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Author Topic:   Hypocrisy at funerals
jar
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Message 3 of 58 (575546)
08-20-2010 12:11 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by hooah212002
08-18-2010 3:27 PM


For me personally, it hammered home the reality that any thought of an afterlife is simply there as a consolation factor.
Is there anything wrong with consoling the sorrowful?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 5 of 58 (575556)
08-20-2010 1:18 PM
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08-20-2010 12:56 PM


If what they were saying is actually what they believe to be true, where is the hypocrisy?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 7 of 58 (575558)
08-20-2010 1:29 PM
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08-20-2010 1:26 PM


Okay, and I certainly understand you feel that way but was it really hypocrisy?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 9 of 58 (575561)
08-20-2010 1:39 PM
Reply to: Message 8 by hooah212002
08-20-2010 1:30 PM


I suppose what it appears to me is that EVERYONE goes to heaven when it comes down to it, thus negating any necessity for doing any good or having any morals, which is what the christians (for the most part) claim to have: moral superiority. If there is no real fear of damnation, why the need for any salvation? Oh, to pretend to feel good about something, right?
Quite honestly no one has a clue who will be saved and who will not. In addition, people have the capacity to forgive even very great wrongs. Is it unreasonable to think a god might be at least as forgiving as humans? Even you seem to have cared enough about this person to have attended his funeral.
But still, where is the hypocrisy?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 12 of 58 (575568)
08-20-2010 1:55 PM
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08-20-2010 1:47 PM


Not really. I cannot guess what the person was taught but I still see no hypocrisy.
Not sure why a baby raping cannibal shouldn't go to heaven.
The point is, if they believe that the person is in heaven or even hope that the person was forgiven ad is in heaven, where is the hypocrisy?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 13 of 58 (575570)
08-20-2010 1:56 PM
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08-20-2010 1:49 PM


Oh, the same guy who supposedly punished all of humanity for one bitch eating an apple? Yea, that guy is real forgiving all right. We aren't talking about "a" god here. These people were christians, so they were not speaking of "a" god. They were talking about jesus himself and his daddy YHWH (if there is a difference).
Yes, I don't doubt that is what you believe but so far the only hypocrisy I find in the story is YOUR behavior.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 16 of 58 (575575)
08-20-2010 2:04 PM
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08-20-2010 1:59 PM


The others went to the funeral because they believe or hope that the person is forgiven by God. There is no hypocrisy in their behavior.
However you went and participated even though you do NOT believe in what the service was about or even seem to hope that the person is forgiven and in a better place. That is hypocritical.
They may well be inconsistent, wrong, deluded about the subject but none of those rises to the level of hypocrisy.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 17 of 58 (575576)
08-20-2010 2:06 PM
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08-20-2010 2:04 PM


Again, even if that were true, it is irrelevant to this topic. The issue is "Hypocrisy at funerals".
BUT, almost all Christian groups recognize that salvation is a function of God's Grace. Nothing in there precludes forgiveness.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 30 of 58 (575600)
08-20-2010 3:06 PM
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08-20-2010 2:19 PM


The hypocrisy is at the religious level, in that, as Huntard pointed out, the religious (christians for the sake of this discussion) claim moral superiority due to their salvation.
Again, that is still not hypocrisy.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 32 of 58 (575604)
08-20-2010 3:11 PM
Reply to: Message 31 by Straggler
08-20-2010 3:08 PM


Re: What Would You Have Me Do?
I'm not sure in that situation that being hypocritical is not the correct response.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 37 of 58 (575612)
08-20-2010 3:17 PM


I'm saying that none of the believers at the funeral were being hypocritical. They may well be inconsistent, incorrect, inept, even illogical, but none of those rise to hypocrisy.
They are following through on their personal hopes and beliefs.
The problem is that you set the topic as "Hypocrisy at funerals" and so far have not presented many examples that fit that topic except your participation in the funeral.
If you had made the topic "hooah212002s hypocrisy at a funeral" then it would have been both relevant and accurate. I also think it would be perfectly correct behavior and the right thing to do.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 39 of 58 (575615)
08-20-2010 3:21 PM
Reply to: Message 38 by Straggler
08-20-2010 3:19 PM


Re: What Would You Have Me Do?
Of course. You've never been married I guess.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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Message 46 of 58 (575623)
08-20-2010 3:35 PM
Reply to: Message 42 by Straggler
08-20-2010 3:26 PM


Re: What Would You Have Me Do?
Just wait. Successful marriages are built upon the hypocrisy of the husband.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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jar
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From: Texas!!
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Message 52 of 58 (575635)
08-20-2010 3:58 PM
Reply to: Message 50 by Straggler
08-20-2010 3:38 PM


Re: What Would You Have Me Do?
When the wife shows you her latest dress it does flatter her and always looks good. Period.
When you have a child your child is the most wonderful child ever. Period.
You will always love your child even when you want to wring their neck. Period.
Life is often filled with hypocrisy of convenience or kindness.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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