There really aren't any difficulties in the questions you raise. Let me take just one example:
The plants or the insects that live on and pollinate plants?
The oldest plants were pollinated by wind blown pollen. There are still many wind pollinated plants around today.
What happened is called co-evolution. The plants and the insects evolved together. Some insects fed on flowers, and accidently carried pollen. The plants evolved to make use of this, both by making the flowers more attractive to insects, and by making their pollen sticky so that the would better attach to the insects. There were then further successive stages of co-evolution.
Your question seems to be based on the assumption that the different things evolved independently, one before the other. But, for most of your questions, there was a co-evolution of several things.
For your RNA/DNA question, I'm not sure if a certain answer is known. Some biologists believe that RNA based systems evolved first, and the DNA mechanism evolved later. (I'm not a biologist. Somebody will correct me if I have that wrong).
For your lung question, the first creatures with lungs were aquatic. The lungs gave them additional ways to get oxygen. I'm not sure about your idea of "perfect mixture of gases". The creatures evolved to be able to make use of the atmosphere that was available.
The answers to your other questions are similar. For the moment, I will leave them for you to think about.