Well, let's give it a try. I kinda thought that was where you were heading.
This reminds me of many an evening back when I was a lad. We argued these very same issues and even convinced ourselves that they were important. But it is amazing what is important to you when your 15 or so. It's fun returning to them and looking at the issues from a different perspective.
Ok, so how when it comes to be an afterlife do your thoughts, beliefs and memories come to be carried forward?
Unfortunately, nobody knows.
Frankly, the brain is likely the place and tool of thought. Thought, knowledge, memories and the mechanics involved are wondrous but beyond my poor understanding. I am a simple, poorly educated individual. While a view into the mind of many might show an orderly fileroom, with cabinets and indexing, row upon row, a similar glimpse into my mind would more likely show Fibber Mcgee's closet or even a Dagwood sandwich.
Perhaps you can help me.
If there is a GOD, is GOD aware?
Aslan is not a Tame Lion