With all respect to Turcotte and Schbert, IMHO, 'push' and 'pull' are misnomers. There is no true 'push' from the ridges as most people think of a push. I know of no compressive type deformation at MORs that should develop from a true 'push'. Such a force that would move entire lithospheric plates, or even a portion of them should have some manifestation in the geologic structure or earthquake solutions.
As to 'pull', I know of no conditions under which a lateral, tensional force can exerted on the oceanic lithosphere and be transmitted throughout the length of the plate from trench to ridge. This is what the lay person would think of as 'pull', as in pulling on a chain. As near as I can tell, that is not what T&S describe, however.
I agree with T&S's description of the dynamic scenarios, but the terminology seems a bit misleading. And it is true that gravitational head from an elevated ridge seems small compared to the huge mass of the plate, but one must remember that we are not talking about actual elevation of the seafloor, but elevation of the gliding surface, which one would expect to be just slightly steeper because of the cooling effect. In a way, from their own description, it becomes hard to tell the 'push' from the 'pull'...