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Author Topic:   Condemn gay marriage, or just gay rape?
ringo
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Message 556 of 573 (586400)
10-13-2010 2:44 AM
Reply to: Message 553 by Dawn Bertot
10-13-2010 2:27 AM


Dawn Bertot writes:
Where does it say they were more than friends, where they knew eachother, where they were married
The Bible isn't Penthouse Forum. It doesn't go into details about people's sex lives except for procreation and adultery. It would be no surprise if committed gay couples weren't explicitly mentioned. David and Jonathan and Naomi and Ruth seem to be quite plausible examples of committed same-sex relationships.
You're trying to prove a negative, which is (typically) poor logic. What you need to do is find positive evidence that committed same-sex relationships were forbidden. As I've mentioned before, the commandments have nothing to say about it.

"It appears that many of you turn to Hebrew to escape the English...." -- Joseppi

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Dawn Bertot
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Message 557 of 573 (586401)
10-13-2010 2:48 AM
Reply to: Message 551 by Nuggin
10-13-2010 12:18 AM


Re: Says who?
If you get the license and don't have a wedding in a church - you ARE married.
If you have a wedding in a church but don't have a license - you are NOT married.
Yes in a church and only by a famous well known and established evangelist like Billy Graham, inside an authorized chapel
Dawn Bertot
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Dawn Bertot
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Message 558 of 573 (586403)
10-13-2010 2:54 AM
Reply to: Message 556 by ringo
10-13-2010 2:44 AM


The Bible isn't Penthouse Forum. It doesn't go into details about people's sex lives except for procreation and adultery. It would be no surprise if committed gay couples weren't explicitly mentioned. David and Jonathan and Naomi and Ruth seem to be quite plausible examples of committed same-sex relationships.
As I have already pointed out, the Bible is notorious for pointing out even sexual sins, fornication, adultry, etc. There would be an example, yet there is not. Your attempts to make them into such is silly
You're trying to prove a negative, which is (typically) poor logic. What you need to do is find positive evidence that committed same-sex relationships were forbidden. As I've mentioned before, the commandments have nothing to say about it.
Ive already given you an analogy that sets this type of argument of yours aside and shows that assumption will not work
I dont need to prove what does not exist
Dawn Bertot

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ringo
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Message 559 of 573 (586404)
10-13-2010 3:09 AM
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10-13-2010 2:54 AM


Dawn Bertot writes:
There would be an example, yet there is not. Your attempts to make them into such is silly
Your attempt to prove a negative is what's silly.
Dawn Bertot writes:
Ive already given you an analogy that sets this type of argument of yours aside and shows that assumption will not work
What you need to show is positive evidence in the Bible that same-sex committed relationships are forbidden. An analogy is not evidence. An imagined "pattern" is not evidence.
The only commandment that God made about marriage was fidelity. You need to deal with that honestly.

"It appears that many of you turn to Hebrew to escape the English...." -- Joseppi

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Panda
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Message 560 of 573 (586411)
10-13-2010 5:37 AM
Reply to: Message 558 by Dawn Bertot
10-13-2010 2:54 AM


Dawn Bertot writes:
As I have already pointed out, the Bible is notorious for pointing out even sexual sins, fornication, adultry, etc. There would be an example, yet there is not.
Is this not the point that Ringo (et al) are making?
The Bible is prescriptive, and yet is doesn't say "same-sex marriage (SSM) is wrong".
"There would be an example, yet there is not." - If SSM is a sin then why is there not an example with an appropriate warning?
If all you have are some vague inferences, then clearly God didn't care enough to make a clear statement.

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jar
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Message 561 of 573 (586444)
10-13-2010 10:25 AM
Reply to: Message 536 by jaywill
10-12-2010 7:50 AM


Re: The God in Job is evil.
As I was saying before I was so rudely interrupted...
Let's deal with this first.
jaywill writes:
That's dumb jar. They spend 40 some chapters arguing about God and you think God has no important part in the book ?
Count the number of times "the Almighy" is mentioned in Job - more than in any other book of the Bible I bet.
And you evaded the question by not putting yourself on the scale at a point.
Scared to give yourself a grade next to God ? Go on record.
If the God in Job was rated as a 1 I would say I would rate about a 15 or higher.
But that is not saying much. The God in Job is just a character, a plot device in the story and the story is not about God but rather that bad things happen to good people and that it is often not their fault.
You even note that in your post yet don't seem to make the connection that it is just a fable.
jaywill writes:
"These, the least of my brothers" comes from Matthew 25.
The phrase refers to Jews and Christians who are persecuted on the earth under Antichrist. This judgment of Matthew 25 of the nations is His dealing with the living nations who remain at the time of His descent to the earth.
It is not explicitly refering to homosexuals. That's your rabbit trick.
Of course that is NOT what the passage says. In the passage Jesus calls all the world before him, no nonsense about "the least of these my brothers" being a phrase that refers to Jews and Christians who are persecuted on the earth under Antichrist. Not even a mention of some Antichrist or some persecution.
I realize that YOUR chapter of Club Christian might teach it that way using the nonsense of proof texts where you pull some piece out of context from some entirely different story and pretend that it supports YOUR interpretation, but it is simply NOT what the story in Matthew 25 says.
An you are right, it is not "explicitly refering[sic] to homosexuals" but to all that are hungry and need food, naked and need clothes, homeless and need shelter, powerless and need protection, sorrowful and need comfort.
It is what Christianity is all about.
Note that in the story, the GOATs are Christians, followers of Jesus.
jaywill writes:
My only comment about civil laws is that there should not be hate crimes against homosexuals. If you begin to experiement with same sex marriages which are more than civil unions, that is such unchartered territory I don't know what to think.
But emphatically, I taught my children not to hate people in the grip of arrested psychological development or who express deviance in sexuality.
I do not hate homosexuals. I am going to share with them the love and salvation of Christ just as I would with any other sinner. For we are all sinners. And we can be saved by the Lord and Savior.
Yet that very statement shows what you really teach your children and quite frankly, it is a revolting position.
And yes, I believe that you are right, you do not know what to think.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 562 of 573 (586447)
10-13-2010 10:41 AM
Reply to: Message 543 by Dawn Bertot
10-12-2010 6:19 PM


Yet another attractive Rabbit Hole alert.
Dawn Bertot writes:
You simply do not understand that when dealing with God and his word, bare assumption is not the method, for determining what is right and wrong.
Now pay close attention,
here is a simple illustration. No where in the scriptures are we told or commnaded, to NOT baptize babies. But the reason we know it is wrong and against Gods pattern is because the purpose for baptism, is belief in Christ. Baptism is an acceptance of Christ as the Messiah, infants believe nothing
So, like gay marraige Ringo, while there is not a specific command NOT TO DO IT. IT VIOLATES Gods given pattern and like infant baptism is not recognized or acceptable to God
It may be true that YOUR chapter of Club Christian does not recognize infant baptism as valid and if so, I suggest that YOUR chapter of Club Christian not perform infant baptisms.
BUT do not presume to speak for either GOD or Christianity.
If you wish to discuss infant baptism please start a thread on it and I will be glad to try to educate you about other chapters of Club Christian and how they view the issue.
And the question remains:
jar writes:
Just as patterns and standards change throughout the Bible, today we need to address the needs of another group, the least of these my brothers.
How do we provide equal protection under the law for same sex marriages?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 563 of 573 (586542)
10-13-2010 7:20 PM
Reply to: Message 534 by jaywill
10-11-2010 8:04 PM


Re: We are commanded to question even God.
You're right that something is revealed. Can you show us where God ever explained to Job what was going on ?
Not to Job, but to Satan. True or not true: The main storyline in Job was that God was proving a point to Satan at Job's expense? True or not true?
I think that much is indisputable.
However, it seemed that what Job really loved was his integrity. He knew he had done nothing wrong.
And on account of his integrity, he was tormented severely. Oh, sure, he got back twice what he lost, but since when are family members replaceable?
You may say he loved God. But really, his utter frustration with God was do to his love of his own perceived integrity.
Even if true, is that a reason to execute his family? Job is just a weak, fallible human, who was made the way his Creator made him.
The reason why people are upset at the CONCEPT of the Judeo-Christian is that God has no excuse if he is omnipotent and the creator of everything. Given the amount of needless suffering, that would make God complicit in all of it. That doesn't sit well with people, nor should it.
God allowed Satan to destroy his family. That God had no compunction about it is your assumption, along with your comment of a "pissing contest".
Please offer any other scenario aside from the bloody obvious -- that God was simply trying to prove a philosophical point to Satan at Job's expense.
So on a scale of one to ten, with ten being the most righteous and one being the least - where would you put yourself as compared to God ?
Considering God has executed more people than Hitler and the bubonic plague combined, I'd say that makes me a boyscout in comparison.
Better yet, on a scale of one to ten, where would you put Jesus Christ and where would you put yourself ?
From what we know of Jesus, he was a stand-up guy. Provided the stories attributed to Jesus are real, he puts me to shame. But I can say the same of Buddha too, so, meh, *shrugs*
If you are on a higher level, how come your impact on history has been far less then those three and one half years that Jesus lived?
If I'm on a higher level than Stalin, how come his impact on history is far more prevalent?
I think the Slanderer has gotten to you.
Typical. Questioning truth = satanic influence. I think maybe Satan has gotten to you too being that you question the validity of Allah.
When the believers are built up together in love and in Christ, they can crush Satan under their collective feet. We need one another in Christ. We cannot deal with this enemy alone.
Or, you know, theoretically God could just vanish Satan. But he doesn't, does he?
Rather then waste my life guzzling down Satan's accusations to get man to blame God, we would rather be joined to Christ in Satan's defeat and execution.
Why can't they be own objections? Why are you equivocating? Why can't my objections be my own, as opposed to some inherent Satanic attack? That implies that my will is not my own, in which case, what would I be punished for?
I mean to disbelieve God's word in favor of these lies you have taken in to make out God as the evil tyrant are a bad form of intelligence.
How is critically analyzing truth claims indicative of
1. Lies
2. Poor intelligence
3. Necessarily a bad thing
I think your rationals and advertized "thinking outside the box" leave you unrestful, bothered, bitter, sarcastic, joyless and without peace within.
I never felt more restless and without peace than when I was a professing Christian. I have never felt more at peace with who I am than when I finally let go of superstition.
The wisdom of the Holy Spirit leaves one with great peace of heart and love for the Father.
Empty platitudes. That should be a Hallmark card at some dollar store.
The more you think this way, trying hard to make God out to be your enemy, the more irritated and annoyed you will remain.
God is not my enemy, because I very seriously doubt there is one. I don't make enemies with the Tooth Fairy because the tooth fairy isn't there. There's no one to make enemies with. Perhaps it's easier for you to believe that I'm shaking my fists at the sky and seething with vengeful rage, but I'm not. We're just two guys having a theological discussion.
You know He said that the truth will make you free.
Which is why I question what truth is, which you likened to Satanic influence.
I think the only difference between us is that you might feel that judgment of Christ was what He deserved. I on the other hand believe that He was innocent and received into Himself what you and I deserve.
I don't believe it was deserved, I just don't think it happened.
You would not be weak if you let the grace of Christ empower you. You have been given a blank check in which you may fill in whatever amount of riches you need. If you spit on it and rip it up and throw it away, that is your decision.
I attempted to cash that check already. Insufficient funds.
You said yourself that only placing you life in the hand of Jesus is the only way to escape the wiles of the devil. So that means that heathens are not responsible for their own actions because Satan has a grip on them.
So I take it you don't believe in freewill, in which case why then do heathens burn during the Judgment?
In earlier days I tried to argue all these hypotherical cases. I now say with Abraham that the Judge of all the earth will do Right.
But that's an assumption based on things you want to believe versus what you actually know.
You probably will not heed this advice. But I think, I know, that it is better to RECEIVE Jesus to me born of God, and get your theological paradoxes dealt with afterwards.
Nope, that doesn't work for rather obvious reasons. Why shouldn't I just do the same for Islam, waste my entire life on falsehoods, die, and still have no answers?

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Dawn Bertot
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Message 564 of 573 (586548)
10-13-2010 8:08 PM
Reply to: Message 559 by ringo
10-13-2010 3:09 AM


Your attempt to prove a negative is what's silly.
I only need to demonstrate that that which is not stated, where a pattern is ALREADY given, IS ALL one needs for and example or pattern to follow.
I believe you have assumtion and that is it. Unless you are at this time ready to provide an example of your method of obeying Gods will, aside from assumption
What you need to show is positive evidence in the Bible that same-sex committed relationships are forbidden. An analogy is not evidence. An imagined "pattern" is not evidence.
If you cannot respond to my analogies, just say so.
Heres another one for you to mull over.
In the desert Moses was instructed to speak to the rock
Now Moses was NOT TOLD he COULD NOT Strike the rock
So according to your method of OBEDIENCE, Moses had every right to SRIKE, the rock, since there was no COMMAND, to "Not to strike the rock"
Only a directive to speak to the rock.
In fact according to you he could have spoke and sung to the rock spoke and danced a jig in front of it and been justified.
That is if he had followed the Ringo, method of interpretation
Are begininng to see how ignorant your approach is
THERE IS NO NEED FOR ASSUMPTION, WHERE GOD HAS ALRADY SPOKEN
Dawn Bertot
Edited by Dawn Bertot, : No reason given.

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Dawn Bertot
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Message 565 of 573 (586551)
10-13-2010 8:18 PM
Reply to: Message 562 by jar
10-13-2010 10:41 AM


Re: Yet another attractive Rabbit Hole alert.
If you wish to discuss infant baptism please start a thread on it and I will be glad to try to educate you about other chapters of Club Christian and how they view the issue.
Hey rocket scientist, this is an analogy and an illustration
It would have been better if you had delt with it in context, since Ringo did not
I will be glad to try to educate you about other chapters of Club Christian and how they view the issue.
No thanks, Id rather be instructed by someone that has an education higher than the seventh grade
But, thanks though
Dawn bertot

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jar
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Message 566 of 573 (586555)
10-13-2010 8:25 PM
Reply to: Message 565 by Dawn Bertot
10-13-2010 8:18 PM


Re: Yet another attractive Rabbit Hole alert.
Yet you brought the subject up and ignore the topic?
It may be true that YOUR chapter of Club Christian does not recognize infant baptism as valid and if so, I suggest that YOUR chapter of Club Christian not perform infant baptisms.
BUT do not presume to speak for either GOD or Christianity.
And still the question remains:
jar writes:
Just as patterns and standards change throughout the Bible, today we need to address the needs of another group, the least of these my brothers.
How do we provide equal protection under the law for same sex marriages?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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ringo
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Message 567 of 573 (586557)
10-13-2010 8:30 PM
Reply to: Message 564 by Dawn Bertot
10-13-2010 8:08 PM


Dawn Bertot writes:
I believe you have assumtion and that is it. Unless you are at this time ready to provide an example of your method of obeying Gods will, aside from assumption
My method of obeying God's will is to obey the commandments, which boil down to, "Love God and love they neighbour as thyself." Loving thy neighbour as thyself includes allowing him the same kind of committed marriage that you want for yourself. There is no commandment against that.
Dawn Bertot writes:
If you cannot respond to my analogies, just say so.
I did respond to your analogy. Your understanding of baptism is wrong.

"It appears that many of you turn to Hebrew to escape the English...." -- Joseppi

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Dawn Bertot
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Message 568 of 573 (586560)
10-13-2010 8:38 PM
Reply to: Message 563 by Hyroglyphx
10-13-2010 7:20 PM


Re: We are commanded to question even God.
Please offer any other scenario aside from the bloody obvious -- that God was simply trying to prove a philosophical point to Satan at Job's expense.
H, its all about what position one is in to make such decisions.
You mad at God, because you are human
When you removed the old brush and cleared the boards away in your back yard, then killied and displaced literally thousands of ants and bugs.
What made that ok, from a moral perspective
Please give me the moral justification in a couple of sentences
Dawn Bertot

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Message 569 of 573 (586561)
10-13-2010 8:41 PM
Reply to: Message 567 by ringo
10-13-2010 8:30 PM


My method of obeying God's will is to obey the commandments, which boil down to, "Love God and love they neighbour as thyself." Loving thy neighbour as thyself includes allowing him the same kind of committed marriage that you want for yourself. There is no commandment against that.
Was Moses justified in striking the rock, if there was NOT a command, to not strike the rock
According to your method he was. I defy you to show otherwise, atleast according to your approach
Assumption is silly when it comes to obeying God
Dawn Bertot

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ringo
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Message 570 of 573 (586571)
10-13-2010 10:08 PM
Reply to: Message 569 by Dawn Bertot
10-13-2010 8:41 PM


Dawn Bertot writes:
Was Moses justified in striking the rock, if there was NOT a command, to not strike the rock
Moses was reprimanded for not believing God:
quote:
Num 20:12 And the LORD spake unto Moses and Aaron, Because ye believed me not, to sanctify me in the eyes of the children of Israel, therefore ye shall not bring this congregation into the land which I have given them.
It had nothing to do with a command or lack of a command. It was Moses' attitude that was inappropriate.
You're still thinking backwards. In a group of commandments, if there is no commandment against something, we can conclude (not assume) that there is no commandment against that thing. The same doesn't necessarily apply anywhere else.

"It appears that many of you turn to Hebrew to escape the English...." -- Joseppi

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