How about being honest for a change? How about that?
It still surprises me that the Buddha chose to explicitly teach that life is unsatisfactory (dukha) as if anyone needed that pointed out to them. Yet he made that his first noble truth so it must have seemed to him that people needed that pointed out to them:
"Now this, monks, is the noble truth of suffering: Birth is suffering, aging is suffering, illness is suffering, death is suffering; union with what is displeasing is suffering; separation from what is pleasing is suffering; not to get what one wants is suffering; in brief, the five aggregates subject to clinging are suffering.
Four Noble Truths - Wikipedia
William James in his Varieties of Religious Experience points out that people differ widely in temperment. Take Teddy Roosevelt as one example and Winston Churchill as another. Roosevelt was at times almost manic whereas Churchill struggled with depression. Neurotransmitters have profound impact on moods and in part at least are influeced by external factors like genetics, and developement.
You lived and taught as long as you have without noticing that people differ in many ways? Why are you expecting everyone to feel and think like you do? I mean I want people to accept my viewpoint and I'm amazed that fundies can delude themselves as easily as they do, but at least I expect people to do all kinds of crazy things.
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