel pain, being killed at a greater rate if we restrict abortion rights?
quote:
BTW, there is nothing wrong with me asking you to back up your claims, and I have done some research on subjects I talk about. That does not limit me to being correct all the time.
Of course you can ask me to back up my claims.
The thing is, you are apparently only getting your information from sites you agree with instead of neutral sites.
The last thing I'd like you to address is your claims about PAS.
I posted a link to a neutral site which gives an overview of the research.
Here it is again:
Post Abortion Syndrome (PAS): All viewpoints
Here is an excerpt:
How common is PAS?
In 1995, Dr. Paul Sachdef, professor of social work at Memorial University in Newfoundland, Canada, conducted 70 in-depth interviews of women who had elective abortions during the previous 6 to 12 months. 2 They are typical of women who have sought abortions: aged 18 to 25, single, white females. All had terminated their first pregnancy during the first trimester giving mental health as their reason for seeking an abortion. He concluded: 3 Two-thirds of the woman had used contraceptives rarely or not at all.
Three-fourths of the woman thought they would not become pregnant.
Almost 80% "felt relief and satisfaction" soon after the abortion.
Long term guilt or depression were rare.
Elective abortion is less traumatic than giving a child up for adoption.
Women do not lightly decide to have an elective abortion.
June Scandiffino (Toronto ON Right to Life) disagreed with his findings. She wonders about the 10% of women who declined to be interviewed. She maintains that the "Post-traumatic abortion syndrome" may not emerge until perhaps 7 years after the elective abortion.
Former Surgeon General C. Everett Koop, a famous opponent of abortion, was asked by President Reagan to study the health effects of induced abortions. He responded in a 1989-JAN-8 letter that he could not form a conclusion from the available data. A year later, Dr. Koop told representatives of some pro-life groups that the risk of significant emotional problems after an abortion was "miniscule".
In 1989, a panel of the American Psychological Association unanimously concluded that legal abortion "does not create psychological hazards for most women undergoing the procedure." They found that about 21% of US adult women had had an abortion. If severe emotional reactions were common, then they would have expected to notice an epidemic of women seeking treatment. No evidence of such a flood was observed.
The American Psychological Association conducted an 8 year study involving almost 5,295 women, starting in 1979. The women were interviewed each year until 1987. The researchers found that the best predictor of of the women's well-being during the study was their well-being at the start of the study. Whether they had had an abortion or not during the interval covered by the study did not seem to affect their mental health. Neither did their income level, job status, educational attainment, marital status, etc. In other words, they were unable to detect the existence of PAS.
The American Psychological Association further analyzed the data from the 1979-1987 study and issued a press release on 1997-JAN-31. 14 They concluded:
"Data from [a] long-term study demonstrate that even highly religious women are not at significantly greater risk of psychological distress because they had an abortion."
This time they included an analysis of the woman's religious beliefs and practices - specifically:
whether they were affiliated with a religious group, or were not religious.
if religious, whether they attended church often or rarely.
They found that:
"...having had an abortion (or more than one) had no relation with self-esteem"
the "...type of religion to which women who had an abortion belonged also did not make a difference in their post-abortion well-being..."
Thus, even religious women did not appear to suffer from PAS at a detectable level. They further analyzed the data for the Roman Catholic women in the study. They found that "highly religious Catholic women were slightly more likely to exhibit postabortion psychological distress than other women..." But this is probably explained by the presence of a lower level of well-being at the start of the study by the devout Catholics, rather than any after-effect of the abortion.
A review of an article in the Journal of Social Issues states that PAS "results in partial to total cognitive restructuring and behavioral reorganization. Secondary symptoms of PAS include depression, substance abuse, sleep disorders and suicidal thoughts." The authors of the article concluded that: "at present, it is impossible to estimate with any degree of accuracy the incidence of Post Abortion Syndrome." They urge that more research be done.1
We have personally noticed TV ads in various parts of North America by pro-life groups and crisis pregnancy centers which offer "Post-traumatic Abortion Syndrome Counseling" or "Post Abortion Counseling". It is not clear whether they are offering a genuine, needed service, or are attempting to create a false belief among the public that such a syndrome is common.
Planned Parenthood has an information sheet on PAS. 4 They quote a representative of the American Psychological Association 5 who testified before a committee of the U.S. House of Representatives. He stated that PAS is rare and is less common than emotional upset after a birth.
Do you agree that PAS is largely a myth propagated by anti-choice propagandists?
Also, you made mentioned the increased risks of multiple abortions, and I asked you for a source for your information, and also asked if the risk from having multiple abortions exceeded the risk of carrying a pregnancy to term, giving birth, and postpartum.
This message has been edited by schrafinator, 02-22-2005 10:18 AM

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Message 295 of 316 (187467)
02-22-2005 9:55 AM
Reply to: Message 282 by riVeRraT
02-21-2005 9:09 PM


Re: A person put on life support is not dead and a dead person is not put on life sup
quote:
The sister had no choice in the way she was born, we do not seem to know exactly why she was born the way she was, and it makes it hard to debate about it.
Actually, wew pretty much know exactly why that child was born the way she was.
It's a parasitic twin.
We've seen them for a long time.
from Wikipedia:
parasitic twin
A parasitic twin is the result of a situation related to the process that results in teratomas, vanishing twin, and conjoined twins — two unique embryos begin developing in utero, but something goes wrong. Parasitic twins are also known as asymmetrical conjoined twins or unequal conjoined twins. Parasitic twins are a variation on conjoined twinsexcept one of the twins stopped developing during gestation and is now vestigial to a healthy, otherwise mostly fully-formed individual twin. They are defined as parasitic, rather than conjoined, by being incompletely formed or wholly dependent on the body functions of the complete fetus.
Conjoined-parasitic twins united at the head are described as craniopagus or cephalopagus. Craniopagus occipitalis is the term for fusion in the occipital region; craniopagus parietalis is when the fusion is in the parietal region; craniopagus parasiticus is term for a parasitic head attached to the head of a more fully-developed fetus or infant.
Specific types of parasitic twin
Fetus in fetu
Fetus in fetu describes an extremely rare abnormality that involves a fetus getting trapped inside of its twin. It continues to survive as a parasite even past birth until it grows so large that it starts to harm the host, at which point doctors usually intervene. Invariably the parasitic fetus is anencephalic (without a brain) and lacks internal organs, and as such is unable to survive on its own.
Acardiac twin
An acardiac twin is a parasitic twin that fails to develop a head, arms and a heart. The resulting torso can leech blood flow from the surviving normal twin, causing extreme stress on the normal fetus's heart.
Prenatal surgery must be performed if the normal fetus is to survive.

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Message 296 of 316 (187472)
02-22-2005 10:11 AM
Reply to: Message 292 by riVeRraT
02-22-2005 8:39 AM


Re: Law means nothing I guess.
You do NOT have control over what I do with MY body, or my beliefs.
quote:
It's not your body that concerns me, you already made the choice to do something in which you can get pregnant. It's the life that is inside you that concerns me.
That, ladies and gentlemen, says it all right there.
quote:
Do you consider your unborn child to be life?
Do you consider Asgara to be life?

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Message 297 of 316 (187496)
02-22-2005 12:49 PM
Reply to: Message 291 by riVeRraT
02-22-2005 8:37 AM


Re: My feelings
Tell me that things haven't changed for you since having done that to yourself. ( I am not putting you down, please do not feel that way).
I pray and hope that God forgives us both.
Changed in what way? Are things any different for me than before I got pregnant that time? NO. Are things any different for me now than they would have been if I had gone through with the pregnancy? YES, they are better.
I appreciate the sentiment, but I have done nothing to be forgiven for. I followed my own conscience and did nothing against the law.
Do you consider your unborn child to be life?
Now we're back to the OP, please define life. Is my heart life? Is the transplanted kidney in my cousin life? Is the tumor in the woman with breast cancer life?

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Message 298 of 316 (187500)
02-22-2005 1:11 PM
Reply to: Message 293 by nator
02-22-2005 9:04 AM


Re: off topic, proposal to start new discussion
I agree with this completely, holmes, but it seems terribly similar to the argument I was using against you when we were discussing if it was exploitative for someone to offer substantial financial reward to Islamic, desperate Afghan women if they posed for nude photographs.
Heheheh... even as I wrote the words to RR I knew you would be interested that I was using your exact argument against him.
So I freely admit, it is not just similar, but the same. Yes I do believe they are different cases. Though they share some similarities, the differences are key to my objection (and no it has nothing to do with whether religion is involved). Here is the short version:
1) Philanthropic aid organization delivering necessary supplies or services to a community of people, backed by public donations as well as government grants.
2) Individuals or corporations offering compensation for work.
Can the second category be approached in a way that is exploitative? Yes. But not every case is, and just because an offer may be for sex work versus other types of work (and also that it may earn more money) does not make it more exploitative.
I don't feel like starting a new thread just for this topic, but if you are interested in my elaborating on the above then feel free to start one.
In any case, good catch!

holmes
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Message 299 of 316 (187522)
02-22-2005 2:31 PM
Reply to: Message 290 by riVeRraT
02-22-2005 8:28 AM


Re: Law means nothing I guess.
Look up the word exploitation, and explain to me how it is.
From Merriam Webster's
Exploit
1 : to make productive use of : UTILIZE {exploiting your talents} {exploit your opponent's weakness}
2 : to make use of meanly or unjustly for one's own advantage {exploiting migrant farm workers}
In this case it is a bit of both. Xians wish to spread their faith. Certain communities are in need of vital supplies. Some people and their governments want to help get those communities what they want.
Certain Xian organizations (such as apparently one you are VP of) exploit the situation (one community wishing to help another physically) by offering to be the mediary with an additional goal of spreading faith. This exploits the community in need's weakness as they are under duress (their weakness) and more likely to accept whatever extra messages you tag on to the aid. In addition it is specifically exploiting the community by using their misfortune to gain money, fame, and converts to your faith.
It becomes worse when you take donations or gov't grants from atheists and nonXians, and then spread the word along with the aid as if the aid was an example of your God's work. This is unjust for the givers and receivers.
Philanthropy is simple. People need help and you give them specifically what they need. Anything else tacked on is exploitation, using subterfuge.
I can state what organizations I belong to, and what I do, that is not making a show of it. Are you trying to discourage what I am doing?
I didn't say your linking to those sites was and act of pride, I'm saying what those articles were saying were clear examples of "making a show" of faith. I saw nothing humble regarding just helping people.
Am I trying to discourage you? No. I have a great respect for organizations which help people, and even Xian organizations for the help that they do bring. The group you are a VP for seemed sincere, and I assume you are. That's great. I am not trying to discourage you from that.
What I am encouraging you to do (and maybe you can do it if you are VP) is to realize the exploitative nature of offering religion along with the aid. The money you get will hardly be just from Xians, and the people you go to help may already have their own faith. Giving aid and suggesting it shows God's work is tantamount to emotional bribery or extortion. They are vulnerable.
In addition, introducing your religion may introduce civil strife into the community (making the situation worse in the long run) as well as injuring nonreligious aid organizations by association. Some communities reject aid altogether in fear that they will end up being preached to and/or have their kids converted.
As an example, I don't think you'd accept or appreciate aid in your own community when you are desperate, with a message that Krishna is the way to go. Especially if they introduced this to your children in order to get to you and the future of your community.
I am encouraging you to drop that angle from your philanthropic endeavours. If you share the joy with your coworkers (those that are Xian), and the money givers, that is one thing. To do so with the community you are helping is something else entirely. Their misfortune was NOT an invitation for someone to tell them Jesus was great.
When the supplies stop, the faith would stop, this is not the case with Christianity. They can continue on thier own, and we get nothing from it.
This is not true at all. Once again I refer you to the cargo cults. And if they do continue then you do get something from it. You get more missionaries as well as money into other Xian organizations (like for Bibles). It said that very thing in one of your refs.
Because the spirit of truth dwells within you.
This makes no sense. If the truth dwells in me, then you are wrong. If the truth dwells in you, then I am wrong. If the truth dwells in them, then both of us can be wrong. This does nothing to answer the arbitrary nature of accepting one thing as correct (including ones own position) and blankly denying something else as incorrect.
I am not asking everyone to recieve communion every Sunday or something. People must be responsible for their own actions.
You are asking for the law, and so everyone under that law, to treat a mass of cells as equivalent to a full grown person, because of criteria you "feel" is right. That criteria is not fact based, but wholly dependent on a belief of a wholly religious nature. Thus you are demanding that other believe and treat an object as "sacred" according to your personal belief.
Let me give you an example why this is the case.
Originally people thought the woman did nothing except incubate a little tiny humunculus which came from the male. Within the male (his seed) were literally little tiny people. Thus masturbation itself was the equivalent of "not giving life a chance". You were aborting potential life for your own pleasure.
Then science discovered that this was not the case and that ejaculate was not just a slip and slide for little people, and not even equivalent to seed. It took the union between sperm from the male and a wholly separate entity within the woman (the egg) to create (eventually) a baby.
With this discovery the pressure was off men, but now gets shifted to the couple, as the zygote and fetus are described with the exact same properties people used to conceive ejaculate as. It is little people simply being incubated and so life which is sacred and needing protection.
But science has made progress and we know that is not true either. Your belief that a zygote is sacred life like a baby just needing a chance is the same as that of your ancestors who said the same thing about cum. It is a belief beyond evidence.
There is no reason given the knowledge we have today for a person to hold your belief. They can legitimately hold an opposing view of that growing mass of cells. Sans religion, there is no reason to consider it "sacred" or needing protection from the mother.
I do not find abortion a natural option. Just like murdering someone you do not like, is not a natural option.
To the degree that you find removing a tumor, or for that matter any medical procedure a natural option, then abortion is a natural option. Whether it is a moral one depends on one's morality.
Now your telling me I am not a patriot?What happen to arguing the position, not the person?
Uhhhh... I was referring to the people who were planning on (and are trying to) change history books and alter public perception of the founding fathers for their own religious purposes. Unless that includes you, I was not referring to you.
I was under the assumption you were merely believing their hype and not manufacturing it.
This is true because once you create it, you are responsible for it, even if you have an abortion, you have then suffered for your mistake.
If you add "or the accident", then we are in agreement. Abortion is a consequence as much as chosing to carry the child to term. They are both alternatives of what to do with the mass of cells which potentially may become a child.
That is exactly what is happening in most circumstances.
That is not true and you know it. Most problems faced by all cultures are economic or the result of social strife. Neither require the imposition of Xianity or any other faith in order to "solve the problem". It is about learning to manage resources or internal conflicts better.
Doing things for the good, and only for the good, without God is empty and will not stand the test of time.
So you are saying all nonreligious philanthropic organizations are worthless? What about those of other faiths?
We do not get money, we give money. Not only do we give it, but we have to pay our own way into these countries. We cannot use the money we get to give.
It wasn't an insult, it was a metaphore.
Are you telling me that no one in your organization is making money off of this? No one is earning a salary? If a church is built or a person instructs the community regarding Xianity, how is this not a diversion of funds or manpower away from necessities?
By the way, just because you don't understand the metaphor is insulting does not mean it is not.
Oh so you prefer that they continue head hunting?
I personally don't like violence as it generally does not lead to anything but more violence so I'd have been trying to see if they would be willing to change their practices based on beliefs within their culture, or for neccessities directly relating to their people. I would not introduce a foreign God.
But if you want to know if I think headhunting is wrong, the answer is no. To their culture it had some relevance and it was a moral action. Just as waging wars in the name of God and "democracy" appear to be Xian moral actions.
Where did those copies go?
No no no, where did the money go? If the Bible materialized out of thin air, it would have been a testament to God. That money which could have gone to anything else, was paid to someone to make and transport 16 million Bibles shows that someone stood to gain somewhere.
It didn't have to be you directly, to be you indirectly.
???
This is very simple. If you were interested in helping them because you respect them then you would be interested in them getting back on their feet and resuming their life and culture, before calamity struck them. That you are not interested in them resuming their culture, except its bare superficialities, and instead adopting your religion, means you are exploiting them for YOUR benefit. They gain may be emotional more than material, but the gain is there for you.
Something obviously went wrong wouldn't you think?... I do not feel the morals or principals can be compared to a "normal" pregnancy.
How can I say it went wrong, if it is alive? Didn't someone pipe in with a Ray Charles analogy. Maybe that girl and her second head would have gone to become geniuses. Now we will not know.
But I want you to consider what you just said. You do not feel the moral or principles can be compared to a "normal" pregnancy. The point has been made repeatedly that there is no such thing as a "normal" pregnancy, and worse than that there is no way of knowing within the first several months if a pregnancy will be a successful "common" pregnancy. Why do morals apply then, within the zone of time where a pregnancy can just as well be normal as not normal? Why should they apply to such an extent that the life of the mother is put at risk when she does not want to continue the pregnancy?
I really enjoyed our debate.
For what its worth I am sorry for having gotten things sidetracked on the issue of charities. It really should be in a different thread and injected a bit of anger on my part which was unnecessary for this topic.
This message has been edited by holmes, 02-22-2005 14:35 AM

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Message 300 of 316 (187605)
02-22-2005 8:57 PM


Another Point to Consider
riVeRraT contends that the chance of getting pregnant means that one should not engage in sex unless one wants to get pregnant (not in those words, but that is what the argument comes down to).
the chance of getting pregnant with a fetus that would be carried to term from one sexual encounter is quite small even with no protection.
as noted previously, over 2/3rds of zygotes do not naturally make it to week 12, and this figure does not include all the times where the sperm failed to implant in the egg to form the zygote (especially as most of the time the egg is not available - it's called a cycle for a reason).
so lets cut that 1/3rd that make it to week 12 by 4: at a most optimum possible scenario the chance is one in twelve, and practically it is much less (there are a number of factors that are ignored here for simplicity sake).
now add birth control to the scene, and the possibility of a bad birth control at 1 in a 1000, really means one in 12000 chance of getting pregnant.
this puts it on the level of probability of being in a bad car accident.
by riVeRrat's logic we should all stop driving, especially with kids: it is just too dangerous.
this shows the logic of abstinence to be ill-founded as long as proper precautions are taken. this shows the logic of sex education and the promotion of using birth control to be well founded.
enjoy.
This message has been edited by RAZD, 02-22-2005 20:59 AM

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