How/why did so many people insist that the latter was the only proper interpretation? And so much so that not moderating NJ because of it was reason enough to abandon the forum?
Because it is a touchy subject that inspires a great deal of very personal feeling and strong opinions with seemingly little opportunity for middle ground or more sensitive use of language to make the same points.
That and the fact that once a perceived injustice has been committed a loss of perspective ensues and people start to interpret every little thing as supportive of their case.
IMHO.