holmes writes me:
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I completely apologize for having missed this post earlier. I hope its not too late for you to catch.
Not at all too late, I wasn't expecting a quick reply. We're suddenly having beautiful weather here in Mississippi and I'm not sitting around the computer much myself. I've wanted to post here at evc more often, but my time is more limited lately, and I feel compelled to try and make sure no one has already made the comment I want to make. By the time I do that sometimes I find I don't have time to make my points adequately so I don't post anything.
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I'm not sure what you mean by conjugal rights. Do you mean for exclusivity to a certain partner?
Yes, some sort of legal contract by which one can exchange conjugal rights with another person or persons and which can provide for damages to be awarded in the event of a renege.
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Since you said you didn't like the idea, what do you find troubling about it?
I'm not quite sure, it's just that I've always suspected that nihilistic arguments are a little bit too seductive. When I hear one, for some reason I can never satisfy myself that I've completely grasped the logic. So I'm like you, I suppose, in that I think I prefer the all-civil-unions option.
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It'll be interesting to see how the case goes. The judge said she'll have to consider the argument that my being American creates a difference where there is none considered in their own laws. Not sure if my case will end up being precedent setting, or there is some obscure case the judge will follow.
I'm sure that the very little most of us Americans know about Dutch law is what we learned from watching the Natalie Holloway case on television, so if your judge indeed cites a case it's certain to be an obscure one to us. It does sound like an interesting case you've got there. Please keep us informed about it.