I have read through the posts and see one confusion. The Christian has no laws.
The Old Testament laws act like laws in the United States. If you break one law, you must pay the penalty. If you were driving drunk, it is no defense to say you never killed or stole. If you broke one OT law, you needed a sacrifice to atone for your sin. Until then, your relationship with God was broken.
The Christian is saved. He is part of the family. He does not need to worry about breaking a law and going to Hell. He is at peace.
The Law of Love is like a human family. If dad says, "son, do your chores and clean the room." (Sub mom and daughter as you see fit) The child cleans to some minimal amt. it isn't enough. Over time, the child learns the minimal to satisfy the parent.
Now Imagine that dad says, "Son, tomorrow is mom's B'day. Let's get the living room ready for a party." Son, who loves his mom very much, cleans and decorates far beyond what dad expected. There is no fear of punishment motivating the child.
This is Agape love. The true Christian ends up more righteous than the most righteous person under the law. (See what Jesus said about John the Baptist.) This is why all the law is summed up in the Laws of loving God and loving the neighbor. (Laws in the sense of rules but not laws in the sense that they result in punishment.) The one who truly loves goes far beyond the law.