I feel like a huge loser for even considering this possibility, but I am at my wits end. Has anyone ever had experience with these sites and are they a scam as I suspect they are?
1. Don't feel like a loser. Lots of people do online dating.
2. The old saying holds true: "If it seems to good to be true it probably is."
3. If you want to attract a gal, be charming, considerate, smile more. You'd be surprised what a smile can do. Open your eyes when your out and about and again, smile more. It makes you more approachable and gives you more confidence. The ladies can sense desparation and bullshit for miles.
4. Say hello and strike up a conversation and get the contact info. You will miss 100 percent of the chances you dont take. And stay local, nothing is worse than meeting that right gal and not being able to see her regularly.
Happy hunting.
"You were not there for the beginning. You will not be there for the end. Your knowledge of what is going on can only be superficial and relative" William S. Burroughs