A funeral is a cultural tradition and ritual.
One should think of a funeral speech as a ritual performance, rather than as a statement of belief. It is more important that it conform to the traditions, than that it express truth.
Personally, I hate rituals. But sometimes one is obliged to participate in them.
hooah212002 writes:I find it odd that through all he had done negatively in life and the fact that he committed suicide that they still decided to think of him as being in an allegedly wonderful place that heaven is purported to be. For me personally, it hammered home the reality that any thought of an afterlife is simply there as a consolation factor.
This sort of looking on the positive side is part of the tradition. When you think about it, there isn't much point in continuing to bear a grudge against somebody who has died.