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Author Topic:   What Happens When You Remove Faith
nator
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Message 16 of 180 (402942)
05-30-2007 8:13 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by New Cat's Eye
05-30-2007 2:18 PM


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Selfish acts that benefit myself that I would no longer find 'morally wrong' because nothing actual means anything and there really isn't much of a right and wrong to speak of. I think that I just wouldn't give a fuck.
As long as you weren't hurting others, why would this be bad?
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If we're all godless animals without any real meaning to our existence, then fuck all y'all, gimme mine. None of this shit matters anymore. But then, maybe I'm just a bad person. You should be glad that I believe in god. It makes me a better person.
I don't see that as making you a better (moral) person.
In the way you've described yourself, it appears to me that you are an immoral person who is behaving well only because he fears being punished.
A moral (good) person would behave well because they are able to empathise with other people; being able to know that other people feel pain and hurt when they are treated badly, and as we understand how the pain feels ourselves, we do not wish to be the cause of pain to others, either.
I thought that the whole of Christian morality was structured around the Golden Rule; "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."?
In other words, "Don't be a selfish asshole because you wouldn't want to be treated that way by somebody else." Basic preeschool playground rules and lessons of reciprocity and empathy.
As you've described it, you seem to be operating under the philosophy of, "I shouldn't act like a selfish asshole because of bad things that may happen to ME if I do."
In other words, you are still only thinking of yourself.
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nator
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Message 21 of 180 (402976)
05-31-2007 7:01 AM
Reply to: Message 17 by anastasia
05-30-2007 8:58 PM


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The ability to empathise is just an ability, it is not a motivation.
I disagree.
It is an ability, and it is a motivation.
It also seems to be quite hard-wired into humans, and is only completely absent in a very small percentage of the population, whom we call "sociopaths". Such people generally have different brain anatomy than the rest of us.
Let me repeat your sentence, except with a different word:
The ability to feel hunger is just an ability, it is not a motivation [to eat].
Just as we evolved to feel hunger in order to motivate us to take on fuel for the operation of our bodies, we evolved to feel empathy in order to motivate us to live together in cohesive social groups. Certainly, the former preceeded the latter by quite a long time, but that is neither here nor there.
Both were advantageous for survival.

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nator
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Message 52 of 180 (403068)
05-31-2007 5:48 PM
Reply to: Message 27 by Taz
05-31-2007 11:38 AM


We absolutely do empathise as part of our human hard-wiring.
What changes is, as you have demonstrated, how large the groups we empathise with
And just because Someone can empathise doesn't mean they choose to act with empathy. There are often other considerations that compel people to choose to act otherwise.
I mever meant to imply that human social dynamics were simple!
[qs]Just as we evolved to feel hunger in order to motivate us to take on fuel for the operation of our bodies, we evolved to feel empathy in order to motivate us to live together in cohesive social groups.[/quote]
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I don't think so.
So tell me why people (especially mothers) nearly universally report feeling very strong anxiety when they see their children in pain?
Were they merely taught this by their society?

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nator
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Message 53 of 180 (403071)
05-31-2007 6:02 PM
Reply to: Message 31 by New Cat's Eye
05-31-2007 11:44 AM


In the way you've described yourself, it appears to me that you are an immoral person who is behaving well only because he fears being punished.
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That’s how most people are. Take away the punishments or penalties for the bad behavior and people are going to be bad.
Maybe the people you know...
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Ever been in a mosh pit? Its practically lawless in there. There’s guys in there groping girls and picking pockets. If your in a mosh pit trying to be nice to everyone, you’re going to get groped and robbed.
Or how about Mardi Gras or a riot? People go balls to the walls when there’s no penalties for their behavior.
Correction.
Mostly, it is young males who behave poorly, especially when they are under the influence of drugs or adrenaline or in a mob mentality situation.
I'm not talking about mobs or mosh pits. I'm talking about everyday, mundane life.
But as an aside, I have indeed been in a mosh pit or two. At the Lilith Fair, for example, I was never groped even though I was surrounded by lots of lesbians and quite a few men. I just went to a great English Beat show and was right down there in front dancing and jumping with everybody else and didn't have a problem. I even left my purse unattended at my seat.
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Most of the people I encounter are not “moral (good) persons” as you described above.
Maybe because like attracts like?
I mean, seriously, maybe you repell all of the nice people because you, yourself are a selfish asshole and they can sense that? Then, all that's left are the jerks.
I can usually spot such people a mile away and take pains to avoid dealing with them.
I do understand that where you live makes a big difference in the general quality of the people you encounter. However, I have lived in big and small cities and villages and there are all sorts to be found in all of them, both good and bad. I have never had a problem finding lots of good folks to be around.
I really don't mean to be harsh here. It is nothing you haven't already said about yourself.
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Message 54 of 180 (403073)
05-31-2007 6:13 PM
Reply to: Message 47 by New Cat's Eye
05-31-2007 4:13 PM


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There are a lot of people that have the ability to feel empathy, but are not empathetic and are good because of the penalties that are not sociopaths. I’m not saying these people have NO ability to feel empathy, just that they are not empathetic or don’t care to use their ability.
How can someone choose to not feel something, I wonder?
I mean, you can learn over time to not be strongly affected by something, like someone who kills and butchers food animals not freaking out, but how do you choose to not feel something?

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nator
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Message 56 of 180 (403078)
05-31-2007 6:46 PM
Reply to: Message 55 by anastasia
05-31-2007 6:37 PM


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Do you see what I am saying? Even with the known consequences of fornication, AND a belief in God as motivators, there are some drives that are so hard-wired that they are irrefutable. Being nice to people, that is a character developement. Morality is learned, remember?
And I will ask you to remember that human social interactions are c o m p l i c a t e d.
It is always a mix of nature and nurture.
(I think it is so cute that you call it "fornication". It makes me smile.)
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nator
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Message 59 of 180 (403132)
05-31-2007 9:35 PM
Reply to: Message 57 by Taz
05-31-2007 7:55 PM


Like others have already said, we all feel empathy for some group, unless we are sociopaths and feel no empathy at all.
Some people's group is very small, and other peoples' is very large, and still other peoples' fall somewhere in the middle of those two extremes.
What you have been talking about isn't empathy, it is "in-group/out-group" thinking.
Everybody has empathy for the people they consider a part of their "in-group".
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nator
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Message 62 of 180 (403141)
05-31-2007 11:27 PM
Reply to: Message 61 by anastasia
05-31-2007 9:54 PM


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I have my answer, which is: all men are a reflection of God and loved by God, and it is the will of God that we respect the life He has created. 'I do right because it is right' is lame-o answer, as is 'it is hard-wired into me' or 'I learned how' or 'I am afraid of the consequences'.
There is nothing more lame-o than an adult who resorts to invoking a woo-woo magical authoritarian parent to attempt to explain anything, including why we have morality.
I realize that you find a mundane, non-woo, incomplete (though fact-based) explanation unsatisfying, but hey, real life will never be able to compete with fantastic imagined supernatural fantasy.
Feel free to believe whatever makes you feel good. Of course, believing "what makes you feel good" is not likely to lead you to any truth about human psychology.

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nator
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Message 63 of 180 (403144)
05-31-2007 11:31 PM


What happens when you remove Faith? I'll tell you!
Well, the first thing that happened is that Iano quit the forum in protest.

  
nator
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Message 71 of 180 (403224)
06-01-2007 12:07 PM
Reply to: Message 64 by Modulous
06-01-2007 2:21 AM


Re: reasons to love, reasons to hate
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If schraf doesn't think humans are a warlike group of savages who care deeply for their own but care less and less for more distant groupings, then I disagree with schraf. However, I don't think schraf means that. Locally humans are very nice to each other.
You don't disagree with schraf.

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nator
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Message 78 of 180 (403345)
06-01-2007 11:03 PM
Reply to: Message 73 by anastasia
06-01-2007 4:25 PM


There is nothing more lame-o than an adult who resorts to invoking a woo-woo magical authoritarian parent to attempt to explain anything, including why we have morality.
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Why do you need to explain why we have morality? Isnt it obviously because we are not instinctually going to do good things?
But we do "instinctually" do good things for other people, most particularly within whatever we consider out "in-group" to be.
I realize that you find a mundane, non-woo, incomplete (though fact-based) explanation unsatisfying, but hey, real life will never be able to compete with fantastic imagined supernatural fantasy.
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Are you confused? We don't need an explanation for morality. We don't even agree on what is moral.
"Why do we have morality?" and "What is moral?" are two very different questions. The first is a very interesting question that is accessable to scientific inquiry. The second is philosophical and ethical in nature.
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I feel no competition between woo and no woo, it is all part of creation.
This makes no sense to me. It isn't a matter of competition, exactly, but of using the method of inquiry that is the most reliable at discovering useful and verifiable truths.
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So, what are your motives for respecting others?
Part social rules and part hard-wiring.
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To learn about human psychology?
Curiosity.
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Morality does not seek to explain or learn about human behaviour, it is a thing which we create to rectify and utilize the range of human behaviour. The question I asked was 'why'?
Morality allows us to live together in peace and cooperation, and that is a evolutionary survival advantage. By "us", I am referring to our "in-group", however small or large we decide to make it.
Feel free to believe whatever makes you feel good. Of course, believing "what makes you feel good" is not likely to lead you to any truth about human psychology.
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I am really not looking for a science experiment, I am looking for a way of living that produces people motivated to care for each other.
why do you think they must be mutually exclusive? Don't you think that understanding the basis and extent of the evolutionary origins of behavior might help us live better?
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I have not found that any of the books I have read on spirituality or on God-based behaviour modification, have been without great insight. If I look to my own behaviour and follow these guides, I can see real true visible results in the lives of people around me. I don't know what is less woo-woo than results.
Following woo-woo guidelines doesn't help us understand, though.
Hell, all you are doing is following social rules that happen to have a supernatural parent attached to them as a motivator.
"Don't misbehave otherwise you will make God sad" is barely different from "Don't misbehave otherwise you will make Mommy and Daddy sad."
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Being moral isn't complicated. It is not about human social interactions. It is about one's self.
Tthat is just wrong. Being moral has everything to do with human social interactions. Human social interactions are the whole point of morals, in fact.
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It doesn't need explanation, it needs motivation.
You aren't the least bit curious about why certain cultures and eras embrace entirely different moral beliefs, or why we have such a strong "in-group/out-group" connection to our morals, and why some people are able to resist following orders that go against their moral rules and other people simply comply, or why, when put into a prisoner/guard situation, almost everyone seems to fall into the roles?
I think there is a huge amount of knowledge to be gained in this area of study and it is sad that you don't seem to care to discover any of it.

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nator
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Message 83 of 180 (403382)
06-02-2007 8:16 AM
Reply to: Message 79 by anastasia
06-02-2007 12:29 AM


But we do "instinctually" do good things for other people, most particularly within whatever we consider out "in-group" to be.
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Do you remember, or do you not? Turning the other cheek and loving thy neighbor is NOT about an in group. half of the parables Jesus told were about loving the outcast, the Gentile, the sinner. ANYONE can love an in-group. That's not morality.
LOL!!!
That's right. ANYONE can love members of their in group, which indicates that there is an inborn aspect to morality.
All Jesus was doing was trying to get people to expand the size of their in-group. That is, of course, in sharp contrast to what Yaweh directed his people to do. Yaweh was all about having "his chosen people" (a small, select in-group) exterminate or enslave the out-groups.
"Why do we have morality?" and "What is moral?" are two very different questions. The first is a very interesting question that is accessable to scientific inquiry. The second is philosophical and ethical in nature.
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For the sake of this converstion, I don't think we need to dwell on what is or is not moral.
Agreed, so that means that your objection, "We can't even agree on what is moral, so it isn't worthwhile studying why we have a moral sense at all." is retracted yes?
This makes no sense to me. It isn't a matter of competition, exactly, but of using the method of inquiry that is the most reliable at discovering useful and verifiable truths.
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So, you want to scientifically discover what is moral?
No. As I explained, science can't do that.
What science can do, however, is figure out why we are moral and how morality impacts people's lives. These discoveries are the "useful and verifiable truths" I was referring to. What philosophers come up with regarding "what is moral?" are not verifiable, and not always useful. That's the problem with philosophy. Anybody can just make one up using any justification they like.
Part social rules and part hard-wiring.
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Come on, would you respect a person who told you that they were moral because it was hard-wired into them, or because society wanted them to be? Lucky you.
I don't even understand what this is supposed to mean.
And notice that I said "part social rules and part hard-wiring". You changed my statement to; " social rules or hard-wiring."
Morality allows us to live together in peace and cooperation, and that is a evolutionary survival advantage. By "us", I am referring to our "in-group", however small or large we decide to make it.
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Hm. Cooperation allows us to live together in harmony. We could harmoniously cooperate to do what was immoral. I don't believe that morality is dependant on a group.
Morality is determined by groups.
That is why we see that moral values differ across cultures and have changed over time within cultures.
Morality is relative, and always has been. There is no absolute morality. Or, rather, there is no way of determining what that absolute morality is if it exists. The result is the same as if there were no absolute morality.
why do you think they must be mutually exclusive? Don't you think that understanding the basis and extent of the evolutionary origins of behavior might help us live better?
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I think that morality concerns what we do NOW, regardless of what got us to this point.
My husband is a scientist and currently studies how people learn. It turns out that most people consistently misunderstand certain scientific concepts in the same way. We make quite predictable comprehension mistakes, in other words.
The research that he is doing is intended to eventually be used to develop better ways to teach those scientific concepts, because if we understand the why we have those particular "mental blocks", we can figure out ways to compensate for them when we teach those concepts people find difficult and non-intuitive.
If we apply your logic to this situation, we shouldn't bother trying to identify or understand why people generally have trouble with certain concepts and we should just concern ourselves with the way we teach those concepts NOW.
In other words, applying your logic, you also shouldn't believe that we can improve our teaching methods through greater understanding of how people learn.
Following woo-woo guidelines doesn't help us understand, though.
Hell, all you are doing is following social rules that happen to have a supernatural parent attached to them as a motivator.
"Don't misbehave otherwise you will make God sad" is barely different from "Don't misbehave otherwise you will make Mommy and Daddy sad."
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What exactly are you trying to understand?
Why do we have a moral sense? How does this moral sense manifest in people and how does it affect us as individuals and in groups? At what age does it seem to appear and how are people different in that regard, etc., etc., etc.
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What do you need to know so badly that hasn't been answered already in 'love thy neighbor'?
That isn't an answer to any of my questions. That is merely a directive.
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And how is one person's version of loving more woo woo than the next? What did Ma Theresa do wrong? Did she understand human nature, or did she not?
I don't understand what this is trying to convey.
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No one is talking about making God sad. Morality is about making ourselves sad.
That's not what I see in this thread, sorry.
That is just wrong. Being moral has everything to do with human social interactions. Human social interactions are the whole point of morals, in fact.
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No, I think that morality is not about others. It can be judged by others, and applied to others, but it is essentially the etiquette of the soul.
What is etiquette?
etiquette 1. conventional requirements as to social behavior; proprieties of conduct as established in any class or community or for any occasion.
It is still all about how we treat and behave around others.
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It is a thing that you can only do by looking to yourself, and discerning your own selfish and prideful side. If you look well to yourself, all of the rest will follow.
But morality and ettiquite are meaningless without other people around!
You aren't the least bit curious about why certain cultures and eras embrace entirely different moral beliefs, or why we have such a strong "in-group/out-group" connection to our morals, and why some people are able to resist following orders that go against their moral rules and other people simply comply, or why, when put into a prisoner/guard situation, almost everyone seems to fall into the roles?
I think there is a huge amount of knowledge to be gained in this area of study and it is sad that you don't seem to care to discover any of it.
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Let me know when the results of the studies come in, so that I may figure out how to live life as a good person. NATOR!!!! Do you really think we can wait around for curiousity and scientific enquiry? Morality is about how you live life now, as an ignorant person, as an uneducated person, as a HUMAN. It's not a science.
Sure it is about now, but when we know and understand better, we can do better. It is an ongoing process.
That doesn't mean we wait around until we know everything about where morality comes from, and I have no idea how you figured I was saying that from anything I've written.
What I am saying is that we should incorporate real knowledge about human behavior into our concepts of morality and how to teach them more effectively.
Relying on woo or philosophy exclusively means that anyone who is charismatic and promises heavenly rewards can get people to do all sorts of fucked up things in the name of morality.
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nator
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Message 86 of 180 (403444)
06-02-2007 7:45 PM
Reply to: Message 84 by anastasia
06-02-2007 6:38 PM


When you say things like:
quote:
Basically science has started with the philosophy that loving others is good.
...I realize that you still are having trouble with the difference between the two questions, "What is moral?", and, "Why do we have morals?"
The first is unanswerable by science as I have already explained.
The second is something science can address.
Science has started with, "Hey, we notice that humans have a moral sense. We wonder where it comes from, what it's effects are, and how it manifests differently in individuals and groups. Let's investigate."
Science does NOT start with "loving others is good". It would more accurately say something like, "In culture X, it is observed that love for others within their in-group is generally held as a moral value."
Likewise, science can observe a different culture and observe the same phenomena but that the in-group was larger or smaller or excluded different ethnicities or religious groups than in Culture X.
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Is that the 'hard-wired' part?
No. Humans almost universally follow some kind of moral code, regardless of the form that code takes. The Nazis had a moral code, the Crusaders had a moral code, the Spartans had a moral code, the southern slave owners had a moral code. We know that when people are brain damaged or abnormal in certain areas, they become immoral or amoral. We know that social higher primates are very aware of concepts like fairness and reciprocity.
All of that is the "hard-wired" part.
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Many teachers including Jesus have suggested that a large ingroup is of prime importance. I should like to know why you have chosen to embrace this thought as well.
Makes sense.

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Message 87 of 180 (403445)
06-02-2007 7:50 PM
Reply to: Message 85 by anastasia
06-02-2007 7:29 PM


Re: Greed
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In general, as you say, the deed can still be a good one, but it is very hard to judge the morality of a person based on externals. If you concur with this thought, you will see why I repeat that morality is personal, and not social.
All of your examples of good or bad morality involve social situations, though.
Don't you find that contradictory to your contention that morality has nothing to do with social interaction?

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Message 90 of 180 (403465)
06-03-2007 7:45 AM
Reply to: Message 88 by anastasia
06-02-2007 8:50 PM


Re: Greed
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My personal moral code includes the way I behave privately and towards God. This is a big part of morality for a Christian. If we look at the Bible, we are asked to love God first, and love our neighbor as ourselves. God and self are definitely included in the goal.
That still sounds like social interaction to me, especially the "love our neighbor as ourselves" part.
Your "behaving towards God" part is also described in a social interaction manner, as if God were a person that is affected by how we treat them.
It simply makes no sense for you to say that morality has nothing to do with social interactions when the only way you can describe morality is through the language of social interaction.

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