JustinC writes:
Must you drag all my threads into the gutter with poorly reasoned arguments?
Sorry, more my fault, really. I opened the door for him to continue. Let's see if I can actually add something constructive, though:
This is one of my problems with relativism: how do we justify imposing our relative values on other societies, i.e., saying "our framework's right, yours is wrong."
I agree completely with Chiroptera:
Chiroptera writes:
You try to find some sort of common ground, some common understanding of desirable outcomes, and try to reason how your opinions will better achieve those desirable outcomes than the other person's.
But, it seems like you would appreciate some specifics. Yet, since I also think it's relative, I can't give you
the specifics, but only
my specifics which could be different from someone elses.
Like the frameworks always leading back to something larger, my moral feelings stem from a few basic principles. Such as:
People are equal. They deserve equal rights, equal treatment, equal protection, equal respect...
Of course this leads to the question "Why should this principle be upheld over any other?" And, well, I suppose that's the unexplainable relative part of morality. However, such a statement is difficult for anyone to disagree with. As soon as there is any disagreement, the question becomes "Why should this person be treated differently, and what gives anyone the right to determine such treatment?" I've yet to hear a satisfactory answer to the question. Most just come down to a selfish or self-righteous reason. Which can be easily pointed out and further discussed to find more common ground. Of course, if the person
wants to be selfish or self-righteous, I don't have any pursuasive power to tell them they're "wrong". Unless they want to live in our society where such things are frowned upon since they work against our current social order.
As a side note, I didn't begin thinking of relative morality because I didn't want to think about absolute morality. It's just, I never could understand an absolute morality. What is an absolute morality? Who came up with it? Why is it better than anything else? Then, given an "absolute morality" I've always been able to think up a certain situation which seems contrary to what should be good or right. Such questions and thinking have never brought absolute morality into any sort of understanding for me. Which is why I think morality is relative, not because I want it to be, just because I don't see how it can be anything else.