You're either straight, gay, or lying?

It doesn't have to be... Right, we'll call that "Straight". and there's not-straight... We'll call that "Gay."So there ya go... Straight and Gay.* /me removes toungue from cheek

No, its white (striaght) and not-white (gay). There's just a whole grey scale of gayness going on Bi-sexual makes you not-straight. So then you're gay (logically).Paying a stripper to act gay doesn't make her gay if she's just doing it for the money.

From Message 55I suppose we could quibble over the percentage, but nah, you're right... women are pretty gay Although, the article in the OP is talking about men, and that's what my "standard" was for. I dunno though, two impressionable young women standing inside a circle of drunk guys chanting "kiss her" that end up doing it to shut them up shouldn't qualify as being not-straight.Just like the stripper who does it for the money.Or this one girl I remember from high school. She was cute and had a boyfriend or two. Then she got kicked out of her parents house and moved in with this older girl who was a bull-dike. After living with her for a while, she "found out" that she was gay and cut her hair real short and started dressing like a dude. Then I didn't see her anymore. I saw her again recently and she's married and has two kids I don't think she was nearly as gay as much as she needed a place to live. She just let someone else influence her into doing something she wouldn't have normally pursued. She could maintain her striaghtness unless she really liked it, then she's gay.It doesn't really work for men though. I couldn't fake being gay to save my life, with the whole vomiting and having a flacid penis going on. That's why men are either straight, or not.from Message 56Now you're getting it!

Gross... Not according to my standard in this thread. If at any time you're not straight, then you're gay. But being gay doesn't have to mean that you can't get it on with the oppoisite sex. Oh, that's your problem. Females are a peculiar bunch. Nobody has them figured out yet.To try to maintain something of a topic here... from the OP:

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But a new study casts doubt on whether true bisexuality exists, at least in men.
The study, by a team of psychologists in Chicago and Toronto, lends support to those who have long been skeptical that bisexuality is a distinct and stable sexual orientation.

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People who claim bisexuality, according to these critics, are usually homosexual, but are ambivalent about their homosexuality or simply closeted. "You're either gay, straight or lying," as some gay men have put it.

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In the new study, a team of psychologists directly measured genital arousal patterns in response to images of men and women. The psychologists found that men who identified themselves as bisexual were in fact exclusively aroused by either one sex or the other, usually by other men.

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We're talking about dudes (if you want to bail now, that's cool). Sure you can, as I have for this thread:If you're not straight, then you're gay.Plain and simple. You're interesting enough (because you're funny), but from your myspace videos I can assure you that you are not attractive

Life's not fair, Oni.But yeah, that's what I'm sayin' (especially if he got a boner while doin it or didn't throw up)

Because things have been defined in terms of strait-ness.If we defined it as gay or not-gay, then being gay would mean that you could never have done it with the opposite sex. Gay. No, because straight is being defined as never doing anything with the same sex. Nope. Oh, here we go... another one of those "I have this friend" stories.... Just being in a threesome with another dude is pretty gay. Yes, by my standard in this thread he is not-straight, and that makes him gay. I honestly don't know, but I'm gonna go with no on that one because there's no other people of the same sex involved. Its you're own spunk so... It'd be like drinking your pee, and that doesn't make you gay. Its a pretty simple standard though... There's the group of people who don't do any freaky* shit, the dull and boring "straight" group. And then there's the others... and they're all gay *where 'freaky' involves the same sex Hey, congradulations!

It gets me every time. If that's your only problem then I cleared it up in Message 65 and you can reply there.

There's gotta be a better way to phrase that...

Hey! They're my premises in my argument so I get to define the words.But yeah, its old vs new. /shrugs You couldn't keep your eyes off him, could you Versace? I'll take a look when I can. Thanks for the link. Meh. Probably eventually. People are still making a big deal about it these days though.I mean, take a look at the latest cover of Rolling Stone magazine...Is some flaming douche comming out of the closet really cover material!?And why the absolute dichotomy if its all a big grey scale?

You wish, Mr. Fancyshirt.Just face it, Rrhain: I'm not going to have sex with you. You might as well just stop trying.

I think you're overlooking hookers who are legally prostitutes in places like The Netherlands or even Nevada. They don't seem to have a lot of head fuck-ups from their job. You seem to be focusing on the street-walking hookers, who are fucked-up in the head for most likely a myriad of reasons.

It was just a bad example.It'd be like looking at a homeless panhandler and saying that sitting on the sidewalk makes you lose your teeth.Post hoc ergo propter hocEdited by Catholic Scientist, : No reason given.

ABEActually, its the chemical in the plant that is the controlled substance and not the plant itself, right?/ABEIt reminds me of that scene from the movie Blow, where Johnny Depp's character is in court talking to the judge and he's all:Come on... 'I crossed an imaginary line with a bunch of plants' pfft big deal.Then the judge goes:'Unfortunately for you, that line was real, and those plants were illegal. I sentence you to...'That's from memory so the quotes might be off a bit.

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Anyways, were supposed to be talking about sexuality, not illegal drugs.Is there a gradient of grey sexualities or is it black and white. My previous posts in this thread were fairly tounge-in-cheek.I do suppose there's a gradient although the research in the OP does seem to suggest otherwise for men.I honestly just don't know.Edited by Catholic Scientist, : No reason given.

I'm an American. There is nothing outside of our country that is worth discussing.