That's a good question Phatboy, and a tough one to ask aswell.
It's also hard to explain
Well, - thoughtful. Now that will get the anti-gods in a huff because they probably think he's sadistic etc. But in all honesty, I have always recieved answers to my personal prayers. Certainly when I need something rather than want, then he usually gives me my request. But ofcourse, I admitt some imagination, but events I cannot imagine, so they give me the perception. God is definately a God of covenants/agreements - this is definately my strongest perception, I can't emphasize that enough!