Basically, I just told you I would mind, but somehow you seem to think that the opposite is actually how I really feel.
What part of, "I would very much mind!" don't you understand?
Sorry, I guess I meant "you" in the general sense of "a person", not you specifically. Plenty of men don't mind their circumcisions. Ergo it's probably the case for plenty of people that if they don't have something, and never did, they don't miss it.
It wasn't my intent to dictate to you what you would or would not mind. But I see that it came off that way. Sorry.
I am more interested in your thoughts about the parents of an infant getting his or her eyelids "fixed" to make them appear less "asian" and more "white". Do you think that's OK?
I'd be more concerned about what kind of culture would cause two people to feel that that was something they needed to have done to their child. With no knowledge of what culture they're in I can't really say whether it's ok or not. But in the culture I'm in, no, that's not ok, it's kind of racist, or even perverse.