Well you said it several time
but
The Bible does not say anywhere that God ordered the rape of anyone
Doesn't explicitly answer:
Num 31:17 Now therefore kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman that hath known man by lying with him.
Num 31:18 But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.
It sure looks like that is exactly what was ordered.